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Weā€™ve just been out for dinner, it was nice! Mr Wilma got me some new pyjamas today so Iā€™ve just had a bath, got me new pjs on and weā€™re gonna watch You. Got some snacks too šŸ˜‹
 
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I couldnā€™t stand serena, she was almost as bad as JENNY šŸ„²

best character was defo Dorota!!!
 
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Pals, a situation has transpired.

I have a friend who I met through work a few years ago - neither of us work for the same company anymore but me and him, and another girl we were friends with, used to go for a drink once or twice a year.

Over lockdown, heā€™s been very outspoken on social media about his views on the government and life and Iā€™ve realised that weā€™re very different people and I donā€™t really want to continue the friendship. We donā€™t talk between these once a year-ish drinks so I thought it would be easy to let the friendship fizzle out.

He messaged me a few months ago asking if I wanted to go out for a drink, and I didnā€™t say no but I was like ā€œoh, things are a bit full on at the moment with work etc (which was true) but Iā€™ll let you know when things calm down and maybe then we can catch upā€ - thinking it was a generic brush off and he wouldnā€™t ask again. But he messaged again today asking when I was free and I donā€™t know what to say šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø I donā€™t really want to see him but Iā€™m also a coward who canā€™t do confrontation. Help!
 
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Pals, a situation has transpired.

I have a friend who I met through work a few years ago - neither of us work for the same company anymore but me and him, and another girl we were friends with, used to go for a drink once or twice a year.

Over lockdown, heā€™s been very outspoken on social media about his views on the government and life and Iā€™ve realised that weā€™re very different people and I donā€™t really want to continue the friendship. We donā€™t talk between these once a year-ish drinks so I thought it would be easy to let the friendship fizzle out.

He messaged me a few months ago asking if I wanted to go out for a drink, and I didnā€™t say no but I was like ā€œoh, things are a bit full on at the moment with work etc (which was true) but Iā€™ll let you know when things calm down and maybe then we can catch upā€ - thinking it was a generic brush off and he wouldnā€™t ask again. But he messaged again today asking when I was free and I donā€™t know what to say šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø I donā€™t really want to see him but Iā€™m also a coward who canā€™t do confrontation. Help!
just say youā€™re busy! The relationship will fizzle out, you donā€™t owe him anything if you donā€™t want to continue the friendship. Friendships come and go and end, people change and grow. You arenā€™t on the same wavelength as him and that is fine. If you feel bad ghosting him just say youā€™re really busy for the next few weeks and youā€™ll let him know. Then donā€™t šŸ˜‚
 
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Pals, a situation has transpired.

I have a friend who I met through work a few years ago - neither of us work for the same company anymore but me and him, and another girl we were friends with, used to go for a drink once or twice a year.

Over lockdown, heā€™s been very outspoken on social media about his views on the government and life and Iā€™ve realised that weā€™re very different people and I donā€™t really want to continue the friendship. We donā€™t talk between these once a year-ish drinks so I thought it would be easy to let the friendship fizzle out.

He messaged me a few months ago asking if I wanted to go out for a drink, and I didnā€™t say no but I was like ā€œoh, things are a bit full on at the moment with work etc (which was true) but Iā€™ll let you know when things calm down and maybe then we can catch upā€ - thinking it was a generic brush off and he wouldnā€™t ask again. But he messaged again today asking when I was free and I donā€™t know what to say šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø I donā€™t really want to see him but Iā€™m also a coward who canā€™t do confrontation. Help!
you donā€™t have to have an excuse or explanation, if you donā€™t want to go just say you canā€™t make it! (Or ghost him šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚) but donā€™t feel like you have to see him if you donā€™t want to!
 
Pals, a situation has transpired.

I have a friend who I met through work a few years ago - neither of us work for the same company anymore but me and him, and another girl we were friends with, used to go for a drink once or twice a year.

Over lockdown, heā€™s been very outspoken on social media about his views on the government and life and Iā€™ve realised that weā€™re very different people and I donā€™t really want to continue the friendship. We donā€™t talk between these once a year-ish drinks so I thought it would be easy to let the friendship fizzle out.

He messaged me a few months ago asking if I wanted to go out for a drink, and I didnā€™t say no but I was like ā€œoh, things are a bit full on at the moment with work etc (which was true) but Iā€™ll let you know when things calm down and maybe then we can catch upā€ - thinking it was a generic brush off and he wouldnā€™t ask again. But he messaged again today asking when I was free and I donā€™t know what to say šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø I donā€™t really want to see him but Iā€™m also a coward who canā€™t do confrontation. Help!
If you donā€™t see him in real life or you donā€™t talk between these drinks, just block him on everything lol, itā€™s not like he can turn up to your front door and ask why šŸ˜‚
 
Thanks guys šŸ˜¬ I feel like such a witch because heā€™s only ever been nice to me in person and I feel so guilty. But then I think about his fb rant about how some people deserve to die and I donā€™t feel so guilty anymore šŸ˜°
 
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