She doesn’t care, it’s just performative. Also she’s not listening, she’s only got it playing in the background while she does her makeup or rants on her ig stories
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catsrule18
Member
Watch how she try get her entire wedding for free. Only thing she won’t get for free is that divorce fees!
Someone even posted how these Erim threads went viral so they had to go on insta to check who she is bhahahaha WE are the coachHer engagement ratethese threads get more engagement than that
wafflesnwings
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Godmother? Doesn't she always harp on about how she grew up with no women or mother-type figures in her life? She gives Pinocchio a run for his money!
No pretend NDA signed herePlease tell us moreunless she's had you sign an NDA aswell hahaha
all in good time. I was thinking that perhaps victims of ERIC THE BULLY could accumulate something together on an anonymous so that it can be published publicly 
truth10195
Member
Used to know her also - life looked up once this monster was away from me. Let’s just say one could drop a lot more tea on her but for the sake of not revealing who I am, I won’t. All I will say is most of what’s been mentioned is true (idk about a married man). I think the behaviour has just gotten worse over the years because she never went to therapy.
wafflesnwings
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cringe upon cringe upon cringe. I'm actually done giving her benefit of the doubt and my belief that there is always a chance to change for the better because she will never change. @snmp you are so right about narcs manipulating therapists; I am starting to genuinely believe that she will become more toxic, more problematic, more misogynistic and callous (akin to a wounded cat; lashing out at anyone and everyone). On a separate note: wasn't that beautiful poem written about and for Jada Pinkett-Smith?
@melono1 she's already rich; comes from a super affluent family
can't even spell; let alone speak in a clear and articulate manner
classytikkamasala
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if she didn't claim to be the "only sikh influencer speaking up about issues" (her words) and she was honest about the ridiculous things she lies about like modesty, drinking, hookah, partying, body hair, cosmetic procedures etc... literally no one would bat an eye at those things. there are tons of punjabi influencers who do all of that and have a community of girls following their pages for the recommendations and advice on all of that stuff. but its the fact that she hides behind this "sisterhood" facade when in reality she cannot hold any female relationships in her life because she's full of jealousy when it comes to women around her. people do not go to her platform for advice or sisterhood because she doesn't offer any of that. she tries to create this image of superiority and thinks of her followers as her admirers, not her sisterhood. she wants a fandom, not a sisterhood.
look at the people she looks up to: molly mae, kim kardashian etc. she wants to be an influencer that people idolise, she doesn't want a sisterhood, that's all a facade. she wants fans, not sisters.
look at the people she looks up to: molly mae, kim kardashian etc. she wants to be an influencer that people idolise, she doesn't want a sisterhood, that's all a facade. she wants fans, not sisters.
classytikkamasala
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literally, they all just drop her after a few months, they probably realise the facade of her platform and how she doesnt have a actual connection with her audience other than the feet content and asking her followers if their dads want to do herProbably because no one can put up with her
classytikkamasala
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she thinks we are so obsessed with her when in reality she is so obsessed with us and what we say about her, she surrounds all her content around what we have to say about her 
tattling3000
Active member
She’s made it so obvious that she reads everything on here. I made a comment a few days ago about how she only gives her grandmother unwanted PR. Now she’s talking about giving her “diamonds”…. Which is still the leftover, UNWANTED PR. Like omg just go out and buy her something nice with your own money if you want to show appreciation!!!!
Or just cook her some shawlayy & rawteee
Or just cook her some shawlayy & rawteee
She does that for every occasion, even her own birthday... watch in a few weeks she's going to start posting about "guys i hate my birthday" posts but "guess when my birthday is"... and will still always post on her actual birthday to let everyone know its her birthday but she hates celebrating. She's just an attention seeker...its all for engagement for her and to feel relevant.
truth10195
Member
Lmao this is very telling indeed - so pathetic
wafflesnwings
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Tbh I don't care if Shadcat is Irum or not, most of us are on here because we are outraged and disgusted by Erim's behaviour, lies and conwoman product that causes people's hair to fall out. I don't think anyone here is "sad" for calling a spade a spade - lies only take someone so far and it isn't long until the truth or a person's true colours shine which is probably going to happen soon because more and more people are seeing her and her flop of a brand for what it is.
As for discussions about her mother, it's never ok to mock someone for the loss of their parent. Yet it is worth considering this: Erim doesn't even pay homage to the memory of her mother in small ways, let alone big ones. The pain of losing a parent and/or growing up in their absence leaves marks - but as has been said on a previous thread, she doesn't seem able to emotionally face that loss yet or the impact it's had on her. The oil story is about her grandmother - which is fine because it's part of her attempt at branding, but there are still ways to include nods to a lost parent in a product or a small campaign or a brand. Having the words "doing it for the girls without a mum" is vague and facetious. What is she doing exactly? Nothing. Nothing of merit. It's all a disgusting show of modern plastic behaviour topped with narcissism. I've seen many people set up small foundations or do charity work in the name of their lost ones - even if they choose to never talk about or post on social media about them. From her posts, her content, her mannerisms (which reveal her emotional immaturity), I feel that Erim is lost and an empty shell of a person. She is trying to run away from a deep emotional pain by having a bravado, a social media caricature and snapping at every single little thing, to cover up, but you can only run so far until you have to face yourself for what you really are one day. Doesn't she get tired of the lies? Isn't she drained from constantly being in attack mode? She's still young and she still has a chance to put things right. But I don't think she will; it takes courage to face that pain. She's either not ready or unwilling to.
As you can tell, I quite like writing essays!
As for discussions about her mother, it's never ok to mock someone for the loss of their parent. Yet it is worth considering this: Erim doesn't even pay homage to the memory of her mother in small ways, let alone big ones. The pain of losing a parent and/or growing up in their absence leaves marks - but as has been said on a previous thread, she doesn't seem able to emotionally face that loss yet or the impact it's had on her. The oil story is about her grandmother - which is fine because it's part of her attempt at branding, but there are still ways to include nods to a lost parent in a product or a small campaign or a brand. Having the words "doing it for the girls without a mum" is vague and facetious. What is she doing exactly? Nothing. Nothing of merit. It's all a disgusting show of modern plastic behaviour topped with narcissism. I've seen many people set up small foundations or do charity work in the name of their lost ones - even if they choose to never talk about or post on social media about them. From her posts, her content, her mannerisms (which reveal her emotional immaturity), I feel that Erim is lost and an empty shell of a person. She is trying to run away from a deep emotional pain by having a bravado, a social media caricature and snapping at every single little thing, to cover up, but you can only run so far until you have to face yourself for what you really are one day. Doesn't she get tired of the lies? Isn't she drained from constantly being in attack mode? She's still young and she still has a chance to put things right. But I don't think she will; it takes courage to face that pain. She's either not ready or unwilling to.
As you can tell, I quite like writing essays!
gossipergirl22
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reported her page for nudity
truth10195
Member
I’m glad the truth is and will come out. Being around her was toxic for my well-being and I can only imagine what those girls went through being publicly humiliated for views. This facade has gone on too long. She is a full blown narcissist.
classytikkamasala
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LMAO BABE THE SCREENSHOTS HAVE THE TIMESTAMPS HAHAHA you are majorly lacking braincells this is hilarious
anyway can you ask irum why she didn't make the influential sikhs under 30 list??? is she going to hop on stories and fake cry again??? let me know the time and date so i can set a reminder and get some popcorn thanks!!!
Lol I'm just a year older than her (28) and have had my degree for the last 6 years and it is literally never something that is on my mind.
The way she is a grown woman and keeps talking about a degree is really pathetic...
Erim - no one thinks you faked your degree, please stop..out here acting like she got her PhD or something lmao
The way she is a grown woman and keeps talking about a degree is really pathetic...
Erim - no one thinks you faked your degree, please stop..out here acting like she got her PhD or something lmao