Elle Darby #13 Conman’s hiding under a hat, what baby? It’s just fat!

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I feel like Stella could be a name they’d consider they like SS names, floaty, nature girly names so this could be a shout
 
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I feel like Stella could be a name they’d consider they like SS names, floaty, nature girly names so this could be a shout
I think it will be something girly like Ava, Eva, Angel, Evelyn, ... or something a little bit old fashioned. Elle will pick it and Connan will have no say.
 
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Someone should definitely bring that up in their next q&a. Morally that is not ok
But I imagine if anyone did bring it up, they'd be blocked swiftly and called a hater!
It is just not okay in any situation whatsoever. Makes me feel a little ill 🤢
 
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That is bleeping disgusting. He needs to have a word with himself. Would he want creeps approaching 30 following his own little angle? These are the sort of questions he needs to be asking himself now he's about to become a father. This will deffo end in tears, she won't be so smug when she's divorced and he's taken half her cash.
Not defending him cause I really dislike the man 😂 but if a 16 year old is posting pictures like that on Instagram she’s bound to attract a mainly male following who are probably older (not saying it’s right) its up the her parents to maybe guide her about what’s appropriate and what’s not, cant blame a man for liking a picture it’s not like he’s forcing an underage girl to do anything🤷‍♀️
 
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Not defending him cause I really dislike the man 😂 but if a 16 year old is posting pictures like that on Instagram she’s bound to attract a mainly male following who are probably older (not saying it’s right) its up the her parents to maybe guide her about what’s appropriate and what’s not, cant blame a man for liking a picture it’s not like he’s forcing an underage girl to do anything🤷‍♀️
I think you've missed my point I don't think the problem is her, the problem is him perving over young girls. I do blame him it's gross. I doubt very much her target audience is dirty "nearly old" men like dead by dawn con artist...who are engaged to be married and expecting a baby. I would have thought lads in their late teens, maybe early 20s is who she is courting the attention from. She probably is slightly naive at the potential danger she's putting herself in, and yes the parents probably haven't got a clue what she's upto. I know my 21 year old nephew takes the piss out of lads his age liking a 16 year olds pics...so it's pretty cringe for a guy his age I'd say!
 
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Not defending him cause I really dislike the man 😂 but if a 16 year old is posting pictures like that on Instagram she’s bound to attract a mainly male following who are probably older (not saying it’s right) its up the her parents to maybe guide her about what’s appropriate and what’s not, cant blame a man for liking a picture it’s not like he’s forcing an underage girl to do anything🤷‍♀️
Nope, he chooses to follow a 16yr old girl at 27....That’s on him!🤢🤢 (I do get what your saying in regards to her putting stuff online though).
 
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I have a relative who follows about 1000 of the same kind of girls on Instagram. He is married and is about the same age as Connor. His wife rolls her eyes and says it doesn’t bother her but her friend let it slip recently that she hates it and it eats away at her. He and his wife don’t follow each other on Insta anymore because it was causing so many arguments that they just decided it was better if she couldn’t see who he was following and what he was liking. If you ask his wife why she unfollowed, she says his football stories were annoying her 👀

I reckon Elle hatessss it but he only cares about himself.
 
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I have a relative who follows about 1000 of the same kind of girls on Instagram. He is married and is about the same age as Connor. His wife rolls her eyes and says it doesn’t bother her but her friend let it slip recently that she hates it and it eats away at her. He and his wife don’t follow each other on Insta anymore because it was causing so many arguments that they just decided it was better if she couldn’t see who he was following and what he was liking. If you ask his wife why she unfollowed, she says his football stories were annoying her 👀

I reckon Elle hatessss it but he only cares about himself.
I totally agree with you, she just rolls over, laughs it off and let's him behave like a pig because she doesn't want to be "that person" or look uncool...is following a bunch of strange women really more important than your gf/wife's happiness 🤨 awful behaviour

If she was insecure before, wait till she's had a baby. It takes a while to feel confident in yourself again after your body has changed so much
 
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Her reactions on that clog wo eking, espe over him watching porn and vaping! he said yes to vaping then changed it when she started shaking her head! And she was not impressed by him admitting he watches porn 5 times a week! Again tried to get him to say not that much! Is she really ok with him following 16yr old girls 🤮🤮🤢
 
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Yes Elle they probably will be the death of you, pasta doesn’t count as 1 of your 5 a day babe x
 
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Not defending anyone here, each to their own in everyone’s own relationship.
but I was wondering if maybe Elle just doesn’t care about the Instagram thing, liking pics etc?

I couldn’t care less if my boyfriend followed and liked other girls pics, as long as he wasn’t actively engaging with them (talking).
I suppose it’s different to each couple. But in my mind I just think, there’s nothing wrong with looking right? I definitely do it (look at boys and girls instagrams) and like, follow anyone I find attractive. I know I don’t have any intentions so it’s all good fun.
I think if you’re happy and content in your relationship and fully trust your partner than the boundaries relax a little.
Saying that, With Elle she’s obviously an attention seeker and needs validation from people around her so I think it pisses her off more than she lets on
I am the same with my husband it doesnt bother me at all if he looks at women on instagram or watches porm or anything. He would lose his bollocks if I found out he had took it further though (he did once many many years ago, just texting a woman he worked with) kicked him out for 6 months, went to couples counselling etc... all fine now but took time.

But honestly could not care less if he is just looking as long as he isnt lying about it.
 
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He’s vile. I know it’s different from couple to to couple, but it sounds like he’s tried to normalize his behavior with other women in order to keep doing it without recourse and/or reproach. He’s just pushing the threshold of what she’ll tolerate and she doesn’t want to rock the boat. I’ve definitely been there. You don’t know the full extent of what’s happening to your self-esteem until you’re out of it. Plus Connor being her major relationship as an adult (I might be wrong but it doesn’t seem she’s dated much beyond her teens?) he’s setting the standard for her as to what’s normal treatment. If they ever split and she got a mature partner who appreciated and respected her and actually had a career instead of mooching off of her YouTube channel, I think it would be such a game-changer for her.
 
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I’m so confused.. I swear just yesterday she said she was 16 weeks pregnant, but on the video she just uploaded she says ‘pregnancy week 17’ but this was obviously recorded before yesterday 🤔
 
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