it’s a very strange date location if it doesn’t have a special meaning - especially with the distance! i hope he gets the message and makes new plans.I was so flabbergasted that I couldn’t respond right away. Sure, I like books and I’m an avid reader but they’re not special to me or anything. I told him that I think it’s too far of a drive for just some books, so maybe he’ll get the hint and plan something decent. Although I’m not sure if I would even want to go at this point.
I think it’s kinda cuteI was so flabbergasted that I couldn’t respond right away. Sure, I like books and I’m an avid reader but they’re not special to me or anything. I told him that I think it’s too far of a drive for just some books, so maybe he’ll get the hint and plan something decent. Although I’m not sure if I would even want to go at this point.
And tbf bespoke book shops usually have a really nice coffee shop with the best cakesI think it’s kinda cuteI’d rather someone suggested this than drinks. Maybe it’s a gorgeous bookshop all quirky and he had plans after? And bonus points to him because it’s not sleazy.
it’s a really cute date idea if it was a local bookshop. but i think @MsCurly mentioned that it’s quite some distance away, which is what makes it odd to meI think it’s kinda cuteI’d rather someone suggested this than drinks. Maybe it’s a gorgeous bookshop all quirky and he had plans after? And bonus points to him because it’s not sleazy.
I agree that the bookshop idea is very cute but it’s over an hour driving for me so I mentioned that to him. He followed up by saying ‘I guess we could have a few drinks somewhere’
it’s not the bookshop date that bothers me, it’s his nonchalance that almost seems to border on disinterest. I told him I would think about it but that I wasn’t sure.
Is he making equal effort to get to the bookshop too ?if i’m remembering the backstory on this right, hasn’t he been like this before but said he would make something of an effort? did he explain why exactly he thought of that venue (is there a deeper meaning we’re missing)? i agree that he sounds incredibly nonchalant about the whole thing, and so your unsure-ness is completely warranted.
Yeah but murder aside I'd date JoeWasn't that weirdo on You in a bookstore ...... sorry
He was hot in Gossip GirlYeah but murder aside I'd date Joehttps://giphy.com/8FVcs24aSuQBpHPg4n
Oh I agree. Nearly two years on & it still plays on my mind. Disappointed, angry & confused emotions play in and out. It feels like such a discard. You're not even worth an explanation. Logically I know they have the problem but dammit it hurts. It's a horrible thing to do & especially when it felt like a special connection. The ten a penny guys (Taps) I call them are easy to get over a block.Just thinking about ghosting tonight and how evil it actually is.
I was ghosted months ago by a guy I really, really, really liked, who showed such interest in me, who I connected with like no one else I’ve been with since, and because he ghosted me here I am STILL thinking about it, asking why, wondering what happened MONTHS later.
It’s just such a cruel thing to do. We’ve all had to text/call and end things with someone, but we’ve done it because it’s respectful. People who ghost are just so cowardly!!!
Sorry just mad tonight haahha
Thing is. Even if it's not the opening message, you suspect it will follow shortly (sex references). I've got to the stage where I rarely engage with anyone. Luckily I genuinely have started to appreciate being single. Especially when amongst married couples!Latest opening message…Hey sexy wouldn't mind you squatting on my shaft mmm x
Why is it so difficult to get to the point of actually going on a date? Where do people meet people anymore?
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