I know everyone is different and no one is perfect, but as a parent you do things you don’t really want to do but you do because you know it’s good for your child. Going swimming, baby groups, going to places like soft plays ect none of us would want to do these things but do because we want the best for our child. Things money can’t buy like seeing them play, try new experiences, socialise with other kids ect! She comes across as very selfish and almost like he will just have to fit into her life and adapt and not the other way round.
I know social media is a brief snapshot so maybe the other 23 hours a day is very different but her responses and attitude lead me to think it isn’t.