He is a young, available adoring fan, who will do whatever she wants. She may have been aiming high, but all that has done is leave her with no companion. He will enable her to live the life she wants. He isn't a tie because the moment she tires of him, he can be dismissed. She needs a lot of attention and he provides it. He is Mr Right Now. What is in it for him? A decade of travel, high end hotels, good connections, no split sift waitering between low paid acting jobs, no getting up early, no hard work, pursuing his genuine interest in collecting and old stuff. They will both grow out of it but for now it is fine and advantageous for both. She has patrons to pay for her lifestyle and a rich, handsome man would be on the lookout for a younger woman who would dance to his tune.