She makes me so bleeping angry.
Does not deserve to be a mother, let alone to that poor sweet girl who deserves so much more
Does not deserve to be a mother, let alone to that poor sweet girl who deserves so much more
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Hang onā¦Erin never cared for Tom and Lulu alone before?!?
She seriously has zero insight into what family dynamics are like for people worldwide 
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Whatever made Chrystal leave like that must have been bad because she absolutely adored Lu more than her own mother. They say there's two sides to every story and my guess is Erin has some idea of why Chrystal left.
So she wants a holiday w her and Dave and Tom and the other person with Lu? That sounds more divided to me ?She seriously has zero insight into what family dynamics are like for people worldwide
Why canāt the 2 of them take both children on a holiday together ? No work for Dave on holiday.
WHY would Lulu need to be separate from Tom on a holiday??
Iāve had people comment that Iām too soft on various influencers for someone posting on a snark forumā¦ so Iām not one to say this lightly, but I find it disgusting that Erin has aired her dissatisfaction with Chrystal leaving in the public way she has. Even if nothing happened in terms of Erinās behaviour to cause Chrystal to leave (which I doubt), Chrystal still has a right to decide to move on if she felt unable to continue in what would have been a demanding role. I agree it would be heartbreaking for Lu and painful as a parent to see your child lose a loved carer. That doesnāt justify trashing someone on social media and potentially damaging their future prospects.
I also find it sad that she sees her best self as being someone on a carefree holiday. Totally fine to have difficult feelings around the reality of her life, and my children are more typically developing so I understand I am not in her situation, but surely you would see stepping up to care for your beautiful, disabled child, putting aside the vision of the āperfectā life you had, as an opportunity to become your best self?
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I also find it sad that she sees her best self as being someone on a carefree holiday. Totally fine to have difficult feelings around the reality of her life, and my children are more typically developing so I understand I am not in her situation, but surely you would see stepping up to care for your beautiful, disabled child, putting aside the vision of the āperfectā life you had, as an opportunity to become your best self?
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Yeah, agree. I find it distasteful how breathy and overexcited Zoe gets about horrendous details.
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It got me thinking as well, Chrystal was apparently āmeant to beā looking after Lu whilst they went away. Maybe that had finally overstepped a boundary she didnāt wish to be apart of
Maybe it was due to looking after the children while they were away and the things Erin complained about.or the demands she put on her. She said they got a new carer quickly and today was only day 1.
Erin is a f*cking lunatic and I canāt wait for the day that she is exposed for the narcissistic, selfish human she really is. The only person I feel for is Luella, that little girl deserves so much more than that poor excuse of a mother. She makes me so angry.
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Also correct me if Iām wrong but didnāt this psychopath choose to have another baby whilst having a severely disabled young child, and has done nothing but complain and sell the woe is me story?! Duh head what did you think was going to happen with Tom & Lu, they were both going to sleep through the night and you could jog around at your hearts content, going on dates and catching flights for holidays on whim?! Lol she is literally insane I canāt.
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Also correct me if Iām wrong but didnāt this psychopath choose to have another baby whilst having a severely disabled young child, and has done nothing but complain and sell the woe is me story?! Duh head what did you think was going to happen with Tom & Lu, they were both going to sleep through the night and you could jog around at your hearts content, going on dates and catching flights for holidays on whim?! Lol she is literally insane I canāt.
God she is a horrid witch. Really bleeping sinister and scary.
Consciously chooses to not get Lu the surgery she needs and then blames everybody else she can possibly think of, the birthing staff / vaccines / her neurologists, for the life Luella will have to lead because of her own decisions. Complains about how hard their life is while having the luxury of a night nurse and a day carer, parents at their beck and call, are wealthy enough to build a custom home to accommodate their daughter in an upscale neighborhood on a single income and she doesnāt have to be burdened by working outside the home. Runs the day carer off due to her own horrible, toxic behaviour and then has the brass balls to slag her off on socials. Opines about how happy she and Dave could be if they didnāt have to face coming home to Lu. Is so arrogant that she thinks she doesnāt have to be accountable for the tens of thousands of dollars people donated to her based on false pretenses. Admits that they havenāt considered Luellaās limitations in building this new home. This is bleeping mind blowing to me. This would be the absolute starting point and entire design brief for any other family lucky enough to have the resources to build custom but it never even entered her mind. Like, WTF?? Is she hoping Lu dies so they donāt have to worry about accommodating her limitations??? Seriously! Thatās not something Iāve ever said before, Iāve hesitated to make that leap because itās just so barbaric. But every god damn thing she does and decision she makes is pointing to that. I really do think in Erinās heart of hearts that she is hoping Lu passes and relieves them of their burden.
Consciously chooses to not get Lu the surgery she needs and then blames everybody else she can possibly think of, the birthing staff / vaccines / her neurologists, for the life Luella will have to lead because of her own decisions. Complains about how hard their life is while having the luxury of a night nurse and a day carer, parents at their beck and call, are wealthy enough to build a custom home to accommodate their daughter in an upscale neighborhood on a single income and she doesnāt have to be burdened by working outside the home. Runs the day carer off due to her own horrible, toxic behaviour and then has the brass balls to slag her off on socials. Opines about how happy she and Dave could be if they didnāt have to face coming home to Lu.
Is so arrogant that she thinks she doesnāt have to be accountable for the tens of thousands of dollars people donated to her based on false pretenses. Admits that they havenāt considered Luellaās limitations in building this new home. This is bleeping mind blowing to me. This would be the absolute starting point and entire design brief for any other family lucky enough to have the resources to build custom but it never even entered her mind. Like, WTF?? Is she hoping Lu dies so they donāt have to worry about accommodating her limitations??? Seriously! Thatās not something Iāve ever said before, Iāve hesitated to make that leap because itās just so barbaric. But every god damn thing she does and decision she makes is pointing to that. I really do think in Erinās heart of hearts that she is hoping Lu passes and relieves them of their burden.
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So my friend asked for clarification on the go fund me money and Erin unsent her message and then deleted the whole convo. Definitely seems sus
Erin not reading the room when someone asked about how she is controversial?!
All those questions were fucked. How does she not look around and see that she is the common problem?! She stated her Friends have left her?! Which at first I felt for her. Then her Insta crew duck her off. She spoke of her own Parents bleeping her off and now Crystal?!
She needs some serious help. Those poor Kids.
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All those questions were fucked. How does she not look around and see that she is the common problem?! She stated her Friends have left her?! Which at first I felt for her. Then her Insta crew duck her off. She spoke of her own Parents bleeping her off and now Crystal?!
She needs some serious help. Those poor Kids.
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Her only answering GFM Questions in private?! Is suss as duck. IF you have nothing to hide?! Then stop hiding it.
Every time she does a Q&A she comes off worse and worse.
I hope Chrystal is ok!! Itās horrible to call her out like that, she canāt really respond because that would be unprofessional and against patient/client confidentiality but I bet she has some stories to tell.
She falls out with everyone! Remember a few months ago she fell out with her parents as well? And would say they have no family support. Sheās lucky they seem to be back in her life because sheās pushed everyone else away.
Genuine question - does anyone who reads this thread actually like Erin? Or know anyone that likes her? Iām curious if thereās anyone who really thinks sheās an amazing mum like people seem to tell her she is and understand why they think that.
I hope Chrystal is ok!! Itās horrible to call her out like that, she canāt really respond because that would be unprofessional and against patient/client confidentiality but I bet she has some stories to tell.
She falls out with everyone! Remember a few months ago she fell out with her parents as well? And would say they have no family support. Sheās lucky they seem to be back in her life because sheās pushed everyone else away.
Genuine question - does anyone who reads this thread actually like Erin? Or know anyone that likes her? Iām curious if thereās anyone who really thinks sheās an amazing mum like people seem to tell her she is and understand why they think that.
Wow. I haven't even gotten through all the Q&A stories, but I've seen enough.
Fancy accessibility not being your PRIMARY concern when doing a a new build! Like, WHAT THE ACTUAL!? This is MIND BOGGLING.
YAY for Chrystal! I can imagine there would have been no ability to do a slow extrication from working for Erin. She would have made the environment so intolerable and toxic. I want to believe that Chrystal could no longer tolerate Erin's blatant neglect of Lu's medical needs, and this was the only way she could take a stand in truly advocating for Lu. I don't know. To be honest I was actually expecting this - I'm surprised Chrystal lasted as long as she did. Their 'earth angel.' Ick.
As for the 'divide and conquer' approach to having 2+ kids, and the kids being on different schedules - WELCOME TO PARENTING!! This is what every single parent of 2+ kids experiences, even when neither child has a disability. The fact she thinks she is so hard done by that this is her reality shows how out of touch she is with ACTUAL reality. And how little experience she has with children in general to not know that this is completely normal.
We will likely never travel internationally as a family with our children, either. Our disabled child would suffer more than the benefit of us being overseas. But it doesn't mean our life is over. It means that we vacation domestically (we haven't vacationed since he was born, and he's 5, but we are so freaking obsessed with him that we don't even care). Does she not realise we have an enormous country with so much to see and do? & yep, sure, it's not Paris or Milan or whatever tropical destination might be top of your list, but my thoughts always go to something to the effect of, "I could have Paris, or I could have my son. And I will choose him every single day for the rest of eternity, because I LOVE HIM MORE THAN EVERYTHING ON THIS PLANET.' Don't get me wrong - if someone offered me a ticket to Paris today, I'd probably find a way to go, even if it meant mobilising every single resource I have to ensure my son is taken care of. & if I couldn't make that happen, then I wouldn't go. But my point is...he comes first. No matter what. He comes first in every facet of our life, because he's our beautiful, perfect son and we couldn't imagine our life without him. I literally say to my husband every night as we lay in bed, "God I love that kid. What did we ever do to deserve him?"
Everything we do is focused on his needs. We don't go to Taylor Swift etc, we go to sensory friendly events so that he can be his whole self and enjoy the experience too. I don't know. There's no point in me going on telling you all the things we do to make our life worth living in the context of also having a disabled child (& two typically developing ones). Because what we do honestly isn't anything that deserves claps or accolades. It's just the bare minimum that any parent should do. I literally cannot stand Erin.
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Oh. One more thing. The other thing that shocked me was her complete lack of considering an education for Lu. Lu is 4 in...October? So, 5 in October 2024, and then will need to start school in 2025 (in NSW we need to start school the year a child turns 6). School is not something you can just opt out of. There's of course the option to homeschool Lu, but we know Erin would never in a million trillion years opt to do that.
It's like, can she invest any actual thought in to raising her daughter and giving her the best life possible? This involves planning. My child is SLIGHTLY more independent than Lu (he can walk with assistance, can sign, can feed himself finger food etc) and it is a full time job advocating for him and putting things in place to ensure he has access to the things he needs to live his best life. This is on top of the full-time job it is actually caring for him (for which I lack a full time support worker or a night nurse, lol). Erin THINKS she is an advocating, but she has no idea what ACTUALLY advocating means or looks like. What it doesn't mean is doing disgusting voice overs on stupid reels saying things like 'She will never walk, talk, feed etc' like WHAT THE duck? She is the exact opposite of an advocate. She's like an anti-advocate.
We love you, Lu!
& Chrystal, we support you! If you're here, leave us a post with just emojis. You're welcome here!
Fancy accessibility not being your PRIMARY concern when doing a a new build! Like, WHAT THE ACTUAL!? This is MIND BOGGLING.
YAY for Chrystal! I can imagine there would have been no ability to do a slow extrication from working for Erin. She would have made the environment so intolerable and toxic. I want to believe that Chrystal could no longer tolerate Erin's blatant neglect of Lu's medical needs, and this was the only way she could take a stand in truly advocating for Lu. I don't know. To be honest I was actually expecting this - I'm surprised Chrystal lasted as long as she did. Their 'earth angel.' Ick.
As for the 'divide and conquer' approach to having 2+ kids, and the kids being on different schedules - WELCOME TO PARENTING!! This is what every single parent of 2+ kids experiences, even when neither child has a disability. The fact she thinks she is so hard done by that this is her reality shows how out of touch she is with ACTUAL reality. And how little experience she has with children in general to not know that this is completely normal.
We will likely never travel internationally as a family with our children, either. Our disabled child would suffer more than the benefit of us being overseas. But it doesn't mean our life is over. It means that we vacation domestically (we haven't vacationed since he was born, and he's 5, but we are so freaking obsessed with him that we don't even care). Does she not realise we have an enormous country with so much to see and do? & yep, sure, it's not Paris or Milan or whatever tropical destination might be top of your list, but my thoughts always go to something to the effect of, "I could have Paris, or I could have my son. And I will choose him every single day for the rest of eternity, because I LOVE HIM MORE THAN EVERYTHING ON THIS PLANET.' Don't get me wrong - if someone offered me a ticket to Paris today, I'd probably find a way to go, even if it meant mobilising every single resource I have to ensure my son is taken care of. & if I couldn't make that happen, then I wouldn't go. But my point is...he comes first. No matter what. He comes first in every facet of our life, because he's our beautiful, perfect son and we couldn't imagine our life without him. I literally say to my husband every night as we lay in bed, "God I love that kid. What did we ever do to deserve him?"
Everything we do is focused on his needs. We don't go to Taylor Swift etc, we go to sensory friendly events so that he can be his whole self and enjoy the experience too. I don't know. There's no point in me going on telling you all the things we do to make our life worth living in the context of also having a disabled child (& two typically developing ones). Because what we do honestly isn't anything that deserves claps or accolades. It's just the bare minimum that any parent should do. I literally cannot stand Erin.
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Oh. One more thing. The other thing that shocked me was her complete lack of considering an education for Lu. Lu is 4 in...October? So, 5 in October 2024, and then will need to start school in 2025 (in NSW we need to start school the year a child turns 6). School is not something you can just opt out of. There's of course the option to homeschool Lu, but we know Erin would never in a million trillion years opt to do that.
It's like, can she invest any actual thought in to raising her daughter and giving her the best life possible? This involves planning. My child is SLIGHTLY more independent than Lu (he can walk with assistance, can sign, can feed himself finger food etc) and it is a full time job advocating for him and putting things in place to ensure he has access to the things he needs to live his best life. This is on top of the full-time job it is actually caring for him (for which I lack a full time support worker or a night nurse, lol). Erin THINKS she is an advocating, but she has no idea what ACTUALLY advocating means or looks like. What it doesn't mean is doing disgusting voice overs on stupid reels saying things like 'She will never walk, talk, feed etc' like WHAT THE duck? She is the exact opposite of an advocate. She's like an anti-advocate.
We love you, Lu!
& Chrystal, we support you! If you're here, leave us a post with just emojis. You're welcome here!
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@EggCarton so well said ! All of it !
I was thinking she was 5 this year, but then her saying school isnāt even in our realm.., that I must have got it wrong ? How could she think Lu isnāt entitled to an education ? Thatās heartbreaking.
She is delusion that Lu is going to mainstream. She needs to be doing the ground work now (which hs very late ) to get her into an appropriate school. There is Wairoa Public school in Bondi, which is great and transport pick up for children too. That would be a great school for Lu but she needs to go through the process to apply..
Next it will be no school will have Lu blah blah and she will stamp her feet trying to enrol her in January 2024ā¦
I was thinking she was 5 this year, but then her saying school isnāt even in our realm.., that I must have got it wrong ? How could she think Lu isnāt entitled to an education ? Thatās heartbreaking.
She is delusion that Lu is going to mainstream. She needs to be doing the ground work now (which hs very late ) to get her into an appropriate school. There is Wairoa Public school in Bondi, which is great and transport pick up for children too. That would be a great school for Lu but she needs to go through the process to apply..
Next it will be no school will have Lu blah blah and she will stamp her feet trying to enrol her in January 2024ā¦
I am truly lost for words but this sums up all of my thoughts exactly. She is such a toxic woman, I am glad Chrystal got out of that toxic household.God she is a horrid witch. Really bleeping sinister and scary.
Consciously chooses to not get Lu the surgery she needs and then blames everybody else she can possibly think of, the birthing staff / vaccines / her neurologists, for the life Luella will have to lead because of her own decisions. Complains about how hard their life is while having the luxury of a night nurse and a day carer, parents at their beck and call, are wealthy enough to build a custom home to accommodate their daughter in an upscale neighborhood on a single income and she doesnāt have to be burdened by working outside the home. Runs the day carer off due to her own horrible, toxic behaviour and then has the brass balls to slag her off on socials. Opines about how happy she and Dave could be if they didnāt have to face coming home to Lu.
I just wonder how much longer will Dave put up with her tit.
There was this question, which seemed conspicuous to me. It could have been a genuine question from someone else or it could have been her asking herself the question and a window into her current thoughts. Iām sure she asks herself questions to have an excuse to talk about certain things or to be able to air her grievances. (I would bet at least one of those questions about Chrystal was from her.)
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