I think the reality is she’s actually just an idiot. Like, for alllll her ‘research’ and apparent knowledge of epilepsy far greater than any medical professional, she actually just isn’t that bright. Lulu’s seizures are not behavioural. They are not within any conscious control. There is nothing Erin or Dave or anyone can do (short of giving any medication that’s been prescribed) that will shorten or lengthen her seizures. Erin’s role, as mentioned above, is supportive. Getting her into a safe position (has anyone ever seen Erin put her in the recovery position?), keeping her immediate environment clear, timing the seizure, and providing comfort and reassurance. “It’s OK, sweetheart, mama’s here. You’re doing so well baby, I know, it’s nearly over, it’s nearly done, Mama’s right here. It’s nearly finished, sweetheart, you’re OK, you’re safe, we’re here with you, we’ve got you….’ etc etc.
If Lu can hear Erin’s escalating panic and feel the incessant blowing on her face while she’s seizing, can you imagine how much MORE scared that would make her?