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It’s gone now
Many people could of screenshotted that hopefully it was a mistake 
Oh my good god I can’t believe my eyes
I think she’s just pretty naive and doesn’t realise there are some sickos out there
this!
I think she is really naive and it doesn’t come across well
I know she’s young and being a FTM in a pandemic must be hard esp with her partner working a lot BUT it’s common sense is it not?
When you have a ‘following’ you really need to be careful.
I do feel like she really needs a motherly figure to give her some advice - not on how to do things as he’s clearly a very well loved and healthy baby but just best practice ya know? There’s something about her that just seems so sad.
Have to say, I don’t really see why it bothers anyone that she has a full face of make up on? She clearly has time, if she enjoys it what harm is she doing? I’ve been putting my make up on every day even though I don’t go anywhere because it’s just my routine.Dear Lord, what a sad little life!
Full face of make up & bringing your baby outside in the snow for content.
Not wearing make up doesn’t make you a better mum.
Nobody mentioned make up making you a better mum lol!
It just comes across that she’s bored/lonely and gets dressed up for Instagram content, taking the baby out in the freezing cold snow but probably isn’t actually going anywhere.
I have no issue with her going out, even if it is to her garden. At least she’s getting some fresh air.
I think the make up comment is more in line with her only doing it for the purpose of a photo in her garden. When I first had my baby, I didn’t wear make up like I used to. In fact I found it quite liberating not to wear make up every day or as much when I did. I was far too busy with my baby, enjoying the cuddles and trying to grab sleep when I could.
if putting make up and doing her hair is what makes her happy then that’s fine, but if it’s simply for a garden photo then I agree it’s quite sad. A lot of my early photos I hated having taken as I didn’t look “perfect” but I look back and I’m so glad to have them.
if putting make up and doing her hair is what makes her happy then that’s fine, but if it’s simply for a garden photo then I agree it’s quite sad. A lot of my early photos I hated having taken as I didn’t look “perfect” but I look back and I’m so glad to have them.
She’s an influencer, her job is to put make up on and model clothes and make her feed look presentable. Tbh she probably is bored, there’s not much to do in lockdown. I still put make up on everyday. No I don’t put it on insta, but that’s not my job.
But why is it ‘sad’ just because she’s only going to her garden? The comments that you (and others further back in this thread) were too busy with the baby and enjoying cuddles imply that she isn’t doing the same because she’s more concerned with her appearance, which I find unfair and a bit holier than thou, as if she (or others) aren’t as bothered about their baby because they put some makeup on.
But anyways. Agree to disagree.
But anyways. Agree to disagree.
absolutely, if it’s what makes her happy then why not! I have a 12 week old baby and I get up, shower and put my make up on every single day even though I sit in the house in gym clothes that I’m not working out in...! Being a new mum as I’m sure other mums will know, you feel as though your body isn’t yours, it’s so different to pre pregnancy and as amazing as it is for what it’s created it’s still a huge confidence knock so maybe her make up gives her that little bit of confidence she deserves, particularly during this time in our crazy world. I imagine she’s feeling very isolated and it’s hard being alone with a baby all day long who to be honest probably just feeds and sleeps all day anyway.
Was a fan of her until her latest post.. feel sorry for me I’m now a size 8 with a flat stomach 10 weeks after having a baby. Yes different people may return to original size quicker but why would you post this?! Anyone with a brain knows this is insensitive as the majority of mums struggle. Incredibly insensitive and attention seeking.
Also unfollowing. Only followed as I thought I’d enjoy her baby content but she’s intolerable. About as much personality as a potato 
I completely appreciate that everyone has body hang ups including slimmer ladies, and that it’s ok for them to have bad days and have a moan too. HOWEVER a little perspective wouldn’t go amiss. Ella actually looks 392783983x better than before baby - some of the old photos she looks like she could snap in your hands, she looks great a little fuller. I do appreciate that it might not feel that way to her but she does seem to have this “omg I’m not size 6” mindset rather than “this is just a bad day, I love my body either way” vibe.
there is another IG girl Chloe Henry that I actually really enjoy, but on her stories recently she had - no exaggeration - around 9 slides on how she couldn’t do content that day because she felt so huge. Which as I said- is totally ok and normal. But NINE SLIDES? I’m currently a size 8-10 and for the majority of my life prior was a size 16, so I know I might just have that insight a little more to THINK - but I’d hope slimmer ladies aren’t so dense they don’t realise how it sounds to bigger women when you moan about being a size 8.
there is another IG girl Chloe Henry that I actually really enjoy, but on her stories recently she had - no exaggeration - around 9 slides on how she couldn’t do content that day because she felt so huge. Which as I said- is totally ok and normal. But NINE SLIDES? I’m currently a size 8-10 and for the majority of my life prior was a size 16, so I know I might just have that insight a little more to THINK - but I’d hope slimmer ladies aren’t so dense they don’t realise how it sounds to bigger women when you moan about being a size 8.
I think as well she was trying to relate by saying she had stretch marks etc as well but just a couple of weeks ago she was asking for recommendations for places to have them faded. The problem with anyone on Instagram (with a large following) they want soo many admiring comments & they really can’t handle any negative ones. I think she looks amazing but on the other hand probably didn’t need to share a photo on her progress as it really doesn’t matter to people what her postpartum figure is so she could have just kept it to herself.
I think her issue is she’s not very personable and when she writes things it’s not very relatable cos her personality is of a sock?
i was a size 6/8 pre pregnancy and I’m the same after more a less, maybe more so an 8 as my hips are a little wider. It was natural for me but I got so many comments about starving myself/it being so unfair. I was softer, wobblier but more or less lost the ‘baby’ weight after my child was born.
I do think people can be resentful and rightfully so but everyone IS different and I don’t think she should get pissed on for showing a picture of her body
i was a size 6/8 pre pregnancy and I’m the same after more a less, maybe more so an 8 as my hips are a little wider. It was natural for me but I got so many comments about starving myself/it being so unfair. I was softer, wobblier but more or less lost the ‘baby’ weight after my child was born.
I do think people can be resentful and rightfully so but everyone IS different and I don’t think she should get pissed on for showing a picture of her body
As someone who has been both a size 6, and a size 12, I can understand Ella. For most of my life I've been a size 6 and constantly told I was too skinny, even though it was my natural size. I struggled for years to put any weight on and eventually at 21, I finally put some on and got to a size 12, and was called large and disgusting. So you cant win either way.
When I had a baby the weight dropped rapidly and I was back to a size 6 in a matter of months without any effort. And again, told by both friends and strangers that I was too skinny, that I would snap, or the worst one was that I was skin and bone. All of those insults are very damaging and hurtful.
Im now a size 8. But some people struggle to put weight on and maintain it. It isn't only bigger people that struggle with weight issues and as much as it isn't and shouldn't be acceptable to call someone large, the same also applies to calling someone skinny. Both labels are disgusting and hurt just the same.
I feel that people should not be making comments about a womans body, especially after giving birth. Every person is different. Some people struggle to lose the baby weight and I feel that there shouldn't be a specific amount of time that a woman is expected to 'snap back.'
Some women, myself included, did absolutely nothing to lose any weight after giving birth, it wasn't even a thought in my head and it just dropped off in record time, because that is just how my body is.
I honestly don't think Ella is trying to show off, I think she is naturally very small and a size 8/10 feels big for her own body because its not what she's used to. Just like I wasn't when I finally managed to put weight on. It took me a long time to actually realise I wasn't that usual size 6 anymore and would still try to squeeze into my size 6 clothes because I was so used to being smaller.
When I had a baby the weight dropped rapidly and I was back to a size 6 in a matter of months without any effort. And again, told by both friends and strangers that I was too skinny, that I would snap, or the worst one was that I was skin and bone. All of those insults are very damaging and hurtful.
Im now a size 8. But some people struggle to put weight on and maintain it. It isn't only bigger people that struggle with weight issues and as much as it isn't and shouldn't be acceptable to call someone large, the same also applies to calling someone skinny. Both labels are disgusting and hurt just the same.
I feel that people should not be making comments about a womans body, especially after giving birth. Every person is different. Some people struggle to lose the baby weight and I feel that there shouldn't be a specific amount of time that a woman is expected to 'snap back.'
Some women, myself included, did absolutely nothing to lose any weight after giving birth, it wasn't even a thought in my head and it just dropped off in record time, because that is just how my body is.
I honestly don't think Ella is trying to show off, I think she is naturally very small and a size 8/10 feels big for her own body because its not what she's used to. Just like I wasn't when I finally managed to put weight on. It took me a long time to actually realise I wasn't that usual size 6 anymore and would still try to squeeze into my size 6 clothes because I was so used to being smaller.
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