Tinkerbell cat
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My “first love”, I was 15 and we started dating in school, i had his time table and he had mine so we would meet after classes etc and it was all very cute and lovely... we stayed together until we were about 21... I’m 30 now. We grew apart, wanted different things in life.. I went to Spain for a summer and he got together with a girl I knew! Was so very weird, as we had all been out at parties together etc so I’ve always wondered did she like him then when she knew he was with me... but it doesn’t really matter, they are married with two kids and I wish them all the best though I never see or talk to them and don’t have them on my social media. I’m with my boyfriend now 3 years, have a house and a wee cat. I wouldn’t be attracted to my first love at all now, and no feelings whatsoever even though we went through a miscarriage. I guess it was just young love, we grew up and grew apart.
, she went to uni and found a boyfriend straight away. We don’t speak now because every time she’s gotten in touch with me she starts accusing me of trying to steal her away from her boyfriend and interfere with her relationship (even though she’s the one contacting me?) - although it doesn’t take away from how happy I was then, I only ever remember the positive stuff.