I’ll raise my child to do better than Esme. Or Myla and OctaviaAnd funnily enough your grave will still be the same sizeas I said, it’s tattle people are entitled to say their piece but to call her out on having a council flat makes you look a right twit, hopefully you don’t raise your child with that dreadful attitude
I’ll raise my child to do better than Esme. Or Myla and Octavia
assuming that her kids won’t do well? I assume you think that because they’re growin up in a council flat lmao get out your own arse loveI’ll raise my child to do better than Esme. Or Myla and Octavia
Why is she not entitled to her housing? I just don’t get it, so what was supposed to happen when she had nowhere to go? The kid would have been put in care and Esme on the street? And because they live in a council flat they’re not allowed to go on holiday. I’m sorry I’m just really confused at what people think single mums are meant to do, sit at home and not do anything because their housing is paid for so obviously they shouldn’t enjoy their life
Whilst I agree the whole situation is weird, you’re clutching at straws with this one.
Why would she be entitled to it if she could live with her family or partner ? Here where I am it's prioritised for people who literally have no other option (no support, no finances to afford to pay themselves etc)
Just because you got married and purchased a house doesn’t mean that your child won’t end up having a baby at 16..? And end up needing suppoI know it’s a wild concept but I decided to go to university and have a career, get married and buy a house before I had my child. So that our tax money could support Esmes bad decision making
but you don’t KNOW whether that was an option? That’s my whole point. She may very well have been homeless. Her mum might have turned her down and the same thing could very well have happened with the boyfriend as he lives with his mum? Just because it’s family doesn’t mean they have to help you unfortunately.
But she couldn’t live with family or a partner? That’s not how it works at all, I assume you’re just going off what you hear, it’s about low income, anyone can apply for a council house I think maybe you have to be earning less than a certain amount to qualify but nobody looks into your personal circumstances as to whether you could stay with a family member. At the end of the day she has a roof over her childrens heads, whether it’s council, private rent or owned I really don’t see the problem. Why’s it make it less of a home just because it has the word council on it? It’s no less of a home than a flat next door that might be privately owned
Family can be incredibly supportive childcare wise and wanting to be involved in their lives but just not have the room to allow them to move in permanently? We don’t know how big their houses are or who currently resides there as it is.
But she was entitled to it because of her situation. I’m just very confused at the bitterness about her having a council flat, would it have been better for her to stay with her dad and have myla growing up around arguments and whatever else? I’m sorry but as a child I grew up around that kind of behaviour let me tell you the anxiety from it now is no joke and I wouldn’t wish it on any child.
Are you deliberately missing the point?
Why should she move in with other people, why should she not have her own space for her and her daughter/s… and I suggest if the people sleeping on mattresses in their parents houses can’t get there own place then they should stop having kids
I don’t think I’ve been nasty I’m being logical, I don’t normally get irritated by the things I read on here, I’ve actually never commented on this thread before just scrolled through but to shame someone because they live in council housing has just blew my mind.
