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[Its_Me]

I promise I’m not Jen lol
I actually like watching her stories and her seeing her purchases
I don’t see it as bragging, maybe I don’t watch her enough to have noticed this

There’s things I like seeing too, hence why I sometimes look at her page. The only reason I don’t actually follow is because she goes on and on sometimes on her stories which just doesn’t interest me personally and I think when she does the Q&A’s she is braggy (asking herself questions proves this) and she literally can’t help herself but to show every single thing she buys, or has been bought for her. It’s sometimes a bit tasteless in the current environment but I guess we can also argue that people can unfollow if it triggers them. And it actually doesn’t even bother me that she doesn’t work and spends her husbands money I also probably wouldn’t work if I had young children but I am older than her, I’ve had a serious career and built businesses. I think she’s bored and she’s not happy being a stay at home mum.

Yesterday I said she hasn’t got anything I want. But she has and that’s two beautiful children she’s had by natural conception. It’s something I long for but I know when she said we are jealous that she was referring to material things which shows how shallow she is

 

[Snowytherabbit]

Hadn't check her page in a while, she's on a full rant today! Apparently fine to be a stranger and message her to say she's amazing but not fine to come on here and give an opinion... does she not know how the internet works

 

[redgirl93]

They’re the rules though? She can’t travel to a second home but he can travel for work?

She didn’t seem too bothered about the rules before though when she left a higher tier to visit Lapland UK.
also she is in Bristol every so often so she is travelling therefore rule breaking.

 

[Peepers]

She doesn’t work, and their kids haven’t been at school, it’s pretty obvious she just doesn’t want to stay with him.

@Its_Me I’m so sorry to hear that. I really hope it happens soon for you

 

[Dolly x]

There’s things I like seeing too, hence why I sometimes look at her page. The only reason I don’t actually follow is because she goes on and on sometimes on her stories which just doesn’t interest me personally and I think when she does the Q&A’s she is braggy (asking herself questions proves this) and she literally can’t help herself but to show every single thing she buys, or has been bought for her. It’s sometimes a bit tasteless in the current environment but I guess we can also argue that people can unfollow if it triggers them. And it actually doesn’t even bother me that she doesn’t work and spends her husbands money I also probably wouldn’t work if I had young children but I am older than her, I’ve had a serious career and built businesses. I think she’s bored and she’s not happy being a stay at home mum.

Yesterday I said she hasn’t got anything I want. But she has and that’s two beautiful children she’s had by natural conception. It’s something I long for but I know when she said we are jealous that she was referring to material things which shows how shallow she is

At least you have been honest bless you xx

 

[mrtumble]

Oh my goodness they're selling the sofa in their living room and it has never been sat on!

 

[Peepers]

I mean, it’s definitely been sat on, why does she have to exaggerate? Is it just me or does she strike anyone else as a really stingy person? The type that loves to spend excessively on herself but equally wouldn’t gift anything to family and friends. The way that she sells second hand high street kids clothes on depop but says there’s lots of kids in her family? I don’t know anyone who doesn’t re gift atleast children’s clothes to family / friends?? Or take them to charity shops!! It’s a £15 used Zara jacket, Jesus Christ Jen, stop being stringy and do a little for charity.

 

[Its_Me]

I mean, it’s definitely been sat on, why does she have to exaggerate? Is it just me or does she strike anyone else as a really stingy person? The type that loves to spend excessively on herself but equally wouldn’t gift anything to family and friends. The way that she sells second hand high street kids clothes on depop but says there’s lots of kids in her family? I don’t know anyone who doesn’t re gift atleast children’s clothes to family / friends?? Or take them to charity shops!! It’s a £15 used Zara jacket, Jesus Christ Jen, stop being stringy and do a little for charity.

I think she’s even stingy for selling some of that furniture tbh, sofa ok but the urn and mirrors etc bloody give it away! I’ve given away side tables similar to hers. The zara kids clothing takes the absolute biscuit though.

 

[Peepers]

@Its_Me we were the same when we moved! Also, imagine not thinking it’s risky to give out your address to complete strangers?
But yes, the children’s clothes, it’s so embarrassing! There’s thousands of foster homes, orphanages, care homes for children that are so desperate for clothes! Is she that desperate for £15? Even mine and my husbands, we take to a young adults home for people who have turned 18, so they are “too old” to stay in a care home / foster care for children, but obviously still very young. Some of them own 1 bag and that is their whole worldly belongings. It’s not even like it’s her money she’s spending?

 

[Its_Me]

She did mentioned a deposit before giving out the address but yeh I thought that, I dunno if that’s a me problem but I wouldn’t be comfortable giving out my address over Instagram with that many followers knowing they had seen my kids etc.

 

[Tlyfe]

Didn’t she say she use to give clothes to her brothers children

 

[Peepers]

Didn’t she say she use to give clothes to her brothers children

Well there’s loads of used Zara kids clothes on her depop which I think is quite stingy when charities are crying out for things to be donated.

 

[Gibbonsgob]

I mean, it’s definitely been sat on, why does she have to exaggerate? Is it just me or does she strike anyone else as a really stingy person? The type that loves to spend excessively on herself but equally wouldn’t gift anything to family and friends. The way that she sells second hand high street kids clothes on depop but says there’s lots of kids in her family? I don’t know anyone who doesn’t re gift atleast children’s clothes to family / friends?? Or take them to charity shops!! It’s a £15 used Zara jacket, Jesus Christ Jen, stop being stringy and do a little for charity.

i thought this before, so now that you've said it too I can really see it. I feel she does it to justify her excessive spending, which it doesn't. I had everything down to family and friends. Rather someone I love use it then get a £5 for it

for someone who loves to portray wealth and flaunt spending she really gives nothing back. I think she just thinks about herself to be honest. Maybe narcissistic traits there.

 

[Butthatsnoneofmybusiness]

Well there’s loads of used Zara kids clothes on her depop which I think is quite stingy when charities are crying out for things to be donated.

I have a genuine question and it might be naive - where are people taking clothes to right now? I have some lovely bags of clothes all washed and ready to donate to charity along with some sealed toiletries and gift sets but everything is closed. They’re too nice for one of the clothing banks and I like donating to charities that mean something to me.

 

[MissTeddy]

I have a genuine question and it might be naive - where are people taking clothes to right now? I have some lovely bags of clothes all washed and ready to donate to charity along with some sealed toiletries and gift sets but everything is closed. They’re too nice for one of the clothing banks and I like donating to charities that mean something to me.

Our school has a clothing recycling bin outside. The school gets money per ton of textiles donated.
I also get those charity bags through the door occasionally - the ones you can fill up and leave outside.
I have also offered them bundles for free on Facebook to anyone in need. I've got zero interest in selling second hand clothes.

 

[Peepers]

The British Heart foundation is sending free post bags, so I assume the other charities are doing the same?

I donated to my local YMCA just after Christmas and it was no problem. I just emailed them and they called me back and arranged a day and time to drop off.

And like @MissTeddy said, you can find groups on Facebook where people are struggling and need clothes donations. Or there’s women’s refugee centres? I’ve donated to my local one in the past and I’m sure they would be very appreciative of sealed toiletries as a lot of women flee with nothing.

 

[Its_Me]

Women’s refuge is a great one some have had to leave their homes with just the clothes on their back. And whenever I’ve put bundles on Facebook market place it’s been picked up within the day.

 

[Peepers]

i thought this before, so now that you've said it too I can really see it. I feel she does it to justify her excessive spending, which it doesn't. I had everything down to family and friends. Rather someone I love use it then get a £5 for it

for someone who loves to portray wealth and flaunt spending she really gives nothing back. I think she just thinks about herself to be honest. Maybe narcissistic traits there.

Exactly!

 

[Snowytherabbit]

I've put stuff free on Facebook

 

[Gibbonsgob]

So much for the "amazing Lumi" that gave her the best skin of Her life... now she's on asking for skincare advice that was short lived wasn't it hahahahh