Firstly I assumed everybody knew that Sergio and Caroline had been together a lot longer than she has stated. It has been all over social media for a long time.
Secondly I don’t know why I decided to re-watch a few episodes of ladies of London and oh my God how the mighty have fallen! The contrast between the Caroline of then and the Caroline of now is insane, aside from the lifestyle her personality seemed a lot more bearable then than it is now and that is saying a lot! It’s also hilarious watching her judging the Americans for how showy & over the top they can be. She was also judging Caprice for being desperate & selling stories to the tabloids when she is selling anything and everything on her social media.
I also noticed that her and Cem seemed quite happy back then and you can see she clearly respect him and didn’t treat him the way she treats Sergio & everyone else. Even back then she was constantly putting people down and trying to pass it off as a joke or her being British, however she never did that to Cem even when he was teasing her.
Also please don’t judge me but I couldn’t sleep last night and I scrolled all the way back on her Instagram to the beginning and the pictures of her and Cem together make me deeply regret her decisions on her behalf
. She seemed to be a much more hands-on mum when she was with him and it was so lovely to see her bonding with her children and being so affectionate with them in the pictures and her captions about them.
Lastly when I look at her old pictures on Instagram with Cem I always get the impression that she was a lot more into him that he was her. Maybe she was just putting it on for Instagram, but I know she has said one of the things she loves about Sergio (this was in the early days) is the fact that he is very open with his emotions and affection and her ex wasn’t. I am not defending her, but I am thinking maybe she felt neglected and lonely in her marriage especially with him travelling so much and was possibly going through a midlife crisis when she met Sergio. However instead of communicating her feelings to her husband and attempting to work it out with therapy she met Sergio who love bombed her and gave her everything she felt was missing in her marriage and rushed into that relationship without really thinking things through and is possibly regretting it now. You are all right she doesn’t look nowhere near as happy as she used to years ago. She appeared a lot more in love with her ex and even watching them on LOL it’s nice to see her flirting with him in the first series and her smile when she is talking to him seems really genuine. Unfortunately I also think the ladies of London fame got to her and Cem who is a lot more reserved probably discouraged some of her fame seeking antics & constant social climbing & preferred for her to be more laid back & committed to being a mother & a wife first & foremost. None of this is bad it just makes a lot more sense to me about her decision to get with Sergio, I think he very much tells her what she wants to hear and acts more like a fan than a husband hence why she got with him in the first place. She said herself in the first season of ladies of London that without CEM she would be a lot more intolerableShe said herself in the first season of ladies of London that without CEM she would be a lot more intolerable, which is what we are all witnessing now.
I know she was cheating on him with Sergio during some of these but still.. lol she looks very happy & in love with him.