When Sunday was gettin her hair cut soon as ferne went outside Sunday was smiling the whole time soon as ferne come bk Sundays face looked so sad n I can’t belive itv shown that dog bouncing all over Sunday like that especially the way the dog was chewing on Vickys hand
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I really think Ferne thinks by putting her phone down for a few hours, then she is parent of the year. Sunday is a total fucker and that is down to being surrounded by adults.
Having said that, Gill is a wonderful parent and maybe the only stable relationship that Sunday has.
Also, who gives a tit that hanger on Carl has a boyf?
Having said that, Gill is a wonderful parent and maybe the only stable relationship that Sunday has.
Also, who gives a tit that hanger on Carl has a boyf?
Have you seen his tiktoks with his dog and matching outfits
think the boyfriend may be at the bottom of the pecking order there
I wanna know what’s going on with Carl’s teeth?! They’re tripled in size 
Yes I know where your coming from I have 2 children on the spectrum and they both had sensory issues including hating having their hair cut and I also had to be very careful buying clothes.
They lived in jogging pants and loose cotton tops and were very particular about the clothing they could basically tolerate.
So I don't think you were being unreasonable in thinking that was a possibility.
I also have a daughter the same age as Sunday and my daughter is a highly sensitive child this also involves (in her case) having some sensory issues.
She hates having her hair brushed for example is also pretty particular about her clothing has sensitive hearing and when she was younger also used to regularly strip off and like being naked (Although this was in the home).
I think it is possible that Sunday is also a highly sensitive child and those children understand a lot and internalise the feelings of the people around them and are very intuitive.
If Ferne hasn't picked up on this then she really should because you can't respond in a superficial way with these children they understand a lot especially in a non verbal sense.
Whatever is going on with Ferne regarding parenting having struggles with lack of discipline or routine then she really needs to sort that out asap.
She may very well love her daughter and mean well but that's not good enough Sunday will need to have her mother's attention if she is to thrive?
Others can only do so much if she doesn't give Sunday attention she will feel it acutely and might even develop abandonment issues in the future?
Also Sunday will probably need to be taught some form of socialisation and the skills required to learn and mingle with other children.
All I can say is that I really hope Sunday is in nursery and gets to mix with other children.
Ideally I think Ferne should take some parenting classes (there is no shame in admitting that you need a helping hand or that you have more to learn as a parent) I took them and found them very useful. (As recommended by my health visitor when I had quite bad pnd and was struggling myself).
Does Ferne not have a health visitor or anyone else that could take an objective look at Sunday and her needs and offer some suggestions?
I understand from reading on here that it could be a case of (probably unintentional) neglect and that makes me feel a bit sad.
I don't agree with some of her decisions regarding parenting but then again I'm not her and I don't live her life?
I don't agree with over sharing (and exposing) kids on a TV program or on the gram but I presume that that's the life Ferne has and maybe what she's got used to?
Or maybe she's just immature and has been mollycoddled all her life herself?
I don't know but I just hope that she can start to get her priorities right because the older Sunday gets the more difficult it is to reverse bad parenting choices?
I hope for her daughter's sake she wakes up to this before it's too late.
Sorry you've had a tough time...It's a odd one isn't it ? People just say there spoilt and won't listen my niece was the same with her child she is 14 years old now and she having the worst time ever right now its really bad.. my sister the child's nan always said to me she on some sort of spectrum. My sister worked with autistic children .and my niece .daughter was diagnosed at a older age 14 ...consequently the child is handful now.. apparently is harder to dignose in girls..it just rings alarm bells watching Sunday and her issue with cloths and getting her hair brushed its isn't normal. Hope she get her sorted and if it is just behavioural we'll Fearn needs to get some help with it ASAP for the child sake ..
So many things to comment again on the latest episode.
1. I really do watch any old trash TV but the story lines for this really scream desperation for content. Toy clear outs? Friends new bfs?
2. So many worrying scenes with Sunday, Ferne just misses so many issues. At one stage Sunday is walking bare foot on stones...
3. The hair dresser scene was really tough watching for me, Sunday clearly has sensory issues (many kids do for many reasons) why on earth would you go through with that when she was so distressed!? And to walk out and leave her with a stranger after that meltdown is just shocking in my opinion.
4. All these worrying scenes and you just think god there is a camera person watching this and must just make Sunday feel so anxious all the time.
If Ferne can't deal with her, she should spend less money on cars and flashy clothes and get a full time nanny...
1. I really do watch any old trash TV but the story lines for this really scream desperation for content. Toy clear outs? Friends new bfs?
2. So many worrying scenes with Sunday, Ferne just misses so many issues. At one stage Sunday is walking bare foot on stones...
3. The hair dresser scene was really tough watching for me, Sunday clearly has sensory issues (many kids do for many reasons) why on earth would you go through with that when she was so distressed!? And to walk out and leave her with a stranger after that meltdown is just shocking in my opinion.
4. All these worrying scenes and you just think god there is a camera person watching this and must just make Sunday feel so anxious all the time.
If Ferne can't deal with her, she should spend less money on cars and flashy clothes and get a full time nanny...
My heart just breaks for that little girl, she didn’t stand a chance from the start really with Ferne as a mum did she ? She never does anything for Sunday, Sunday just has to tag along with her Ferne and her mates and do whatever they want to do. Poor little girl is going to have so many issues when she’s older. I’m so glad I didn’t have a mother like Ferne whilst growing up
First time poster. That woman is a disgrace to motherhood. Treating that child like an accessory! I’m seriously worried for that little girls life and how much she is actually cared for by ferne as she constantly looks scared when with her. She is a different child when with other people and her nan.
I was shocked at how she grimaced when ferne came back in once she had her hair cut - like she really disliked her own mother.. tbh I don’t blame her, she’s used as an accessory ..
What was Vickys mouth doing. She was gurning like crazy!
Honestly, you can see the sadness in Sunday’s face. Even my partner (who has no interest but just happened to be on the sofa with me when it was on) said how unhappy and reclusive Sunday was
It's very sad isn't it...and that.old chestnut my works on line 24 housr a day oh bore off do you work im a normal.time frame time management and spend the rest of it with your family like a normal person. She is addicted to her phone and it should be the other way around addicted to your daughter..special times when they're toddlers .
She just shouldn’t be a mother.
Vicky P’s jaw, swinging like a garden gate. Her dog seems snappy. Ferne will be changing her bedroom a lot, concentrate on Sunday, poor kid doesn’t know who her parent is, if it’s not Nanny it’s Cawl n Ellie. Why does Ferne need an entourage?
New thread #ferne first time tit mum poor Sunday is always sad sucking her thumb
First time giving her the attention she’s screaming out for and she wants to spend the time clearing the playroom??
Christ that hair dressing scene 
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