Freddy My Love

[MrsJennings]

Her racist tweets were something along the lines of her complaining she had to stand on the tube and saying “give me your seat you large horrid Indian man.”
Then another one about walking through London being like “spot the white man” and about her feeling intimidated by this.
She obviously read the guru gossip forum because once people found them they were very quickly deleted.

I do feel for her a little with the video, she’s obviously very disappointed in her life and that she’s gained weight. Otherwise she wouldn’t feel the need to justify any of it.
But things like the tweets above and her snobby, conceited attitude just make any sympathy I would have for her disappear.
She’s very pretty, but I think over the years the compliments she has received have all gone to her head and as a result she thinks she’s much better than she actually is. It’s like that school girl attitude of “I’m pretty, therefore I am”. It gets very sad when you forget to develop a real personality in the process.

 

[anonymoususerhere]

I do feel for her a little with the video, she’s obviously very disappointed in her life and that she’s gained weight. Otherwise she wouldn’t feel the need to justify any of it.
But things like the tweets above and her snobby, conceited attitude just make any sympathy I would have for her disappear.
She’s very pretty, but I think over the years the compliments she has received have all gone to her head and as a result she thinks she’s much better than she actually is. It’s like that school girl attitude of “I’m pretty, therefore I am”. It gets very sad when you forget to develop a real personality in the process.

Tbh I didn't notice her weight gain until she pointed it out herself (I know I must be blind if everyone else noticed lol). I mean its totally understandable to grow into your curves as you get older, but it seems like Freddy has a hard time embracing her physical changes. Its not like she's even remotely big, or even anywhere near it. She's got a lovely figure but I think she has always wanted to maintain the figure she had when she was a teenager, which is unrealistic to most people tbh. Its just natural for our body to change as we grow older

I agree about the pretty comments getting to her head. Perhaps she feels the pressure to live up to the image that people have created of her--which is this pretty, Barbie princess. And she's afraid to ever lose out on the compliments cos she feels very validated by it, almost like her entire existence revolves around it. Someone needs to bring her back down to reality.

I just about found some time to watch her latest video. She actually revealed alot of details in it, I highly recommend anyone here to watch it if you're wanting to know more about her personal life.

My thoughts on her latest video: I kinda understand now why she only uploads once a week and why she always finds it 'stressful' to work. I imagine that Freddy is really trying to keep her personal life separate from YouTube, which is hard to do, so she's constantly thinking of content and scripts for her videos that do not reveal too much of her life or don't give her viewers much to criticize on. Prepping for her videos probably takes longer than some other YouTubers because she has to dissect every sentence in her video to make sure that she doesn't reveal too much unnecessary detail and that she doesn't say the 'wrong' thing. Her videos are fully rehearsed, and I think she plays up her sassy persona for her videos too. Uploading more than once a week gives her more work to do, as in she has to think of a suitable content and has to double her workload on dissecting her videos. These are just my assumptions.

In the video, she mentioned that she hasn't changed since 2018 and I chuckled at that. I don't think she changed for the better but some parts of her personality did get worse to date. She also mentioned that no one makes her laugh like Amy does, and I kinda felt for Josie when she said that cos Josie's comment in the video is the top comment (she said that she and Freddy should travel together again), imagine someone saying that ifo you when you expect to receive the same compliment. I would have imagined that with all the traveling together, Josie would be the one to make Freddy laugh the most, or even JJ, really.

Freddy said that she upped her YouTube game during the first few months of lockdown because 'there was nothing else to do' but it left her tired and stressed when she did that. So she is indirectly admitting that her work doesn't go much beyond answering emails and prancing around in her room?

I liked that she was more personal in this video because we don't get much of that from her regular videos. It did make me understand her a bit better, but it also showed me that she has failed to realize her privilege in working for herself. In the video, she mentioned all the trips she was able to go on for the past 2 years and I think she forgot just how lucky she is to be in a position where she can afford and is able to do so. I feel like she'd be a very hard person to work with in a corporate environment so thank goodness she's not in one.

She did reveal some very interesting information though, like how she loves her current relationship dynamic with JJ (they're currently long distance I think, I've always assumed that she's clingy in their relationship), JJ can work from anywhere (no one here knows whats his actual job is right? I assumed that he has to stay in a place where he can gain recognition and secure gigs as an artist), she wants to live alone and not together with JJ when she moves out (she wants to have the chance to live somewhere alone and independent for once in her life), she hasn't been ready to move out of her family home til recently (I wonder why though, I assumed she stayed in her parents' home to save up for her own property, which is also one of the reasons that she mentioned).

At the end of the video, she said that there will be many career changes for her in 2021. When she said that, the first thought that came to my mind is that she's going to launch her own line of a product, maybe clothes? Or launch a collection in collaboration with one of her favorite brands. Moving out of her parents' home is one change that some of us have already guessed. She said she feels like she has already reached the peak of her YouTube career (reaching 1 million subs which was her YT goal and having the honor of working with all her favourite brands), so I feel like the next big (plausible) career goal for her is to launch her own line of a product. She's moving away from her YT (not quitting altogether) and onto bigger goals which could also possibly mean acting? I mean I'm just pulling guesses out of my butt at this point

I'd be a super long post (than it already is LMAO) if I were to give every thought I have on the video. It was a pretty long video to go through (50 mins); I'd be super interested to know what you guys' thoughts are on it!

 

[judgejohndeed]

I was really struck by how weird her relationship with JJ is after 5 years tbh. I know she’s still young but to say they don’t want to live together because she’s sad when she has to leave him and wants to keep missing him - wtf? I feel like they won’t last if and when they ever do live together. Her whole spiel about not wanting to get married was weird too and didn’t seem authentic, I think she would love the opportunity to plan a huge OTT pink wedding, maybe JJ doesn’t want to get married anytime soon (again they’re young so doesn’t exactly matter)

 

[lira]

I was really struck by how weird her relationship with JJ is after 5 years tbh. I know she’s still young but to say they don’t want to live together because she’s sad when she has to leave him and wants to keep missing him - wtf? I feel like they won’t last if and when they ever do live together. Her whole spiel about not wanting to get married was weird too and didn’t seem authentic, I think she would love the opportunity to plan a huge OTT pink marriage, maybe JJ doesn’t want to get married anytime soon (again they’re young so doesn’t exactly matter)

I don't really know what her and JJ are like but it seems as though she likes idealising the relationship - it's a lot easier to do this when you're not living together and see each other at your worst, particularly during lockdown. It can't be about independence since she still relies on her parents for cooking, cleaning etc.

 

[anonymoususerhere]

I was really struck by how weird her relationship with JJ is after 5 years tbh. I know she’s still young but to say they don’t want to live together because she’s sad when she has to leave him and wants to keep missing him - wtf? I feel like they won’t last if and when they ever do live together. Her whole spiel about not wanting to get married was weird too and didn’t seem authentic, I think she would love the opportunity to plan a huge OTT pink marriage, maybe JJ doesn’t want to get married anytime soon (again they’re young so doesn’t exactly matter)

I had a feeling that JJ doesn't want to get married anytime soon as well. Maybe Freddy has openly expressed to JJ her interest to get married sometime in the next few years in the past but JJ has somehow managed to 'convince' her that its not the time for it yet. Perhaps his job doesn't allow him to do so cos getting married usually means settling down in one place and I don't think he plans on doing that yet, what with the nature of his job. And yeah, they're still young so they still have time for it anyway. But the part where she said she likes their current relationship dynamic baffled me as well tbh. There was a part where she mentioned 'fiance' but didn't imply that JJ would be hers. Some parts of the video definitely had me confused!

 

[judgejohndeed]

I don't really know what her and JJ are like but it seems as though she likes idealising the relationship - it's a lot easier to do this when you're not living together and see each other at your worst, particularly during lockdown. It can't be about independence since she still relies on her parents for cooking, cleaning etc.

Yeah they have a relationship that seems very teenagery? They haven’t actually seen the day to day of each other apart from a month on holiday in LA. She said she wanted to live alone because she’s never moved out and she wants to experience what it’s like to live alone in her own house, then made this weird comment like ‘if you’re going to be together forever what’s the rush to live together’ and I was like ...wat

There was a part where she mentioned 'fiance' but didn't imply that JJ would be hers. Some parts of the video definitely had me confused!

Yes I noticed that too! All very weird

 

[misty-y2k]

For those asking people spoke about her racist tweets in her first thread on GuruGossiper, I think they start at page 8. I just went on there to check and a lot of the screenshots aren’t available anymore but people discuss what she says in them so you’ll probably be able to get a rough idea of what was said. One of the comments on the thread (i think page 10) says that her exact words were “large horrid indian man”. She was also 17/18 during the time she tweeted this tit so old enough to know better.
From the comments it’s also apparant that she was tweeting a lot of sexist and misogynistic tit. Idk if she still does this but she used to pretend she lived in some huge London house and people found out that she was lying and she wasn’t nearly as wealthy as she pretended to be.

 

[anonymoususerhere]

Yeah they have a relationship that seems very teenagery? They haven’t actually seen the day to day of each other apart from a month on holiday in LA. She said she wanted to live alone because she’s never moved out and she wants to experience what it’s like to live alone in her own house, then made this weird comment like ‘if you’re going to be together forever what’s the rush to live together’ and I was like ...wat

Ehh this actually reminds me of what Carrie and Big did in SATC 2, where Big suggested that he live in Carrie's old apartment several days a week and live in their apartment that they share together the remaining days of the week, all in an effort to 'revive' their relationship. I wonder if Freddy feels the same way; she prefers to have a LDR with JJ so that whenever they meet up again, they feel the 'sparkle' of their relationship but can't live together 24/7 for fear of feeling smothered by the other one. Like they still want to have the comfort of having a S/O in their lives but not enough to give up their freedom. If this is the case then I don't think their relationship will survive in the long run. Let's not forget that it was Freddy who chased after JJ, and they already broke up once in the past.

She’s Alfie’s cousin?! She used to like tweets shipping them, what a weirdo

She's not haha the person got it wrong!

 

[basicgurl]

I can see where you’re coming from with that but to the eye she looks a classic pear to me. Her top half is much smaller than her bottom, she isn’t busty (again not all hourglasses will have the huge bust and bum of the Kardashians but hourglasses have larger chests on the whole) and she carries/gains weight on her bottom half. Whether her measurements are technically hourglass doesn’t seem to matter, it’s not how she looks at all. If someone else had the same width shoulders and hips but then their torso was all the same (no defined waist for example) they wouldn’t be an hourglass shape either? I personally think she would look much better if she dressed for a pear shape. The fact that she’s posted her measurements to ‘prove’ she is the most ‘desirable’ shape is a bit pathetic anyway IMO.
Yeah I’ve always thought she looked nice in trousers. Would love to see her in some nice black jeans tbh.

OMG Home girl has gone off the rails she thinks she has the most desirable shape ????? where did she post theses measurements? i never thought she was that desperate god save us

 

[judgejohndeed]

OMG Home girl has gone off the rails she thinks she has the most desirable shape ????? where did she post theses measurements? i never thought she was that desperate god save us

I didn't see it, someone else said she posted them in comments or in a video maybe? I'm not sure.
I almost felt sorry for her in the 2020 video when she said about gaining weight and worrying about her thighs...but I can't condone that she's still pretending to be a size 8 in that case. I think anyone with eyes can see she is not a UK size 8. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But I do take issue with her knowing she's gained a significant amount of weight (again, no issue with that because she was extremely thin/UK size 6 when she started youtube and I personally think she looks better now) but to pretend she's only put on one size in the last 5 years is ridiculous and damaging. I would say she's a 10 top and 10-12 bottom now, still far smaller than the UK average of a 16 so I dunno what her damage is frankly.

 

[anonymoususerhere]

OMG Home girl has gone off the rails she thinks she has the most desirable shape ????? where did she post theses measurements? i never thought she was that desperate god save us

It was in her personal shopper video. She replied to one of the comments that were rebutting her statement saying she's an hourglass, so she posted her measurement to prove that she is in fact hourglass shaped and not pear. I'll try to go back and see if I can find it, will include the ss here if I come across the comment.

Edit: Found it! Also found the comments I was referring to in my previous posts.

I think she definitely reads her gossip forums, btw. Even though she was very adamant about not reading any of it in her latest video Some of the things she clarified were just too way on par with what has been said on here.

 

[basicgurl]

It was in her personal shopper video. She replied to one of the comments that were rebutting her statement saying she's an hourglass, so she posted her measurement to prove that she is in fact hourglass shaped and not pear. I'll try to go back and see if I can find it, will include the ss here if I come across the comment.

Edit: Found it! Also found the comments I was referring to in my previous posts.

I think she definitely reads her gossip forums, btw. Even though she was very adamant about not reading any of it in her latest video Some of the things she clarified were just too way on par with what has been said on here.

Wow she's really witchy and nasty to ppl being very respectful when saying she's not an hourglass, guess they hit a nerve there Showing her true colors i guess

 

[PettyBettyBoop]

I feel like JJ and her have both been dancing around the idea of marriage. Nothing wrong. Both are still very young. However, their relationship will hit rock bottom once they both stop living in the honeymoon phase because essentially that’s what they are doing. They enjoy the company but kinda don’t want the strings attached to it per say because relationships are essentially work (compromising, sharing, learning, sacrificing, tolerating quirks, help, etc). LDR have their pros and cons but they way she describes it, it’s as almost like they are always on their best behavior when they see each other and refuses to allow the actual relationship get real (when they have to be around each other 24/7daily). I don’t know about y’all I still get excited to see my husband at the end of the day and sad when he leaves to work in the morning.

There is either something off or she just doesn’t want to share more about her relationship than she already does out of fear. Honestly, it’s truly none of our business and she’s choosing to keep part of her life separate unlike her beige friend who belittles her fiancé on the daily in million vlogs a week last year.

 

[anonymoususerhere]

Wow she's really witchy and nasty to ppl being very respectful when saying she's not an hourglass, guess they hit a nerve there Showing her true colors i guess

There's a LOT more where that came from if you're willing to go through the comments. Not too hard to find cos Freddy religiously replies to comments, no matter how old the video is. Part of her daily 'work' I guess lmao

 

[PettyBettyBoop]

Wow she's really witchy and nasty to ppl being very respectful when saying she's not an hourglass, guess they hit a nerve there Showing her true colors i guess

She’s snappy alright. She’s told fans that she doesn’t own them a damn thing or posts passive aggressive comments when she gets called out.

 

[anonymoususerhere]

I feel like JJ and her have both been dancing around the idea of marriage. Nothing wrong. Both are still very young. However, their relationship will hit rock bottom once they both stop living in the honeymoon phase because essentially that’s what they are doing. They enjoy the company but kinda don’t want the strings attached to it per say because relationships are essentially work. LDR have their pros and cons but they way she describes it, it’s as almost like they are always on their best behavior when they see each other and refuses to allow the actual relationship get real (when they have to be around each other 24/7daily). I don’t know about y’all I still get excited to see my husband at the end of the day and sad when he leaves to work in the morning.

There is either something off or she just doesn’t want to share more about her relationship than she already does out of fear. Honestly, it’s truly none of our business and she’s choosing to keep part of her life separate unlike her beige friend who belittles her fiancé on the daily in million vlogs a week last year.

Couldn't have said it better myself!

 

[basicgurl]

There's a LOT more where that came from if you're willing to go through the comments. Not too hard to find cos Freddy religiously replies to comments, no matter how old the video is. Part of her daily 'work' I guess lmao

Aaaaah that explains why she's so exhausted all the time and witching about it, and to think she doesn't have a real job xD replying to innocent comments while pretending to be a blair walrdorf and exposing all her insecurities and how under educated she is is reaaal wooork

 

[princessxena]

i was just reading through the thread and saw how she thought of herself as Blair Waldorf, and people said she was more of a Serena or Jenny from Gossip Girl. but i just realised, she’s actually Juliet from Gossip Girl, because she used to pretend that she was richer than she was in this big London House according the tweets from years ago, and on top of that she keeps the labels on and returns her clothes just like Juliet just to show people lmao.

 

[basicgurl]

i was just reading through the thread and saw how she thought of herself as Blair Waldorf, and people said she was more of a Serena or Jenny from Gossip Girl. but i just realised, she’s actually Juliet from Gossip Girl, because she used to pretend that she was richer than she was in this big London House according the tweets from years ago, and on top of that she keeps the labels on and returns her clothes just like Juliet just to show people lmao.

xD The most spot on comparison ever pathetic social climber wanna be sloanie

 

[SaltyCaramelTart]

It was in her personal shopper video. She replied to one of the comments that were rebutting her statement saying she's an hourglass, so she posted her measurement to prove that she is in fact hourglass shaped and not pear. I'll try to go back and see if I can find it, will include the ss here if I come across the comment.

Edit: Found it! Also found the comments I was referring to in my previous posts.

I think she definitely reads her gossip forums, btw. Even though she was very adamant about not reading any of it in her latest video Some of the things she clarified were just too way on par with what has been said on here.

The measurement for her hips is for a 10-12
The measurement for her waist is a 10.
I never measure my shoulders, only bust, because bust measurement is what you'd use for clothes.

I feel like JJ and her have both been dancing around the idea of marriage. Nothing wrong. Both are still very young. However, their relationship will hit rock bottom once they both stop living in the honeymoon phase because essentially that’s what they are doing. They enjoy the company but kinda don’t want the strings attached to it per say because relationships are essentially work (compromising, sharing, learning, sacrificing, tolerating quirks, help, etc). LDR have their pros and cons but they way she describes it, it’s as almost like they are always on their best behavior when they see each other and refuses to allow the actual relationship get real (when they have to be around each other 24/7daily). I don’t know about y’all I still get excited to see my husband at the end of the day and sad when he leaves to work in the morning.

There is either something off or she just doesn’t want to share more about her relationship than she already does out of fear. Honestly, it’s truly none of our business and she’s choosing to keep part of her life separate unlike her beige friend who belittles her fiancé on the daily in million vlogs a week last year.

This 100%