Your sweeping statement was a) that Abbie has not made any progress in potty training, because she is autistic (followed with eh don't know, which renders the sentence in itself void), b) that some people are ascribing hidden motivations to her actions and that is unfounded. Something I have seldom read here. Comments are more about her awareness and overall abilities. C) That lack of proper caring and sufficient effort is an entirely different topic. Which it most likely isn't in this case. Our development doesn't only hinge on genetic makeup, but also on environmental aspects. That's why psychology and education didn't immediately get scrapped once genetics became the new hot
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Another sweeping statement of yours is that people here have no clue.
Autism as of now is a clearly defined pattern of behaviours that is more than just coincidental. There are other findings and theories as well (like an above average head circumference in newborns) The genetic variation(s) are an interesting find, but so far there wasn't found anything that applied to a significant portion of autistic individuals (for example Silverman et al.). Using Mouse models or animal models in general is also good to undestand some mechanisms, but it is still a looong way to securely translate findings to humans.
You seem to think that genetics is the be all end all and can solve everything. But given the current status quo, the research is still in its infancy and data that has been gathered so far, is still fragmentary. At the same time, there is a real world impact for autistic individuals (or arguably autistic individuals) and their families that need practical solutions right now. Just scrapping it and waiting for a cure isn't cutting it.
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