Eoghan McDermott - Irish radio stars face social media allegations.

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So what was the purpose of them telling us all of this????

He won best breakfast show at last years IMROs, listing all his presenting accomplishments, some charitable??

Sounded pretty complimentary and irrelevant to me given the upset it would undoubtedly cause.

The statement was perfect up until that point.
It was just a filler piece. Like when the Daily Mail describea a person's outfit in great detail when there are already pictures attached.
 
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It would look very pointed if they just put out a short curt statement. It has to be in line with other statements about staff leaving to protect themselves and any future trial. It’s just a summary of his time there
 
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Really original joke there!

Look all I am saying is that the lack of quotes from co-stars, Director General etc are noticable.
Well I will, and always will, think of the survivor who has to read that announcement today.

It will not influence or be bias to put a full stop halfway down that statement without all his achievements.
 
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It will not influence or be bias to put a full stop halfway down that statement without all his achievements.
It would absolutely stand out if they did that as it is completely different to the standard article when someone leaves. A 2-3 line article saying he has left would be jumped on by social media as evidence.

It's also unfair to use the "think of the victim" line. The reason I am arguing this is because if he is guilty of this, I want it to not get quashed in court because of media commentary.
 
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I’m sorry now............ actually I’m not! I don’t think reddit is a place for anyone to tell their story like this one, it’s a way to stir it up publicly. Go to the guards, the court....... follow the system!
What system?! Your post is incredibly narrow minded. We should encourage women to disclose however they feel comfortable to do so. It’s incredibly daunting. I went to the guards at 17 after being sexually assaulted and the local sergeant frightened my mum out of pressing charges saying that my name would be all over the papers and it would ruin my future.
 
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What system?! Your post is incredibly narrow minded. We should encourage women to disclose however they feel comfortable to do so. It’s incredibly daunting. I went to the guards at 17 after being sexually assaulted and the local sergeant frightened my mum out of pressing charges saying that my name would be all over the papers and it would ruin my future.
Absolutely disgusting. I’m so sorry.
 
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What system?! Your post is incredibly narrow minded. We should encourage women to disclose however they feel comfortable to do so. It’s incredibly daunting. I went to the guards at 17 after being sexually assaulted and the local sergeant frightened my mum out of pressing charges saying that my name would be all over the papers and it would ruin my future.

Not to mention he was lying. As a victim of a sex crime your anonymity is protected unless you choose to waive the right to it
 
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It was just a filler piece. Like when the Daily Mail describea a person's outfit in great detail when there are already pictures attached.
Hi,
I agree with this. I think the stmt has been picked up wrong. It's 7 sentences long and end with the line 'DG will remain on the show" so it is very abrupt. The rest of it was added by the publication to fill it out.
 
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What system?! Your post is incredibly narrow minded. We should encourage women to disclose however they feel comfortable to do so. It’s incredibly daunting. I went to the guards at 17 after being sexually assaulted and the local sergeant frightened my mum out of pressing charges saying that my name would be all over the papers and it would ruin my future.
That might be your experience but I have worked with so many young women and men that have gone to the gaurds and were shown nothing but encouragement and support from their first statement through the whole process to court. Specialised investigators, meeting them in comfortable locations etc.
If you feel hard done by from your previous experience you can go back now and disclose your abuse, I’d be hopeful you’d have a different experience.
 
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Let me tell you what I have to live with.
I was 14 when a man in his mid 40's groomed me. I'd have considered myself very intelligent.
I was bullied at the time, so had no friends, no one to confide in. I was played like a violin to believe that someone genuinely cared for me.

I didn't want to do any of the sex stuff, which I know know was abuse, but I did it because I was so afraid of what would happen if I didn't.
He never threatened me, he didn't have to. I knew enough to be afraid.
It did come out what was happening, he was jailed, but once it came out I put it in a box in my head.
The box was always there.
With every dysfunctional relationship that followed, the box was there.

I finally, 10 years later, got counselling.
No one had told me I was abused, until then.
All I could think was it was my own fault.
Because I kept returning, so I must have liked it.
I didn't, but sure, as you have clearly said in your post, why go back after the first time???


Within the last 20 years I've made several attempts on my life.
I bear physical scars from where I've harmed myself, because I needed to see actual physical damage to be able to say to myself "now you can cry, now you have a "reason" To feel so disgusting, so ugly, so broken, because now your skin is.

I will never ever hold a full time job again.
I am not able for it mentally.
I'm medicated for the last 10 years.
I had dreams
I had wishes.
I had hopes.

Yes overall my life is good now, but it is not the life I dreamed of.

I will never do the job I dreamed of, help the people I wanted to help.
I will never be a functioning member of society.




He got 3 years.

I got life.

I am now in my mid 30's

I can relate to this so much. Before I was taken into care at 6 I was subject to physical, sexual and emotional abuse. The physical and emotional continued when I was in care. The sexual abuse started again when I started being in relationships. I'm also medicated. I've never related to a comment so much. Especially 'I got life.'
 
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That might be your experience but I have worked with so many young women and men that have gone to the gaurds and were shown nothing but encouragement and support from their first statement through the whole process to court. Specialised investigators, meeting them in comfortable locations etc.
If you feel hard done by from your previous experience you can go back now and disclose your abuse, I’d be hopeful you’d have a different experience.
It is my experience and that of others too. It happened nearly 20 years ago now.. this country has a murky history of corruption and cover ups. I did go back 10 years ago but the statue of limitations was up because I was 17 when it happened and not considered a minor. There is no statute for minors. This person had many family members in the gardai and a brother in law in a senior position...... I know there are good people in the job, doing a great job but “the system” has let people down. I’m not by any means suggesting that people should not go to the Gardai but my response to the original post was maybe she did go the guards and nothing was done about it and posting on Reddit was the only way she felt she could bring her story to light and either way we should support people to disclose however they are comfortable.
 
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On the roz clip, watch it until the very end and you'll see that was clearly a sketch that had been planned with her in advance otherwise why did she start cheering after the dream music and him saying he had a dream of a bad interview with Roz?

I cant stand the guy, always despised him, but if you want genuine footage of him being a creep, then look at the montage of clips where he suddenly kisses katherine thomas and, in another clip, attempts to kiss Mairead Ronan. You can tell by their immediate reactions that they were completely taken aback and uncomfortable.
 
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Just an aside - since a lot of people on this thread have taken issue with RTE’s handling of this, it’s worth noting that RTÉ is currently preparing a new public service statement (as legally obliged every 5 years) and for the next 2 weeks are looking for public feedback on how things are run. If you feel they, as our national broadcaster, are not meeting your expectations (ethical or otherwise) as an Irish citizen, you should say so. It may fall on deaf ears but it’s always good to vent. You can get the link through here: https://about.rte.ie/2021/02/16/rte-seeks-public-opinion-for-public-service-statement/
 
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It is my experience and that of others too. It happened nearly 20 years ago now.. this country has a murky history of corruption and cover ups. I did go back 10 years ago but the statue of limitations was up because I was 17 when it happened and not considered a minor. There is no statute for minors. This person had many family members in the gardai and a brother in law in a senior position...... I know there are good people in the job, doing a great job but “the system” has let people down. I’m not by any means suggesting that people should not go to the Gardai but my response to the original post was maybe she did go the guards and nothing was done about it and posting on Reddit was the only way she felt she could bring her story to light and either way we should support people to disclose however they are comfortable.
I believe you & I stand tall with you ❤

Without outing myself by disclosing any more info re my case. I came up against MANY roadblocks when reporting the CSA I was subjected to.
Don’t let anyone challenge your truth x
 
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That might be your experience but I have worked with so many young women and men that have gone to the gaurds and were shown nothing but encouragement and support from their first statement through the whole process to court. Specialised investigators, meeting them in comfortable locations etc.
If you feel hard done by from your previous experience you can go back now and disclose your abuse, I’d be hopeful you’d have a different experience.
That might be your experience but I have worked with so many young women and men that have gone to the gaurds and were shown nothing but encouragement and support from their first statement through the whole process to court. Specialised investigators, meeting them in comfortable locations etc.
If you feel hard done by from your previous experience you can go back now and disclose your abuse, I’d be hopeful you’d have a different experience.
Amazing that not one woman on this thread has had that experience.
 
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Just an aside - since a lot of people on this thread have taken issue with RTE’s handling of this, it’s worth noting that RTÉ is currently preparing a new public service statement (as legally obliged every 5 years) and for the next 2 weeks are looking for public feedback on how things are run. If you feel they, as our national broadcaster, are not meeting your expectations (ethical or otherwise) as an Irish citizen, you should say so. It may fall on deaf ears but it’s always good to vent. You can get the link through here: https://about.rte.ie/2021/02/16/rte-seeks-public-opinion-for-public-service-statement/
Thanks for sharing this link! Would encourage everyone to fill it out
 
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What system?! Your post is incredibly narrow minded. We should encourage women to disclose however they feel comfortable to do so. It’s incredibly daunting. I went to the guards at 17 after being sexually assaulted and the local sergeant frightened my mum out of pressing charges saying that my name would be all over the papers and it would ruin my future.
Have you made a complaint to GSOC about the Local Sargeant who firstly lied and then dealt with yourself in a very unprofessional manner?
 
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Have you made a compliant to GSOC about the Local Sargeant who firstly lied and then dealt with yourself in a very unprofessional manner?
I don't think that is your business to be honest. Nobody here who is a victim needs to answer these types of questions.
 
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