It wasn’t a misogynistic thing, it was a safety thing, she has clearly put herself under a lot of emotional stress and I imagine it’s not going the way she wanted, my original post was to say, why is he letting her do it to herself, her calorie obsession and minimal eating has been around for awhile, I do wonder if he’s noticed. The problem with Emily is, she is never open with her viewers, even down to the simple things, she likes to have an air of mystery around herself so people constantly message her etc and she also has a tendency to exaggerate too, she needs some help, James should be supportive of that, but I understand in situations like these you can only help them if they want help themselves
I completely agree with you, its not misogynistic for partners to care about each other, i feel like he just doesnt care about her at all, he doesnt care about whats going on in her life or her struggles because their relationship appears to only be about him and what he wants (just look at how often she went to LA to visit him vs him going to London to visit her), as far as i can remember the only time he went to London was if he had to do something with his family. She picked him up from the airport and dropped him off at his parents on Christmas Eve for goodness sake, she didnt even spend time with him, just taxied him around last minute, she ran around helping her sister make that gift really thoughtful and complicated for him, whatd he get for her sister, some old merch ? What has he done for her over 2 years? Sang to her a few times? Showed up to some of her parties? Bought her a blender... posted 1 pic of her
. I dont know what that person is talking about because shes also saying about how many friends Emily has, as far as i know she has like a 4/10 friendship with Lucy and a 5/10 friendship with Adam, in terms of how close they are. I really feel concerned for her because she doesnt have that support network to help her through this hard time, she has been crying, counting calories, etc, just seems very unhappy and i dont think she has people to snap her out of it, her parents are really nice but they let her get away with too much, even if its not for her best interest. If she is reading this, I hope she knows she doesnt need that relationship, she can do much better, she just has to rip the bandaid off and not be scared of being alone because i was in a very similar situation with a terrible boyfriend, we were together for almost 2 years, but he was bad to me for like 1.5 years, i finally got the courage to leave him and now i have such an amazing boyfriend, i didnt even think it was possible to find someone like him