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Never known babies to be so quiet at that age. They barely move or make a sound :unsure: probably the way Fopps likes it.
The biggest issue is that they don’t know where to look, they are constantly looking at the back of a phone! They need to see eyes and facial expression, in order for them to realise what emotion is on display. Sadly they don’t get it, they have to look round a camera to get any eye contact!
Watching her latest story, of them on the bed, there is just nothing! No expression, no reaction. I truly feel sad for them.
 
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Remember how in her latest video she said she didn't know to start sitting babies up and fit hubby didn't know either because had NEVER even held a new born baby before greyson and lawson....
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Just randomly changing the subject for one sec, I don’t know why but her toes looked weird on the newest pic she uploaded, so I zoomed in as you do 🤷🏻‍♀️ has she only got half a toe nail on her big toes? For someone that wears so many open toe shoes they look rank
 
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Never known babies to be so quiet at that age. They barely move or make a sound :unsure: probably the way Fopps likes it.
I know, it’s really odd. Kids are usually wrecking balls by ten months. Crawling at lightning speed, pulling themselves up on furniture etc. My kid had a good range of basic words then too.

I know kids all develop differently and hit milestones at different time and from experience the good talkers might take a bit longer to walk and vice versa but they are so behind on everything. They don’t speak, crawl, stand holding on to things, roll from front to back or back to front. They’re not banging on toys like crazy people cause they love making noises with it and laughing. They barely even laugh... getting a smile at most. If I think of rough milestones they’re sitting between 5-6 months. Genuinely a disgrace, and the fact she’s a brand ambassador for baby brands, going on like a parenting expert on YouTube and just generally being a condescending prick is absolutely terrible.

It’s blatantly obvious those boys haven’t been spoken to regularly or had any form of play or tummy time. If they had they’d be at least saying basics like hiya, mama, dada and if they’d had floor and tummy time their arms and legs would be stronger and they would be able to roll.

Neglect comes in many shapes and forms and her detached house and Range Rover don’t exclude her from being guilty of it. It makes me so angry thinking of how much she’s let those boys down already and they’re not even a year old.
 
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I know, it’s really odd. Kids are usually wrecking balls by ten months. Crawling at lightning speed, pulling themselves up on furniture etc. My kid had a good range of basic words then too.

I know kids all develop differently and hit milestones at different time and from experience the good talkers might take a bit longer to walk and vice versa but they are so behind on everything. They don’t speak, crawl, stand holding on to things, roll from front to back or back to front. They’re not banging on toys like crazy people cause they love making noises with it and laughing. They barely even laugh... getting a smile at most. If I think of rough milestones they’re sitting between 5-6 months. Genuinely a disgrace, and the fact she’s a brand ambassador for baby brands, going on like a parenting expert on YouTube and just generally being a condescending prick is absolutely terrible.

It’s blatantly obvious those boys haven’t been spoken to regularly or had any form of play or tummy time. If they had they’d be at least saying basics like hiya, mama, dada and if they’d had floor and tummy time their arms and legs would be stronger and they would be able to roll.

Neglect comes in many shapes and forms and her detached house and Range Rover don’t exclude her from being guilty of it. It makes me so angry thinking of how much she’s let those boys down already and they’re not even a year old.
An awful lot of those things you pick out such as the not talking, content being still, lack of interaction are typical first signs of autistic spectrum traits. One of my best mates always says what a passive baby her autistic son was and how he slept for hours on end and barely cried.
 
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Right this is genuine question and I really feel bad in asking so please don't berate me, but is it normal for kids of that age to always have their tongues out? I don't have kids but can't remember my sister 3 and my friends kids being like that? Not at that age anyway
 
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An awful lot of those things you pick out such as the not talking, content being still, lack of interaction are typical first signs of autistic spectrum traits. One of my best mates always says what a passive baby her autistic son was and how he slept for hours on end and barely cried.
That is something I have wondered about but didn’t like to say anything on here
 
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Noob here - this woman is insufferable. I'm convinced she had kids because she was told she couldn't, for whatever reason. No one tells stropp she can't have something.
 
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That is something I have wondered about but didn’t like to say anything on here
By no way I'm saying anything about the boys, just that those are very typical traits. They could also be very typical traits for children that have phones shoved in their faces rather than interacting with their parents 🤷‍♀️
 
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An awful lot of those things you pick out such as the not talking, content being still, lack of interaction are typical first signs of autistic spectrum traits. One of my best mates always says what a passive baby her autistic son was and how he slept for hours on end and barely cried.

Absolutely, I work with children on the autistic spectrum and a lot of the parents do say they were really quiet, passive babies who slept loads. Also, a lot of the children I see who are on the autistic spectrum were IVF babies, and there is research to say children conceived that way are twice as likely to be on the spectrum. Therefore you’d think she’d be doing as much as possible to help them develop their communication skills. Sticking scarves in their faces and squawking at them probably isn’t going to cut it!
 
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I’ve often wondered about the love of spinning things that Grayson has, she says he is ‘obsessed’ with it. I thought that was one of the symptoms of autism.

By no means trying to diagnose or wish anything on her children, however there are signs that something is amiss with their development. Really think they both need to step it up as parents and get help if they are struggling. This isn’t trying to troll her or be nasty, but just observations based on the vast amount we have seen of them over the last 10 months.
 
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I know, it’s really odd. Kids are usually wrecking balls by ten months. Crawling at lightning speed, pulling themselves up on furniture etc. My kid had a good range of basic words then too.

I know kids all develop differently and hit milestones at different time and from experience the good talkers might take a bit longer to walk and vice versa but they are so behind on everything. They don’t speak, crawl, stand holding on to things, roll from front to back or back to front. They’re not banging on toys like crazy people cause they love making noises with it and laughing. They barely even laugh... getting a smile at most. If I think of rough milestones they’re sitting between 5-6 months. Genuinely a disgrace, and the fact she’s a brand ambassador for baby brands, going on like a parenting expert on YouTube and just generally being a condescending prick is absolutely terrible.

It’s blatantly obvious those boys haven’t been spoken to regularly or had any form of play or tummy time. If they had they’d be at least saying basics like hiya, mama, dada and if they’d had floor and tummy time their arms and legs would be stronger and they would be able to roll.

Neglect comes in many shapes and forms and her detached house and Range Rover don’t exclude her from being guilty of it. It makes me so angry thinking of how much she’s let those boys down already and they’re not even a year old.
My daughter is a wrecking ball 🙈 ever since she figured out how to roll over she's not kept still! And now she can crawl and pull herself up she's into everything! She is also one of the noisiest babies I have ever met so to compare them (which we shouldn't but we do) is just insane! They remind me of my daughter from like 6 months ago if not longer!
 
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My daughter is a wrecking ball 🙈 ever since she figured out how to roll over she's not kept still! And now she can crawl and pull herself up she's into everything! She is also one of the noisiest babies I have ever met so to compare them (which we shouldn't but we do) is just insane! They remind me of my daughter from like 6 months ago if not longer!
Mines the same! I was most disgruntled last week while trying to watch the last Chernobyl episode that he just shouted over it for an hour while pinging from wall to wall!
 
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Mines the same! I was most disgruntled last week while trying to watch the last Chernobyl episode that he just shouted over it for an hour while pinging from wall to wall!
Yep that sounds exactly like mine! Can't watch anything whilst she's up unless it's got subtitles 🙈
 
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My niece started properly walking at 9 months and hasn’t shut up since. She’s 19 months now and literally runs rings round us 😂 I know all children are different and with twins you usually get one doing things the other isn’t, but they both don’t do anything at all which shows it is all down to parental help, or lack of. They barely smile, never see them laugh, can’t say mama or dada, can’t even crawl or roll over. I’d be concerned if I was her/ rat boy/ their parents. I’m not a mother but I spend a lot of time with my niece, I read to her, play etc it’s pretty ‘natural’ to most women to know what they’re doing, especially the basics.
 
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An awful lot of those things you pick out such as the not talking, content being still, lack of interaction are typical first signs of autistic spectrum traits. One of my best mates always says what a passive baby her autistic son was and how he slept for hours on end and barely cried.
I wondered this, but for fraternal twins the possibility of both being on the autistic spectrum isn’t quite as high which is why I think it’s just total and utter crappy parenting.

She’s essentially learned she had to take her babies out of their bouncers and sit them up in the last few weeks and it’s because of this site.

She’s just a selfish, selfish person and definitely not maternal in any way. And yeah, it’s hard and doesn’t always come naturally but if she put half the effort into interacting with those babies or reading about milestones as she does policing her Instagram then those boys would be doing a lot better.
 
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