Um - lots of women are raising children, have a place to live and make their own money without a man. Lots of women have children and never marry their partner (what?!) And lots of women never even HAVE children (double what?!) And sometimes leaving a man is *that* simple - he’s abusive, he’s absent, he’s cheating on you, he’s not pulling his weight etc...Some women might need an outside voice to say “you deserve better, you should leave” because they lack the confidence and have been told they aren’t good enough or have been judged mercilessly by society - be they young women in their first serious relationship or married women - even married women with children need to leave a partner and can - shock horror! - make it without a man. Many many families can, and do (!) survive a breakup, especially if one of the partners is toxic. I truly believe most women are savvy enough to understand the difference between a mistake and needing to get out.
I agree with
@elttat that the vast majority of women who follow either SF or FG are young women navigating their way through the modern minefield of trying to establish who you are and, more importantly, who you want to be. And even though I do not wholesale buy into either of their philosophies I do think it’s fantastic they are both - to varying degrees - encourage women to be strong, empowered, be their true selves, not take
tit from anyone and make your own god damned money (or at least make some off of white women’s guilt
) and don’t rely on a man/partner to hold you in their financial reins. Just my two cents of blathering on a Friday.