I'm surprised they haven't ended up with E coli.. from the unwashed hands "cooking"
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Spot on!
After watching the scavenger hunt video it struck me even harder at just how profoundly delayed Abbie really is. Even though I knew italready I gotta say that it really showed it so clearly. I mean when someone asks her to jump she really can't even process what that means. She cannot match an item is on a paper. It's actually very sad. But A & P need to get a grip on reality and quit fooling themselves that she's learning this stuff.
And so it begins...
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As from today people are not allowed to go anywhere non essential and police have been given power to disperse any groups of people, also hefty fines for those who flout the rules. It has been pretty much like a ghost town in Manchester in the evenings anyway but with all business’s closed there wouldn't be any point to people going there. They are allowing people who are old, disabled and national health service workers to have the first hour of supermarket shopping before others.Unfortunately, the UK term of "lockdown" is the definition of what most of America has been doing for a couple weeks, "social distancing". Our non-essential business's, court systems, schools have been closed for 2 weeks. People can still go to the grocery or "out to exercise"....and really go anywhere they choose. And they do. Without martial law there is no way to keep people inside.
He'll charge $1.99 LOL
Or he could go to his naa naa and step papa (the nurse practioner, Dan?) and hang out with them, saying he needs to do scholarship applications? He is 18 years old and old enough to go fight for his country, release the apron strings P, and let your young man go on a road trip, and spend some time with his other grandies, and Uncles.
Did anyone notice Isaiah on the couch laughing while they were doing the “exercise”?!! Hahaha I was dead ... but yes I agree on all your points here. These people are ridiculous
Yeah he pointed to the sun on the screen ... he must think we’re as slow as Abbie ...and him and P
Also Sandy is being forced to get into that damn pool lmao. Honestly I think it’s kinda nasty to be swimming with dogs, especially with Abbie who swallows the water... but to each their own...
Same here, all of it. I truly hope it works better for you across the pond, because so many people here just do not care.
I think part of it is that that was way above her level. it would have taken them maybe 15 minutes to set up a "scavenger hunt" that would have been more her pace. none of this "squirrel as animal, pine cone as seed" crap. maybe 4-6 things. bench, tree, grass, flower, trash can etc.. then just as they walk they could have asked her to identify things, instead of dragging her around to try and find things on the list. and if they did this on a regular basis with her, I think there would be improvement.
I agree with you
This reminded me of when she pooped all over her old room in the rental in the night. They didnt show it of course, but Asa said her walls had to be scrubbed, bedding washed or pitched, carpets scrubbed....I cant imagine.Give it time
My county is on official lockdown starting tomorrow at 5 pm. The major problem is that the mayor announced this at around 2 pm and said that “marijuana dispensaries and liquor stores” are also going to have to shut down by tomorrow... and no unnecessary going out of the house (basically... only to get food and medicine)... so as soon as that announcement came out - EVERYONE went to get weed and liquor. I was going to follow the masses but heard from friends how long and crazy the lines were. So I sat here watching the tit shows to keep me company, and chatting with you all. So as it turns out, just a few minutes ago they redid the order to say that marijuana and liquor stores will be open. But ... the damage has been done. The lines and crowds at these places were unimaginable. Smh. They could have thought about it before ordering it in the first place. Needless to say, we’re on lockdown starting tomorrow - except if we need food, liquor or weed. I know this is unrelated but just had to rant for a bit. Sorry guys.
These people who don’t care are the bleeping problem. It makes me so mad. I’ve seen posts from people I know who’ve just been out and about for weeks ... one of them (mother of 4) just started quarantining TODAY
Mind you those kids have been out and about and cross country driving, traveling with her ... ugh
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As much as I dislike A and P, and their laziness, I very much doubt that they're trying to train her to do tasks that they dislike doing. If that were the case, she wouldn't be sitting on the couch like a lump constantly and she would actually be doing things around the house, which she doesn't. Sadly.
These tasks are in place to better help a child function and know how to do common household chores that they can utilize later as an adult. When I was Abbie's age, I was doing similar things and constantly having to be shown how to do laundry, eventually, it clicked and I started understanding the rules.
I was also in physical therapy since my motor skills were far behind what neurotypical children would be. So I had to learn how to go upstairs, catch and hold things. I worked so damn hard back in the day just to get to where I am now. But those tasks did help me later in life, even if I do have to have help with other things.
I do however think they need to change her routine. Like, focus on handwashing putting her dishes in the sink, taking her plate to the table. Small things like that. She's very capable in doing that and we've seen it before in old vlogs. She even use to unload the dishwasher but now, her parents do every single little thing for her. Dinner time? She sits at the table until she's served then shoves her face in the food. It's been proven she is capable of those things, but A and P have made her lazy without following through and keeping up with a routine. Regardless of what excuse they want to make, routine is key in her remembering how to do things.
I'm kind of wondering if the mom of the first daughter is the one Assa was referring to in their shame video. Remember he made the comment you know who you are insinuating they were the one who started the rumor of the 3rd child. Did anyone else get that feeling from the shame video?
As I said earlier,my state has an advisory stay at home that starts tomorrow at noon. So far,not much will be closed except the schools. As an advisory most won’t take heed any more than they are now. Italy should be a warning to the world in general. But if course,they all say,won’t happen here....
Right! I always thought this as well. Like, why not start with the necessities of life first like personal care, washing face, brushing teeth, bathing, getting dressed, buttons, zippers, ties, ......how to properly feed oneself, geez. Then move on to other things that will help her gain some personal independence. Hasn't she been in ABA for like 7-8 years!?? What is the point of having an adult load the dishwasher, but isn't completely toilet trained to wipe their own bum??
Everything that they do is bass ackwards (as we said in the old days
). I am so glad that everyone here can see the truth.And the problem is that people ARE allowed to go to the stores, where they are touching everything, and not standing in lines 6 ft apart. Or going to parks for "exercise" and touching benches. There doesnt have to be large groups, and people are just going to the these places to "get out". Believe me, I am pissed too lol
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I CANNOT BELIEVE HE MADE THAT BUBBLE NOISE OF ABBIE'S INTO A MESSAGE NOTIFICATION.
He makes me sick for so many reasons.
He makes me sick for so many reasons.
Funny thing is that an expert on this whole thing was sent from China to Italy to kind of see what they’re doing and guide them in the process. The Chinese expert said they (Italy) are failing in most aspects! The expert also pointed out that public transportation needs to be completely shut down (which as a logical thinking person, I was surprised that wasn’t a mandate in all the shelter at home states). So if were getting our insight from Italy ... we will be in the same predicament, if not worse (due to population and how idiotic people are here).
Edit: it was a team of Chinese experts sent. And I reworded it as when I read my statement it seemed as though I was saying “Chinese virus” as “opposed to someone from China”
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