Hey. Sorry if this isn’t the place to do so but I really need to vent. I’m so upset and having sleepless nights. My partner is on unpaid leave. I’m on stat maternity pay. We have no idea when he will return to work and woke up this morning to find out we aren’t entitled to universal credits either. I feel so down. I feel like I’m failing my baby. I dread each day because it’s like Groundhog Day and I want to buy things to do in home, but without any money coming in then I know we have to save every penny.
My dad has offered to pay half of my OH wage every month, but he’s retired and not exactly swimming in cash himself so I don’t want that. I don’t want to rely on my dad.
sorey. I don’t know the point in this really but I don’t have anybody to turn to. My friends have suggested I go back to work early but my baby is 4 months, irs time I’ll never get back and Idon’t Want to leave him yet. Plus I work in a hospital and don’t want to go there. I’m just so fed up and needed to get it out to people who haven’t heard it before.
Can i just ask why arent you entitled to universal credit? You absolutely should be if your partner isnt working and you’re on mat leave. Maybe call them to ask what have they based their decision on. Also universal credit is paid in arrears so if you got paid lets say in the last month you might not get anything this month but next month you will - if thats the case then call your mortgage provider or speak to your landlord and defer your mortgage/rent same with utility companies etc defer it all until you get paid from UC to keep you guys afloat. You should be entitled to an advance off UC as well.