I could bet my house that they are both autistic. The social communication difficulties they both have, lack of awareness of others, the specialist interests (Disney, Warhammer, cat perves, living frugally -back in the day), socially isolated, both dependant, have to avoid social situations at busy times or lessen interaction with others, the demand avoidance, ‘anxiety’, restrictive and repetitive behaviours, finding EVERYTHING too much...the list could go on. They’d both be off the scale and I know this because I do the Ados amongst other assessments for children!