Here’s a screenshot of some of what they said, I just went to the thread on Reddit and it looks like the person deleted their posts on there. But here’s some of what they said.Ooh I missed that Reddit post - do you have the link?
Thank you! Do you know what sub this post was in?Here’s a screenshot of some of what they said, I just went to thread on Reddit and it looks like the person deleted their posts on there. But here’s some of what they said.
You’re welcome! r/Deuxmoi and then search London Theatre.Thank you! Do you know what sub this post was in?
He absolutely can, but it’s still okay to acknowledge how the other person feels in these circumstances. It’s nigh-on impossible to see things in a rational or measured way when you’re heartbroken. That kind of pain is so visceral.Oliver can move on from Carrie as quickly as he wants, with whoever he wants.
Maybe that sounds harsh but guess what? He doesn't have to live his life in a way that's going to make her happy. He has absolutely no responsibility to her any more.
It's been what, 3 months? How long does he have to keep considering his ex's feelings for?
Yes, if she keeps being so passive-aggressive on Instagram whilst he remains quiet it won't look good on her. She should also stop answering questions that relate to her break up.He absolutely can, but it’s still okay to acknowledge how the other person feels in these circumstances. It’s nigh-on impossible to see things in a rational or measured way when you’re heartbroken. That kind of pain is so visceral.
I don’t mean to paint Oliver as some kind of a villain - I just think he’s been a bit of a dick and can’t help but empathise with how Carrie is likely feeling re: him having a new girlfriend. I just wish she’d figure out how to purge those emotions behind closed doors and with friends rather than all over her very public Instagram.
Yeah exactly. Carrie wouldn't give two figs about being seen with a new boyfriend 3 months after ditching Oliver had it been the other way around.Im going to be the asshole here, because I don’t feel super sorry for Carrie. I don’t wish her any harm either and I hope she’ll get over whatever heartbreak she feels right now. But I’m not going to pretend she wouldn’t be ok doing the same thing. In fact, I know she is.
Also, pretty sure Carrie knows about Oliver‘s new girl. She’s not finding out today for the first time, but since she reads here, she now knows that we know so there’ll be faux-vague insta posts later.
I agree, it's a taste of her own medicine for sure. But I also dislike that Oliver obviously never really fancied her (we're seeing him go back to type now) and used her to boost his own profile. Add that to him doing the typical man thing of not having the stones to break up when you're over it, and instead lining up the next girlfriend before the breakup, neither of them deserves sympathy imo.I would feel sorry for Carrie but if you got together via cheating, don’t be surprised when you get cheated on. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Her relationship with Pete was overlap with her relationship with Oliver, she didn’t wait 3 months to put him all over her videos. She did it while dating Pete. So, no. I don’t feel that bad about her
Plus going to Paris of all places...I've just noticed that Oliver is following someone called Leana McDermott on Insta, which seems to be Alessia's mum? To me, that suggests this new couple is already pretty established.
Yeah but the reason people excuse her behavior back then is because she months later (when she saw people side-eyeing her relationship with Oliver) dropped those vague abuse hints about Pete.I would feel sorry for Carrie but if you got together via cheating, don’t be surprised when you get cheated on. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Her relationship with Pete was overlap with her relationship with Oliver, she didn’t wait 3 months to put him all over her videos. She did it while dating Pete. So, no. I don’t feel that bad about her
She was also ALL OVER Oliver from the start. Not just within their work circles, but also all over the internet. Had Carrie found someone first she would have had no qualms to post it everywhere.I would feel sorry for Carrie but if you got together via cheating, don’t be surprised when you get cheated on. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Her relationship with Pete was overlap with her relationship with Oliver, she didn’t wait 3 months to put him all over her videos. She did it while dating Pete. So, no. I don’t feel that bad about her
Yeah, to be fair I don’t know much about her prior relationships or how she’s conducted herself in the past. I think I was just reliving my own experiences with an ex. I should maybe save the empathy for people who are more deserving.I would feel sorry for Carrie but if you got together via cheating, don’t be surprised when you get cheated on. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Her relationship with Pete was overlap with her relationship with Oliver, she didn’t wait 3 months to put him all over her videos. She did it while dating Pete. So, no. I don’t feel that bad about her
How is it obvious that Oliver never really fancied her? How sick would he have to be to being in a relationship for FIVE YEARS of his life with someone he didn’t love? How blind would Carrie have to be to not notice? Listen, I was never a fan of them as a couple but that is a whole lot of projection.I agree, it's a taste of her own medicine for sure. But I also dislike that Oliver obviously never really fancied her (we're seeing him go back to type now) and used her to boost his own profile. Add that to him doing the typical man thing of not having the stones to break up when you're over it, and instead lining up the next girlfriend before the breakup, neither of them deserves sympathy imo.
What's most bothersome to me about this whole thing is that most people fuck around exes and current partners like this much earlier in life. Late teens and early twenties is the prime time for being a relationship dick - doing it at 30 all feels really developmentally stunted.
I don’t think it’s that he never fancied her. I think it was very much they were on tour, spent a lot of time together, had fun. I don’t however think that Oliver foresaw it lasting as long as it did because he’s always been very anti any kind of commitment. Had covid and lockdowns not been a thing, I think they would have fizzled out sooner.How is it obvious that Oliver never really fancied her? How sick would he have to be to being in a relationship for FIVE YEARS of his life with someone he didn’t love? How blind would Carrie have to be to not notice? Listen, I was never a fan of them as a couple but that is a whole lot of projection.
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