It was all very rocky and up and down for my son and his now wife @Belle123. I think caring so much for her, feeling vulnerable & scared of that feeling it could all go wrong, he definitely tried to self sabotage it. For her part she was recovering wounds & scars from her previous crazy relationship. They both brought it all out on the table. All the fears and insecurity and yes jealousy about previous partners, illogical & a red flag as many warn. You're absolutely right & you know this guy and we don't. My two year thing that ended badly, well sometimes I still feel immensely touched by how lovely he was in many respects. Just had his own foibles and pressures.
It's no good being bitter but at the same time, feeling rejected is bloody painful. It messes with our ego and our ego wants to protect us. I'm waffling here but that was a great post as usual.
It's no good being bitter but at the same time, feeling rejected is bloody painful. It messes with our ego and our ego wants to protect us. I'm waffling here but that was a great post as usual.