Fathering Autism #2 Selling autism, gluttonous lifestyle, and pyramid schemes

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Monkey1651

They probably feed the dog awful food. Not to mention his type of hair should not be cut like they continue to get him shaved. That’s probably contributing to his itchy skin. Maybe invest in a good dog food, see the vet to look into allergies, maybe they should make sure he doesn’t have fleas, brush him regularly, give him an appropriate bath without scented products, etc. there’s a million things to do before subjecting a dog to a cone because they are itchy, but no they are too damn lazy and they just don’t care.

As far as him being a service dog, they basically have said all they did was tether him to Abby so she couldn’t run away. That’s sooo unsafe for both her and the dog.
 
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Sam-I-Am

Exactly... A lot of pet groomers don't know about skin care, they just cut and bathe.. I don't know if FL requires them to be licensed but in our state, they aren't and you have to be careful who you take them to because they can cause way more harm than good...
Also, as Abbie was young, he was also to be a stability dog. I know he was also a tether but gosh, it goes to show that whatever nonprofit they used, shouldn't be training service dogs for Autism kids. Anyone that knows kids, know that they will grow. Service dogs can be in service for 8-10 years (if they don't develop skin or health issues). She would have outgrown Mavericks size in just a year to two, due to her pulling and running... Maverick would never have been able to anchor her. In which, if you see teams, they usually are tri-anchored, Maverick would should have first been tied to Abbie and one of the parents (whoever Maverick did training with, with the trainer) and that should have been done for while, before just having Maverick tied to her but yes, it can be dangerous, especially as Abbie got older and they never engaged her much with Maverick..
 
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Sam-I-Am

Today's Vlog...

Asa talks about validating Abbie in her feelings and wants... Then at 9:01, Abbie is sitting at the table, trying to engage them, signed snack, and then she does her biting, hands in fist and you know the first thing P says "Abbie, if you want to yell, you can go up to your room and yell.." She does finally see that Abbie signs (again) snack and she tells her that they are not doing anymore snacks.. Again though, she totally ignored Abbie signing snack the first time because Asa and her are going back over a meeting that they both attended... This isn't something that needed to be broadcasted because they are individual goals that Abbie is working on and very small tidbits of what the school is doing and what the school wants them to work on (which we all know won't happen because they still rarely engage Abbie in their conversation, which is what the school told them at Christmas to do).. Again, the teacher told them to engage and have conversations with her and Asa says "I don't know what that is going to look like.." Well, duh, you should have asked back then...
Also, I definitely don't ever see "independence" fully for Abbie.. Sorry, they have a piped dream and it will not happen.. She has no sense of strangers and emergencies...
 
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Hotographer512

 
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Noir Fan

Gotta agree about TicToc. Not into it at all. And what does it have to do with autism awareness?
 
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Baymaus

olrk said:
Gotta agree about TicToc. Not into it at all. And what does it have to do with autism awareness?
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Nothing. It feeds her mother's ego.

I work in IT and my degree was IT security. I find their total lack of common sense and efforts to keep themselves and their daughter safe horrifying. They put all of their information out there and then are shocked when fans call camp and school? And then they treat the stalker fans in the boat like long lost friends?
 
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lovesis



They are annoying. That answer doesn’t even make sense. How you talk to someone is different than trying to teach them how to say words.
 
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jadedandcaffeinated

How many times have they been late to school?? I guess being late doesn't matter as long as they get their dunkies! It's so disruptive and I'm sure it puts her morning school routine out of order. I can't imagine how frustrated and annoyed all the teachers at that school are with them.
 
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Pink Marshmallow

Asa has addressed it in previous videos. He says that he's not as concerned about Abbie being late to school because it's not like she's going to a regular school learning math & science where it would be a bigger deal if she got behind because of being late. At JSA, they're teaching her life skills which he feels he's partly already doing at home by helping her brush her teeth etc and get ready to go. So basically, he feels she isn't really missing anything at school if she's late. He also made it seem like the teachers are not bothered by it (but that could be BS for all we know).
 
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applesandsteve

So school is a babysitter? Got it.
 
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Baymaus

applesandsteve said:
So school is a babysitter? Got it.
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They seem to run late a lot and use Abbie as an excuse. They could get up earlier and get her up earlier and give themselves time to get her ready. Instead they blame her for being slow or whatever. I wonder how they compare to other families at the school? If her walking in late is hard for other kids in the class? And if the fact that they sued the last school she was in and won puts her current school in a tough spot when asking them to comply?
 
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jadedandcaffeinated

It's still disrespectful to her classmates, the teachers, and Abbie. Abbie is worth being on time for her activities and her schooling should be taken seriously. I used to assist at classes and a camp for autistic/disabled/IDD students and e very single school and training program I know has a schedule that they use to run smoothly. Imagine having a classroom of autistic students that rely on routine and schedules, and having your morning constantly interrupted by a late student. It's so disruptive and inconsiderate. Especially considering it's something within their control.
 
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Stripe69

They don’t care how their or Abies behaviour affects other people. It’s all about them and their needs.
 
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Sam-I-Am

Stripe69 said:
They don’t care how their or Abies behaviour affects other people. It’s all about them and their needs.
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What you'll said is so true! Also, don't forget, Asa said that Abbie doesn't like schedules and routines before too.. So, it doesn't bother her to run late and then miss certain aspects of her morning.. I know if I am late dropping my kids off, they let me know it and they voice their displeasure and usually it will end with a meltdown of at least one child.. Hence, we operate on a very strict morning schedule, just like most Autism families... Again, something they just don't get, understand or care about and again, another failure on their part for Abbie, setting her up for a confusing day and making others wait on them..
 
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