Takes two to tango and if someone was with someone and knew they had a wife/partner they’re just as bad imoIf someone chased down your husband/wife knowing full well they were in a serious relationship with you and an affair started, people wouldn’t put any blame on the “side piece” only their partner for cheating?
I’d be disgusted with them both! My partner mostly but the side piece isn’t innocent!
If you knowingly are part of that affair you are responsible too. I can’t believe people would put no onus on the 3rd party. Shocking!
Can never understand affairs just break up if you are really that unhappy it only destroys lives