So, I am really fortunate to have an amazing job, I get to travel the world and my pay means that I have a really nice handbag and shoe collection .
But, my boyfriend doesn’t. I love him to pieces but it’s wearing really thin. He recently stopped going to work as he just couldn’t be bothered anymore, he’s been fired from two other jobs in the past year due to calling in sick all of the time.
Last month he asked to borrow £100 to pay his electricity bill and promised he’d pay me back, I kinda knew that he wouldn’t and no surprises he didn’t. We then went out for dinner and the bill came to £70, he paid when I went to the toilet and when we were in the car in asked me to transfer him £35. I wouldn’t usually mind but he’d asked me to go and he drank 2 glasses of wine and I had a lemonade as I had to drive (he doesn’t drive).
We’re going on holiday tomorrow and I’ve paid for everything … he’s just told me he doesn’t have a suitcase as he ‘lost it’ so he’s going to use a Bag for Life and this has tipped me over the edge!
Do I need to just to come to terms with the fact this is my life now?
I can’t really leave him as we’re having a baby
But, my boyfriend doesn’t. I love him to pieces but it’s wearing really thin. He recently stopped going to work as he just couldn’t be bothered anymore, he’s been fired from two other jobs in the past year due to calling in sick all of the time.
Last month he asked to borrow £100 to pay his electricity bill and promised he’d pay me back, I kinda knew that he wouldn’t and no surprises he didn’t. We then went out for dinner and the bill came to £70, he paid when I went to the toilet and when we were in the car in asked me to transfer him £35. I wouldn’t usually mind but he’d asked me to go and he drank 2 glasses of wine and I had a lemonade as I had to drive (he doesn’t drive).
We’re going on holiday tomorrow and I’ve paid for everything … he’s just told me he doesn’t have a suitcase as he ‘lost it’ so he’s going to use a Bag for Life and this has tipped me over the edge!
Do I need to just to come to terms with the fact this is my life now?
I can’t really leave him as we’re having a baby