Totally agree.
Russell T Davies does come over as a deeply unpleasant bully boy type and I believe Christopher Eccleston when he said that it was a very toxic work environment, which is why he quit after one series. A great shame because Christopher was really good and could have been iconic in the role. I still prefer him to David Tennant because I disliked the doctor getting overly emotional and all the assistants being in love with him.
I love Eccleston's performances so much. There was so much sincerity there and I never quite got that from David Tennant, which is weird bc he grew up being such a huge fan of the show. I came to really loathe the Tenth Doctor though, he was really rather a bully. Every incarnation of the Doctor has that
hole side to them at times but Ten was very Mean Girls to me, especially with Rose. I never got the shipping hype there, to me they were too much like a naughty brother and sister, little kids in adult bodies. I was Rose and Nine all the way, loved their fairy tale type dynamic. I did like Ten with Donna because there was never going to be any notion of romance and she could keep him in line. In the 60th specials Donna was one of the best things about them even with the bonkers writing.
If/when the show returns, it needs to be stripped right back to basics. They tried to do this with Jodie's first season as Thirteen but it didn't really work for some reason. Now though the show is such a nightmare of a mess pressing the reset button seems like the only real option. Just simple little stories about an eccentric man in a blue box. And make companions have variety again, the audience can follow along without the dreaded surrogate stand in type character. I hate those so much.