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Abbie was so upset last year at Playlist and these dumbasses take her again? 
Poor Abbie.
Poor Abbie.
This is all just my opinion from what I've seen. Asa mistreats Priss. He's manipulative and whiny at best and emotionally abusive at worst. If you start listening at this point, Priscilla worries about the juice getting on her car and he goes "I'll get it... I'LL GET IT" and then the camera cuts. I wonder why. Probably so Assa can continue berating Priss, we know he has anger issues.
Then when she politely mentions the pointing thing, he gets way too upset and defensive about it. She was 100% in the right to mention it but he can't have that. He doesn't just say "oh yeah" or even just say his piece and leave it at that. He goes ON and ON and ON and does not let it go. How dare she question him.
I know we don't like Priss here, but people can be crappy and still be getting misteated by their spouse. Can you imagine how exhausting Assa is? If that's what she has to deal with 24/7 I wouldn't want to do any of Abbie's care either. No mistakes or backtalk allowed or he'll be yelling at you about it for the next hour. Priss' self-esteem is in the mud and I'm sure a lot of it is how he treats her. You have to walk on eggshells around Asa because he does NOT let things go. He's quick to correct everyone around him, but don't you DARE do the same to him or you'll hear about it.
He thinks he edits well enough that he still looks like a great guy. But anyone who's been with someone like that knows the signs and can see between the lines of how he treats her. If that's what he leaves in, imagine what he edits out. He's a weak, insecure, petulant little man who mistreats his wife and son. You know....in my opinion.
He was totally baiting her. See that narcissistic grin on him? Gross. Deadbeat POS
spot on! Assa is a narcissist. They prey on the weak.Exploitation is a form of abuse.
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Wow. Those were my exact thoughts!
We know they read here so I hope they take your comments to heart. I appreciate your comments and take on the whole thing.
I just watched the newest video and I'm sorry but, if she were my child, and started throwing drinks around in my car (open drinks mind you) I would've stopped that car and made her pick that tit up right quick and in a hurry! Now that type of born in a barn behavior should've been stopped ages ago. Disabled or not, you shouldn't be able to act like a heathen. The way she was acting at the grandparents house would've drove me insane as well. Just all over the place. Summer had to stand in front of her to keep her sitting. They weren't even stopping her from stealing Summer's food until she finally spoke up and said, " she is stealing the croutons from my salad!". Honestly, I would refuse to eat in her presence. Nobody should have to worry about a "teenager" stealing their food off their plate or out of their hand. I have a feeling that they aren't sticking to the "dont steal food" thing and it's really showing. Sorry guys....just my opinion.
She tried to hand it to Asa several times but he was too lazy to take it from her.
She was obviously very uncomfortable in that home. It was extremely small to have that many people there, she was in distress. It is obvious her grand parents do not deal with her well at all.
Pricsilla!! GET OFF YOUR PHONE! She needs to look at these videos and just see how often she is on her damn phone. It's ridiculous!
I actually had that same thought. I feel like his family cowers to him in a sense.
Ever seen “The Miracle Worker“ with Patty Duke? I get flashbacks of the dinner scene (at the beginning of the movie) after watching the vlog yesterday. Not as dramatic as the movie, of course, but still reminds me of it.
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They should've left when they realized how uncomfortable she was then. It's that simple. They are always leaving places prematurely due to Abigail being uncomfortable so, what is the difference? The drink thing was still not cool, in my opinion. He told her to put it in the cup holder but, she decided to throw it in the floor, not once but, twice. I don't know, I'm just thinking that they have let "behaviors" go on for so long that it's going to be almost impossible to teach her not to do them. They have always been too busy calling them "too cute" to actually stop them. It's sad really. (Just my opinion)
At the end of yesterday's video P tells Ass .. she is "working". with her phone up in her face.. wonder what that actually means to her..working in trying to rope someone into her pyramid scheme? Working answering comments ? Just seems silly to "work" and be sitting on the couch with your phone in your face.
Also.. Abbie at the grandparents... I think she doesn't do well waiting for food.. whether at someones house or a restaurant.. surely they know this is an issue even before they brought her. Assa's dad and stepmom dont seem to want to deal with Abbie much.. in the footage that I saw. How nice for them to have Summer as constant respite.. wonder if she is getting sick of it by now.
Abbie needs some exercise (physical and mental) before going places and stimulation/fun of some sort during being at someone's house! I couldn't believe yesterday's vlog. They should be ashamed, putting that footage up for everyone to see how unprepared they are and how much they don't care about Abbie's general well being, leaving Summer to force her to just sit down and *shut up* in that anxious state she was in. They bring her to a place that they know will cause her high anxiety and get upset when she doesn't sit down and STFU. Don't you guys know your 14 year old by now? It seems like we know how to care for her better than her own parents and that's absolutely pathetic and extremely difficult to watch. I feel so bad for Abbie.
The nasty "I'LL GET IT" regarding the Capri sun and the tantrum he threw about pointing..? That was so uncomfortable. Don't you think you would want whats best for your special needs child, and graciously use the tactics trained professionals fully recommend so your daughter won't be dependent on everyone else telling her what to do for the rest of her life?? Wtf? You clearly do not know what you're talking about, Asa. You even admit that you're confused constantly, so leave it to the pros then. She's highly capable of learning these tasks on her own with eventually no help. It really seems like they're the ones who have stunted her growth by hardly, if ever, interacting with her in productive ways. I would be mortified if I were P and my husband talked to me like that in private, let alone plastered it up for half a million people to see.
Personally, I'd have confronted that crappy attitude of his loooooong ago if I were her. He has nobody stepping up and making him question himself, his horrible tone, anything he does. That's one reason why he is the way he is, because he needs to be held accountable by someone close to him and everyone around him is too timid and quiet to do that!
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It's not hard to be a good person... in my opinion
The nasty "I'LL GET IT" regarding the Capri sun and the tantrum he threw about pointing..? That was so uncomfortable. Don't you think you would want whats best for your special needs child, and graciously use the tactics trained professionals fully recommend so your daughter won't be dependent on everyone else telling her what to do for the rest of her life?? Wtf? You clearly do not know what you're talking about, Asa. You even admit that you're confused constantly, so leave it to the pros then. She's highly capable of learning these tasks on her own with eventually no help. It really seems like they're the ones who have stunted her growth by hardly, if ever, interacting with her in productive ways. I would be mortified if I were P and my husband talked to me like that in private, let alone plastered it up for half a million people to see.
Personally, I'd have confronted that crappy attitude of his loooooong ago if I were her. He has nobody stepping up and making him question himself, his horrible tone, anything he does. That's one reason why he is the way he is, because he needs to be held accountable by someone close to him and everyone around him is too timid and quiet to do that!
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It's not hard to be a good person... in my opinion
He is the king of double standards. He will call other ppl out on stuff but, if anyone tries to do the same to him he will rip their head off. I once saw where he said he was not a hypocrite. I just about pissed my pants due to my laughter. I actually commented to the person he was speaking to ," Dont you believe a word of it!!", and it was somehow deleted after a very short period of time. (Holy tit! I wonder how that happened?! Asa, do you know?!)
The stealing food gets me as well, especially since she constantly picks her nose.
Those that featured children under the age of 13 had comments disabled, unfortunately Abbie has passed that cut-off age
Someone in the "know", help me understand something. Why does Abbie seem to have physical disabilities as well? She seems to have problems with her hands for sure and her legs when she walks. One example of the hands is watching her try to push Sandy away.
I too am of the opinion that Assa is an emotionally abusive asshole to his FAMILY that allegedly means sooo much to him.
I recognize the tone and mannerisms of a "man" like Assa as well.
The thing is, why doesn't she just leave?
She has the money to do so.
Money is the #1 reason women are stuck in relationships like this and worse ones.
Yet she stays.
Why?
Everything is in her name.
Paying him half would be a small price to pay for peace.
She could give him custody of Abbie and finally have the life she has dreamed of all these years.
The whole thing is so weird.
Nothing they do makes any sense.
IMO
I recognize the tone and mannerisms of a "man" like Assa as well.
The thing is, why doesn't she just leave?
She has the money to do so.
Money is the #1 reason women are stuck in relationships like this and worse ones.
Yet she stays.
Why?
Everything is in her name.
Paying him half would be a small price to pay for peace.
She could give him custody of Abbie and finally have the life she has dreamed of all these years.
The whole thing is so weird.
Nothing they do makes any sense.
IMO
She has motor skill issues and lack of dexterity where her hands are concerned, however, the legs are more down to lack of stamina than anything else. They have never promoted walking very far or standing and as such she just sits or lies down wherever she is at the time!
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