“I’m not blaming her friends but...” @Sarahjay01 put it better than I probably can but I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for them. I wouldn’t know how to handle that situation so I would phone everyone I knew to help in whatever way. Maybe they did that? Someone posted earlier that Caroline’s mum and sister were going to see her that afternoon. Did they know how serious the situation was? Maybe not and even if they did I wouldn’t feel comfortable blaming them for not dropping everything and running to her at whatever time of day. Maybe the friend or friends needed to get away for their own mental health and Caroline persuaded them she’d be okay (as I think had happened multiple times before).Caroline's death is such a trigger for me as I'm sure it is with many people
Whether she flicked him, hit him with a phone/lamp/fan.. whatever it was, the woman did not deserve to die
I totally believe her suicide was avoidable, and I'm annoyed her friends didn't stay with her on the day she died, fully knowing her mental state and that she'd attempted suicide more than once
The fact she had text her friend the night before saying she wanted to kill herself? I'm sorry I wouldn't move from my friends side if I was in that situation, and I would've done all I could to get her help
I'm not blaming her friends but I just believe there was a lot more that could have been done to help her
I'm not condoning what she done to Lewis, no one will ever know for certain what happened that night apart from the two of them and it's no wonder her mental health was fucked with all the lies/rumours/speculation that followed
There was so much reported/commented on at the time that didn’t come out at the inquest, which confirms the theory that what was published in the media impacted on Caroline’s mental health. I remember reading stuff at the time that said the Police had leaked the bloody photo. I’m not sure about English law but in Scotland, if the Police are called to a domestic incident, the perpetrator is arrested and kept in custody to appear at the next Court day. I don’t think a caution is ever an option.
I think it’s all really really sad. I loved her on Strictly (her Charleston is my favourite Strictly dance of all time). The people left behind by suicide are always left with what ifs and questions but I don’t think any person or persons being blamed without just cause is good for anyone. Her mum will probably never get over this but pinning Caroline’s death on one Police Officer is toxic. And even in a haze of insta posing and make-up, I doubt there’s a day goes by where her friends don’t wish they could change what happened.