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Does anyone know what Eva's mother died of? Was it breast cancer?

The two sisters share a habit of being preachy esp about topics they don't know much about, don't they?
 
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dreamybutterfly

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I am glad many of you have noticed what I have thought for a while now. It makes me quite uncomfortable and while I know what she gone through the past few years is quite traumatic she does seem to be completely consumed by grief to the point she doesn't seem to want to get out of it. I agree that doing normal life stuff (like work) does take your mind off of it, but I can imagine sitting at home in the flat and looking at Olive's room and things all the time is probably not going to help.
 
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greenbear

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I’ve just seen the new video. It is heartbreaking. She is so adamant that she doesn’t need help, tablets or counselling. There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing support! I got her message as ‘ I’m grieving, I don’t have mental health issues’ - to me it’s absolutely not a sign of weakness & I truly believe it’s such a challenging time mentally that it’s advisable to speak to a professional. I think she is which is amazing.
She is very defensive though.
And while 100% agree there is no right way or timeframe how and when to grieve I think if you are not feeling better this is a time to seek for help so I hope she will continue.
I hope she finds peace, Allan too ❤
Maybe it's her upbringing and therapy is seen as a sign of weakness.
Doesn't seem like she even sought help for her mom's death.
 
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I’ve seen a new video, what are your thoughts on the mugs for grandparents?
I know it’s not about me but I’m not sure if the mug for grandparents with Olive’s handprint is too much or actually nice? It looks lovely, they’ve been gifting them a lot of Olive related stuff though.
 
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sheleg

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The whole situation is heartbreaking. Eva has handled herself with such strength and resilience throughout this difficult time. Does anyone have a link to her sister’s channel?
I don’t know if she has YouTube but her Instagram is tiarahjoy. I’m not a fan of her stories, to be honest. A lot of body checking, ridiculous filters, and posting #aff links for horrible clothes.
 
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Snazzycat

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I haven't seen one of her vlogs of a long time, but I watched her most recent one and I think she seems to be doing really well, all things considered! I'm glad she's going back to work too, and I hope she has supportive colleagues and wish her the best.
 
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I can’t imagine all the grief and it feels so mean to say it but like you said before - even her instagram stories get disturbing, looking so desperately for signs from them and assigning them so much meaning. I still think she is not getting any better :((
 
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vroni

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She said that Olive was stillborn, but they were allowed to spend 3.5 days with her at home. I didn't get that part, to be honest, but she mentioned it several times. So I don't think it was SIDS.
 
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She did. She mentioned changing her therapist, counselor or doctor to one specialising in grief a few months after her mother's death. She mentioned having a healthcare provider again when she told them she was pregnant and the healthcare provider was happy for her.

Maybe it's her upbringing and therapy is seen as a sign of weakness.
Doesn't seem like she even sought help for her mom's death.
She probably thinks grieving is her way of remembering and holding onto her dead baby. I think all the weird things she does like laying out baby clothes every night is fine as long as she has other things going on in her life and her grief is not negatively impacting her life.
 
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Absolutely devastated for them, I can’t get either of them out of my mind. Also, repulsed by her sisters continuous self obsessed posts during this time.
 
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postteendream

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The whole situation is heartbreaking. Eva has handled herself with such strength and resilience throughout this difficult time. Does anyone have a link to her sister’s channel?
 
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I find her posting about it questionable. Her social media accounts, her rules, but cameras have a way of making people come off as fake and begging for attention. She would come off as more sincerely sad if she took time off from social media and privately dealt with her loss. Plus, we all know that social media isn't good for mental health.

I think she is genuinely grieving but she isn't helping herself with some of her choices.
 
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Palmtrees

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Yes!!
She mentioned they were wanting to keep the name to themselves? Was there another reason given?
I don’t think there was another reason given but she’s over 8 weeks now. I saw the name “Hope” mentioned somewhere can’t recall where tho. I do wish them well but we’ve all been with them for quite a while now so it would be nice to know.
 
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Open-door

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I have to say watching the last couple of videos, the way she holds her baby with her head flopping back so much makes me squirm. She really should be supporting her head more. I can't watch her until the babies neckk strengthens 😩
Have to agree. Did she have a Caesar and is unable to lift properly - although that's still not an excuse not to support her baby's head?
 
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