The world Narcissist gets banded around a lot these days but Wheeler is a full on, 100% narcissist, in fact, I’m surprised he hasn’t self diagnosed this as his “symptoms” are in no way subtle.
I don’t know a great deal about his ex but she was part of the 80/20 plan when I did it and although it was lacking, I genuinely think people like Kirstie, Nicky and a few others, genuinely wanted to help. I don’t know if Kirstie was qualified but she kept herself in amazing shape so in her case, even experience would have given her some decent knowledge. Nicky was qualified. So it didn’t particularly feel like a scam but Dan did let the team down unfortunately.
I know people have spoken about her defending Dan but anyone who has lived with a narc knows they can make your life hell with constant emotional abuse, threats to seriously harm or even kill themselves and you’re always having to walk on egg shells. It would have made things alot easier for her to show 100% support. It’s not until your out of the relationship that you very quickly see things clearly.
It will happen with Kaz and the Steve’s too. A narc keeps you close with terms of endearment “brother” and big statements like “she’s/ he’s my best friend, I couldnt do it without them”. Equally they turn on you super quickly when you don’t live up to their expectations. They’ll see it the moment they prioritise themselves, their family or something else.
by now I d of hoped we would be done with this bullshit but no wheeler can’t help but give us daily drivel 
ffs Dave ya fat because ya eat too much n don’t move enough be honest