So true. You can tell the cognitive dissonance and projecting are just getting stronger and stronger over the years, the longer she displays the same harmful behavior she always has. And it makes sense- she's probably too insecure to honestly reflect on why she has so many conflicts with people, which means that as time goes by and she keeps having them, she needs to deal with that by just clinging even harder to the narrative that those people were coincidentally assholes, but now she's finally okay, and happier than ever, and with the people who actually care about her... until the cycle restarts. (Yes, that ex-boyfriend was a liar and a fraud, oops, but my current serial-cheating-lying-way-older-than-me-so-probably-emotionally-immature-boyfriend is totally different and the one. No I don't need to do any self-reflecting to help me understand why I have a pattern of making excuses for dishonest men).
I think Emma's interesting because I see some people in real life who do this too, but she really takes it to an extreme. She could probably really benefit from therapy.