Hello!
I've spent the past day reading through the entire thread and I think I've met my people!
I'm female and gay, so the whole world of dating is difficult enough without apps thrown into it. I went on Hinge in November time and matched with and talked to a lovely girl, but she told me she didn't want a relationship but we should be friends. We got on so well we did, and by March were sleeping together. Then last month she casually dropped it in she'd gone back on Tinder and was talking to a girl and it totally threw me. I was really hurt and it was like losing my best friend - so I gave up on the idea of dating as I really liked her and she treated me awfully. I was basically good enough during lockdown but literally the week it was over she was looking for new people and just planned to have me there with some new girlfriend in tow. I cut off contact and told her we couldn't be friends given how I felt and we haven't spoken since. That was three and a half weeks ago.
I was bored one night so downloaded Tinder, all the usual suspects and people I'd seen many years before! Matched with lots but the conversation is so so dry and boring, it should be a mutual thing without loads of effort to get on. One girl I matched with was lovely, a thoroughly decent person and I'm glad to say we are going on a date in ten days! I'm actually really looking forward to it, there isn't the huge desire to text and freeflowing banter I had with the Hinge girl but she's lovely and pretty and I think we'd get on well. So I'll be here afterwards to post an update. Fingers crossed it goes well!