Christmas 2020!

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I’m loving this thread. I start to shop towards the end of the month after my stepchildrens birthdays.

Our traditions:

1st December: North Pole box. I do this as then we get a full month’s worth of use out of the things in it. Usually consists of Christmas PJs, T-shirt’s, books, advent calendars, cups etc. Either bought in the sale or used each year as my youngest knows I do this. The older two are 12/14 now anyway.

Christmas Eve: The youngest and I go to my mums to have a pre christmas day with my mum and sister. Nice food and present swapping. Partner works half a day and wraps my presents that he’s told me all month he’s not got me 🙈😂 he’s a good one!

Christmas Day: Croissants for breakfast, stockings upstairs in bed, youngest opens his pressies, we have dinner early afternoon and then get cleared away for round two for my stepchildren. Then we spend the rest of the day playing with things and have snacks for tea.

Boxing Day: Chilled morning and then afternoon/evening party with family. Not sure what’s happening with that this year yet!

I make my youngest an activity advent. Each day he has something to do. Sometimes this is really simple such as have a nice hot choc, watch a Christmas film, read a Christmas book etc. I try and do one “big” thing each year involving us all. Last year it was the Polar Express. This year will be a challenge thinking of ideas! My youngest is now 8 so I need to start thinking of older ideas as he gets a bit embarrassed if we happen to bump into Santa when he’s visiting any shops/places we’re at 😂

So would love to know how you keep the Christmas spirit going with kids growing up? I want to make some new traditions!
Love Christmas and these are our traditions, apologies if its a bit long just get a bit over excited haha!!

We have 3 kids and the eldest helps a lot more with decorating but the younger two are already starting to mention Christmas seeing the little bits and pieces in the shops etc. We always decorate on a Friday , I go a bit overboard with the decorations but its my favourite part of Christmas. Love family time after the tree & decs go up with just the Christmas lights on watching a Christmas movies with a nice hot chocolate. What are your must watch Christmas movie(s)?

We have done a version of Elf on the Shelf since eldest was very small (10 years+) and he arrives on 1st of December with advent calendars and usually the Christmas Jumpers / clothes to wear on the run up to Christmas - does nice and naughty things all the way through till Christmas Eve.

We usually have some time on the run up baking and making Christmas goodies and deliciousness - Christmas Cake, biscuits, sweet mince pies and then we bake and freeze what we can for NYE party - possibly not this year though! Usually we do pantomime and Christmas markets and fairs on the run up to Christmas but they both will not happen this year due to COVID, one weekend we do go to the local garden centre and pick a Christmas tree decoration to come home and hang on the tree. We also may have a Christmas day out, in the past we have done winter wonderland, railway museum Santa special, safari park Christmas celebration and last year we did Alice in wonderland light festival.

On Christmas Eve we have a day of watching Christmas tv, fit in a Christmas craft if there is time and make sure the house is all clean and tidy for Santa coming. In the late afternoon we visit family for nibbles and hot chocolate and whilst there we track santa on norad. On the way home we look at Christmas lights on the trip home. When we get home our elf has "gone to help Santa" and left behind one present (Christmas Eve Pjs and usually a small chocolate treat), although our eldest is older and no longer believes the elf still leaves her something last year we had different flavoured hot chocolate with candy canes, cream and marshmallows to share once the others were in bed! Santa has a special plate and mug for his treats and drink - this is put out, stockings are hung, we only put out the santa stop here sign on christmas eve, sprinkle reindeer food and then we all pile into our bed to read the night before Christmas before attempting to get the kids to sleep haha!

Whilst waiting for the kids to settle husband and I usually prep as much as I can for dinner the next day we usually have it with 13 of us together so we all take responsibility for part of it and then come together at whoever's house is hosting that year. We have simple breakfast on the day, big 3 course christmas lunch which is usually starter, lunch then dessert about 3 hours later haha! After lunch we swap gifts with family and usually play a silly game or two.

Boxing day is our day where we usually stay in pyjamas and relax we play with toys, eat chocolate and go nowhere. My parents usually come over and dad cooks boxing day curry with leftover meats for us all. Then we will have buffet style tea late in the day - cold meats, cheese and crackers etc.

Sooooo excited now hahah! Love reading other people's traditions - what are yours? xx

It’s always one extreme to the other for me. I either slob in PJ’s or I get all dressed up. Either way, we go nowhere and see no one 😂
Same as others, I always had new pyjamas on christmas eve but never christmas ones as a child. Then a new outfit on Christmas Day. We have done Christmas Pjs only the last 2 or 3 year but they then wear them on the run up to Christmas the following year, apart from my eldest who has been wearing last years christmas pj bottoms since about April - she says she is keeping the spirit alive (and they are comfortable :ROFLMAO: ). Still do a nice outfit on christmas day for us all.
 
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Oh my goodness Cuttle, you sound like my kind of family. I love your post, it makes me feel so xmassy.

So, our lead up to December involves buying prezzies any time of year - if I see something great then I buy it. October finds me buying ingredients for Xmas cake, which I make late October/early November - while listening to a Xmas CD and drinking sherry. While the cake bakes in oven I start writing my cards.

The day before Black Friday we take our caravan to either Southport or Chester ready for the main shopping, and enjoy eating out surrounded by shopping bags. We stay two or three nights and continue shopping to make sure it's all done. So then it's time to decorate the house, put up the tree, Xmas garlands, singing Santa's, and put lights on the trees outside. By the time we've finished it's like Tinsel Town. Love it.

However, when the Christmas markets go to Manchester we love to go over on the train, catch something for lunch in a gorgeous old pub rum restaurant famous for making delicious pies. Then we buy some xmassy gifts and cheeses before heading home.

I love wrapping presents and take ages adding bows, streamers and other curly bits, sipping sherry, wine or gin and listening to the Xmas CD again. Can't get enough of it.

We meet with friends for a Xmas curry middle of December. Then on Xmas Eve about ten family members go out for a meal and some stay overnight.

Xmas Day is great. I enjoy getting up first, switching on lights on the tree and other fairy lights, lighting Xmas candles, and prepping lunch - you've guessed it - while the Xmas CD plays in the background. Then when everyone gets up and more family arrive, we open the presents. Then go to the pub for a quick one before returning home for a late Xmas lunch that can take over two hours to eat while having a laugh.

Boxing Day at Wetherby Races, then on 27th just chill out.
 
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Last year I got myself the Joe and Seph popcorn advent calender and it was really nice lots of different flavours and none were horrid.
Ooh I’ve been looking at this one the last couple of days! Happy to see a good review, thank you!
 
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I’m gutted to hear that M&S aren’t doing their beauty advent calendar this year. I think instead I’m going to treat myself to a cheese one... or wine... or gin?! Any Aldi recommendations from previous years?
 
I’m gutted to hear that M&S aren’t doing their beauty advent calendar this year. I think instead I’m going to treat myself to a cheese one... or wine... or gin?! Any Aldi recommendations from previous years?
How about make your own and incorporate all 3 🥴
Have you seen the new M&S gin? I'm definitely getting a bottle or 2 of the clementine, last year they did a blood orange and cranberry bucks fizz, 🤤 hope they do it again this year!
 
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How about make your own and incorporate all 3 🥴
Have you seen the new M&S gin? I'm definitely getting a bottle or 2 of the clementine, last year they did a blood orange and cranberry bucks fizz, 🤤 hope they do it again this year!
Oh good idea! Yes, I have seen that. Looks and sounds lovely!
 
I’m gutted to hear that M&S aren’t doing their beauty advent calendar this year. I think instead I’m going to treat myself to a cheese one... or wine... or gin?! Any Aldi recommendations from previous years?
Oh I didnt know M&S weren't doing theirs this year. I was going to treat myself 😔
 
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I like sending Christmas cards. I usually take a few pictures of the kids or us as a family and have them printed on cards and send them out. Especially since I live far away from my side of the family and they don't get to see my kids that often. I just think it is a nice little surprise to get a card in the mail from overseas and to see pictures. Especially my grandmother, who is 96 loves getting a card with pictures of her great grandchildren.
 
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How about make your own and incorporate all 3 🥴
Have you seen the new M&S gin? I'm definitely getting a bottle or 2 of the clementine, last year they did a blood orange and cranberry bucks fizz, 🤤 hope they do it again this year!
Didnt M&S do the Clementine gin last year?
 
I’m gutted to hear that M&S aren’t doing their beauty advent calendar this year. I think instead I’m going to treat myself to a cheese one... or wine... or gin?! Any Aldi recommendations from previous years?
I’ve had the wine one from Aldi a few years ago was a great buy at £50.. nice mix of red, white and rose with about 3 fizz in I think!
 
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Did more shopping today. I have to send my family's gifts overseas so am trying to get them asap... more or less finished my Mum's, need to get my step-dad and gran.
 
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I bought a few more bits this week but not loads... anyone who has not watched it there is a Sainsburys short film - Christmas in a Day they made back in 2014 I think it was, after they used all the footage for their advert that year. It's a great watch and I think I have watched it every year since! Not sure if I am allowed to add the link here...?
 
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So glad I found this thread !! I ❤ Christmas !!

This year we have decided that we are all going to have to celebrate in our own houses which is a bit sad as everyone has come to mine for Christmas day for the last 14 years but with us all working in jobs that are with the public or in care my mum dont feel it's worth the risk ,so it's going to be strange this year.

My favourite day is Christmas eve though , when it gets to about 3pm and everything is done and you can just relax!

We always go for a walk Christmas eve which although the kids are 15 and 16 they still enjoy !

I've started getting a few presents ,I'm waiting for my Christmas vouchers to arrive then I can start properly .

Looking forward to the dark nights, christmas lights ,hot chocolate!
 
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I'm looking forward to no staff christmas party yes I'm unsociable I work 50+ hours a week some of them there make my life hell so why would I want to spend £50 plus drinking money on a meal or go out to pubs i don't like just because its Christmas.
 
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I'm not the sort of person to leave it last minute, but also not an early bird. But I have 14 presents already!

Our Christmas Eve tradition is we have a buffet, which the kids choose all the food. There is always a huge variety so we have it at lunchtime and pick at it into the evening.
 
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Works Xmas do has been cancelled. Kinda releaved as it wasn't a cheap one they had picked! I said yes to it without really thinking about the cost 🤣
 
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