Fathering Autism #70 Now it's time for Damage Control, A&P are on a roll!

[likeahuman]

On the seatbelt subject: some years back I worked with a young autistic man whose abilities where in many areas on par with Abigail's. He too disliked wearing a seatbelt, and his mother once told me the story of how she got him to wear it as religiously as he still does to this day. When he got big enough to loosen it himself he was still non-verbal (but very opinionated), and since his mother was unsure of his verbal understanding she taught him through action. She drove to the country with the boy, his father with him in the back seat making sure the seatbelt was in place. When they came to a secluded road, the father moved to the front seat and watched the boy from there. The mother started driving, and as soon as the boy unclipped the seatbelt she stopped the car and didn't start it again until the seat belt was in place. It took a few hours, and they later had to "reinforce" the lesson (partifularly when the boy started disobeying on the school bus), but the boy understood the message clearly, and since he loved car rides he learned to accept the seat belt as part of it. He is an adult today and still enjoys car rides, especially in the country side, and happily wears a seatbelt - and is quick to remind anyone else who might forget to clip themselves in by tapping them on the shoulder.

Just adding this to show that there are ways to teach even severly autistic/IDD people. I hope the Maasses realize this one day and start trying.

(Sorry for rambling, guess I was just thinking about this young man. Also hi, I'm new - been lurking awhile tho. Okay, going back into lurking now.)

 

[lovesis]

She has to be trolling.

 

[sneakers]

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[RocketQueen]

The end of the vlog where he was talking about “giving your family the best that you can” was ridiculous. It’s easy to for him to give his family the best because none of them work real jobs, they have no financial worries in the world, and they have a million caregivers to look after their daughter whenever they can’t be bothered with her... for the majority of their viewers, it’s simply not that easy. Of course it’s easy for him to say “just give your family the best,” because all he has is free time and money.

And as he and Isaiah were talking about in the vlog....he had nothing to say. So he just said that.
And I hate the way both he and P say "family". I dont know why, but it does something to my brain. I hate it!!!
They way they say it is like no one else has a family. They are the best family. Their family is #goals. "Kiss my ring serf!" vibes.
Just shut up.
You had a shotgun wedding, bailed, you have a whole other neglected human out there, a wife who eats and drinks her feelings, a son who has zero identity and is becoming more unpleasant by the day, a pseudo- daughter handsy hippie living in your shack, and a special needs daughter you parade out daily to buy your gadgets.
Your family is shit. Do better Fatholes!!!

 

[Lizaable90]

Hey Prick! Quit allowing Isaiah and Summer to tickle her all the time and she would quit resisting to put her hands up... Yes, she has been more resistant lately that is because Isaiah and Summer have used her ABA therapy against her, forcing her to put her hands up and then they tickle her sides and stomach. I have seen it multiple times in the vehicle and you’ll don’t say a single word. If I got tickled over and over again, I would be resistant to put my arms up too..

 

[Stripe69]

Well I’ve decided I’m moving to Florida because they have a completely different strain of COVID there that doesn’t stop you from doing all the things, no masks, eating out, having family round, going on holiday, it’s just amazing.

 

[Hotographer512]

She's a fat horrible excuse for a mother.
She's always been fat and she always will be.
My belief is there is no shame in the truth - unless you're ashamed by the truth.
She's fake and lazy.
She tried to explain away the distain she feels towards Abbie by saying she was not a nurturer. She's "Nurse Rachett" - put on your big girl panties and get over it if you're sick.
Even if she was successful with her WLS, that doesn't change the fact that she is all of the above.
She scams and preys on people with mental disabilities, mental disorders and the economically disadvantaged to pay for her gluttonous lifestyle.
It doesn't change the fact that she exploits Abbie herself every chance she gets and is a partner to Assa who also exploits her in order to pay for the gluttonous lifestyle.
I do not find any endearing qualities in this woman and could never respect anything about her.
She's a vile human and a sorry ass mother.
IMO.

 

[Once Upon a Snark]

Maverick deserves his own post.
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[Sweetums]

I still think that they should put ALL of her snacks on the highest possible shelf in the pantry. Maybe adx anorher higher shelf if posdible. Then when she begs for a snack, make her reach up all by herself to get it. Nit just grunt and look at you to reach it. And have her put back on the highest shelf when she's dond. Shed gets at least 8 snacks a day so that would be 16 high reach movements, and you wouldn't have to do a thing. I am actually being serious. Stop doing everything for her. Make her pick up all the crap she throws on the floor in her room. Have her pick up all the cushions on the floor every single time she gets ip to go to bed, or on a cart ride, or go to school, etc. Maybe she'd take a hint and not trash the place as often if you followed through every time. I like that you have her put her dishes in the sink after she finishes eating. She doesn't seem to mind doing that. Get that girl to move!

 

[therealamylynn]

The only thing I took away from Isaiah's vlog is Summer is porking up. Living with them is really packing the pounds on her. Take a look at the second photo. That was one year ago.

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[Sweetums]

Winter jacket. Everyone else is bundled up. Cilla says "She loved it (the cart ride) it was so cold out." So why didn't you make her wear shoes?

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Because they can't make her do a damn thing....they're afraid of her wackin' out....blame it on the autism instead of the poor parenting.

 

[RocketQueen]

The thing about the bike for me is that even if she learns to pedal, it isnt safe. She doesnt know how to cross the street properly on foot. Do they think she is going to learn to watch for traffic on a bike? That she can focus enough to continually pedal, not just stop in the middle of the road like she does walking? She just stops and plops down anywhere she is when shes done...she wont be going far on the bike. And steering! She isnt going to watch where shes going. She'll be looking up, down, everywhere but in front of her.
My prediction is that at some point Asa will rig some type of tow strap to her trike and pull her along behind his electric bike like Miss America. Im not trying insult Abbie but lets get real. This circus is for profit, not her "enjoyment".

 

[Kimmied]

Maybe that family doesn't care about Covid. Or masks or social distancing and they're not concerned about risk. However Abbie is part of that family and has no voice in any of this. They are exposing her to the very real threat of this virus. This is what pisses me off. They have no concern about that girl at all. All she is to them is the star of their money making shit show. They are garbage people.

My husband was a hospitialist at our county hospital, he now only treats virus patients. My oldest daughter is an endodontist. Both are now living in my carriage house with my son-in-law. I have a brain tumor and when my husband hooks me up three times a week I’m so sick I can’t move. I have my IDD son and my uni junior (he supposedly leaves the 19th) and it’s hard. We have all had some bad thing or another happen to us over the last year I’ve been here. When it goes down to just me and the youngest it will be very hard but I would never change my lot in life for there’s. Not for all the money in the world.

it’s people like the Maassives that have temporarily torn my family apart. I don’t wish sickness on anyone, but I do hope the dad podcast will rock Priscilla and Asas world straight to the core. Vile selfish nasty people.

 

[Kermy]

Hi everyone
It's that time again...it seems to come around so quickly doesn't it
Is anyone else wonder how utterly boring this vlog will be?
Oh well here we go

1. Oh good lord. Really bullshit lifting weights. The shit just keeps getting deeper and deeper
2. WTF is Asswipe rambling on about. He wouldn't know an ah ha moment if it bit Piggys ass
3. Very bad audible plus plug thrown in
4. Abbie not sounding too thrilled faintly in the background
5. He's listening and rambling about some book called Atomic Habits...sorry I'm just hearing Charlie Browns teacher...wah wa wah wa wah wah
6. People should really leave some rambling thoughts that they know nothing about to the experts
7. 45s in and I'm already aggravated with all the behavioral bullf**k
8. God this is f**king boring...the best part is listening to whatever is happening in the background with Abbie
9. Novel idea ... CUT HER F**KING HAIR IDIOTS
10. Is anyone else buying the "Abbie washing her own hair" bullshit narrative.
11. No Asswipe this is making no sense the way you're blabbing on
12. Oh great blurry camera...thought it was me..and great dent the f**king doorjamb.. dumbest idea ever
13. Please Abbie clock him with a weight
14. Bets on how long this will last...probably about as long as the clock.
15. Why isn't Abbie getting physical therapy or as much as she needs?
16. Aww shit Piggy sing song sappy fake crap. Oh and Piggy NEVER wear horizontal stripes. While you're at it leave Abbie alone already
17. Moment of amazingness....yea not really.
18. Zoning out with the whole audible
Bullshit.7m54s to 9m27s pitch and no clue what he said. Just know Summer and Piggy showed their stupidity again
19. If audible makes your life better you need a life. Oh and audio books are nothing new Asswipe, kinda like drive in movies. Oh and you can find free audiobooks online IDIOTS
20. Filler cutesy time
21. Really homemade alfredo sauce ...wonder when that'll show on Puke, Purge and Pigcilla.... because they probably all run to the bathroom when she does actually cook
22. Congrats Becca...can't be mean, after all she just got engaged
23. Fakey fakey Piggy again
24. STFU I don't care about the haul...that cooktop is shit by now
25. No one cares
26. More filler
27. Not opposed to her eating vegetables...well then give her something other than peppers
28. Get the f**k on with it
29. And now the back to school is easier with Abbie going back to school blabbing and rambling about how it affects them and their "work" ..... they're just happy she's out of the house and they have a "babysitter" for the day again
30. Piggy uttering the words "being present" ...yea like that ever happens 12m52s
31. Finally actually acknowledging Beccas graduation but only because it affects them
32. Keep pushing that homemade alfredo
33. 840pm on Sunday night and a cold stupid cart ride...shouldn't Abbie be getting ready for bed and not getting ready for dinner
34. Where are the rest of HogBoys friends ... only I think Paige is there... sorry I don't care enough to know their names so I may have name wrong
35. After the beep....giving dogs treats bullshit
The End

The only thing I got out of this is that they may actually stop Hogsaiah from tickling Abbie when she lifts her arms

 

[Silverlady]

Here it is ........

 

[Dirtywings]

I started thinking about why this family pisses me off.
I got suckered into watching the entertaining and informative Fathering Autism,
And right after the money came rolling in this family turned into money hungry hustlers.
Instead of FA we now have
Hustling Slimelife
Scamming school districts
Relying on Respite
Everything Easy Bake Oven
Fathering College Kid
Jealousy college friends
Waiting on weight loss
Showing off stuff
Brothering Boredom
Suffocating Spanx
Mothering... ???

I know there's more.

 

[RocketQueen]

I just saw something on my local news about the cost of a special needs education- how there is not enough grant money and many families utilize grant funding even though they could afford to pay- leaving those who cannot out of a spot.
P just bragged in that snarky comment that "Abbie goes to the best private school in JAX."
Hey you greedy hambeast, instead of going on Ski trips, girls trips, RV trips, and holding a Slimelife retreat, why dont you pay for Abbies education and let someone who doesnt have "all the things" have a shot at McKay funds?!
They have spent more on traveling, dining out and gadgets this year than her tuition, Im sure of it.
Good humans? Not a chance.

 

[RocketQueen]

P takes all these pics of the food/parties for social media. Yet serves in disposable aluminum pans lol. I am not against the pans. They are great for eliminating clean-up, but for the 'gram? Not so much!

They are so Covid stupid. Hey idiots- its parties like this, people mixing households, friends over, etc., that have delayed Golden Boys trip back to App. Why? Because how many other students and their families are doing this and then returning to teeny tiny Boone?!

And Candy Lorraine and Big Wayne, and Asa's dad and stepmother are just as stupid and just as guilty. All 4 high risk. That comment from the person who said their father was on a vent and hopes they continue to celebrate- go to hell. Seriously. I am a long hauler. I now have shortness of breath, chronic fatigue, and AFib. I have an echo on my kidneys next week because we just discovered I have renal damage. I've had pneumonia and a blood clot. My blood pressure medicine has TRIPLED in dose and its still high. Covid has damn near broke me physically, emotionally and financially. Even with insurance I spent close to 10k out of pocket (plus had to meet deductible!) in 2020, and now its a new year so I'm starting all over again.
Hey P- MRI's, CAT scans, Doppler echos, labs, hospital stays, medications, specialists- that will cut in to your travel funds. You can barely walk now, wait until you quite literally cant catch a breath or have the strength to walk through your beloved Publix.
Do you Boo.

 

[KateK]

Just as I thought with the trike.. the 3 of them gathered around her bike.. she barely moves her feet and they all scream... "you are doing so good... way to go!!!" .. They have her feet tied on the pedals so when she tries to move them.. of course it looks like she is pedalling.. sort of....

Also.. did you see that dumb camera on her bike?? All the noise, people.. she will never learn anything like that.. I'm sure the HUMPERS liked it though.

So Asshat was literally dependent on Abbie looking like she was learning to ride the trike for content. This is why she does not learn.. they were there for content and not really for her actually to learn something.

 

[Mom Needs Coffee]

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