@NoddyFromToytown well done on recognising your relationship with alcohol wasn’t a positive one.
Ita scary being vulnerable and easy to use something like alcohol to give you a confidence boost. We’ve probably all been guilty of this.
My advice would actually be to take it slow with this guy, especially if you’re hoping for a relationship. Do things with him outside of a home setting for a little to delay things (unless you desperately want to sleep with him too as you’re well within your right to want to btw) sex doesn’t always equal a deeper connection so I guess it just depends what you’re currently after.
I would say you need to be with someone that makes you comfortable enough for you to be vulnerable with them without alcohol so you need to work out if this guy does that before jumping into things x
Ita scary being vulnerable and easy to use something like alcohol to give you a confidence boost. We’ve probably all been guilty of this.
My advice would actually be to take it slow with this guy, especially if you’re hoping for a relationship. Do things with him outside of a home setting for a little to delay things (unless you desperately want to sleep with him too as you’re well within your right to want to btw) sex doesn’t always equal a deeper connection so I guess it just depends what you’re currently after.
I would say you need to be with someone that makes you comfortable enough for you to be vulnerable with them without alcohol so you need to work out if this guy does that before jumping into things x