She included my comments on her story. I saw it and felt bad. I'm not a mean person and wouldn't intentionally hurt anyone or bully given i was bullied myself as a child.
However, this felt like a 'safe space' to just have a rant, sometimes you follow and genuinely like the influencer, but then you pay more attention and realise this isn't what it seems, sometimes they make you feel bad/negative/ irritated/lied to.
Specifically, I find the portrayal of motherhood damaging to young women/mothers to be. It isn't all sunshine and rainbows and she has hidden the help she's receiving and never shown any tiredness as a new mother. That surprised me.
The truth is, we all probably liked her at one point, and the reason we are here is because of her!
Not everyone can like you, people will gossip, this isn't personally attacking, she has plenty of people who do like her so why find the people who aren't her bag? Seems to me she should look into why she needs everyone to love her, instead of accusing us of not empowering women and being sad bully's.
Anyways, I've unfollowed her and would rather not look at her content again. I didn't hate her, I just found the portrayal of motherhood unhelpful so wanted to find others who felt the same.
Feels that she is watching and policing those who don't like her.