I think it's her responsibility. Not only because she's an adult but also because she's had enough relationships at this point and part of having relationships is you see different things about yourself and reflect, make changes and grow. I can't imagine the guys she's dated throughout the years have just been silent and given her no feedback/expressed any concern over things in the relationship. I would think after having the same outcomes over and over, one would take a look at themselves and want to try and get to the bottom of what was going on (esp when they seemingly have everything going for them). She never gives herself anytime between one guy and the next before she's with the next "love of her life"(the only reason she doesn't have a bf right now is because of what's going on otherwise I fully believe she would already be in a relationship). She's even had many comments over the years point this out and she just deletes them lol.So I agree with this, but I want to open this up to ideas. I’m not making a statement, I’m opening a discussion. Do you think if someone has the background as Elle, that excuses their behavior forever, or do you think there comes a point where you say she is now an adult and competent enough to understand her behavior and why she acts this way and then it’s her responsibility to help herself?
*I'm not saying with the above that the demise of her relationships are solely her fault btw. We obviously don't know everything but it does seem like every guy she's been with throughout the years has dumped her.