Caroline Flack

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Correct- but they keep it very private, which is why it's so angering to see him putting a spotlight on it now. Of course people are going to question it, they must be livid over him!

If she had put this out it wouldn't have changed anyone's opinion and that's a fact. It's easy to think now after what's happened that the public would have had sympathy.

But the big question is why did Lewis tell the 999 controller that she was trying to kill him and that she got him on the head with a lamp. If it was all one big misunderstanding he must be feeling pretty tit right now because that phonecall kicked the whole thing off.wull we ever know the truth now.
Who are we to question someone’s 999 call for help? If the person had died due to a head injury we’d be asking why he didn’t call 999 for help.
 
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I'd wondered if CF was ever diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, or whatever it's called now.
Maybe not formally diagnosed. But reading through this and from what we now know about CF, I hate to armchair diagnose but it wouldn't surprise me in the least.

 
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BPD is very complex in the way it is expressed - I should know as my other half has it. You can’t possibly diagnose someone without knowing them. What’s clear is poor CF didn’t get the help she needed, for whatever reason :cry:
 
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Can’t believe they released that pic of the blood at the scene of the crime, I would have thought that was evidence only to be shown in court? It was hugely irresponsible to publish it, seemed borderline illegal to me, and seriously unfair to both Lewis and CF to have that outed in the press. Jesus.
 
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I always thought it was weird that LB posted it to his Instagram before he had hit the press
 
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I have felt very torn over this whole thing. Something didn’t feel right about jumping on the band wagon with everyone else and trying to blame the media, the CPS and anyone else that was involved in this case.
It’s unbelievably tragic what has happened to her, really tragic but She clearly was no angel, sounds like she was extremely manipulative to all of her much younger boyfriends and they probably felt well out of their depth to deal with her. She needed medical intervention but by all accounts it seems she refused it if the reports are true. Perhaps admitting she had a mental health problem she thought would end her career, and maybe she was right. Would ITV have been supportive?

someone mentioned that when she took the overdose the night before she died she refused to go to hospital again. At this point she probably should have been sectioned.
 
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It's a really difficult thing for people to now say celeb gossip and all that culture needs to stop. Caroline loved gossip and she made her name on reality tv and is the figurehead of the trashiest reality tv show where the contestant have no talents.

Caroline was friends with journalists and people that work at papers, she understood the relationship was symbiotic and they needed each other. Without the talk and news on celebs their star fades, someone can't just be famous and only have the positive stories about them reported.
 
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I think threatening suicide regularly would come under coercive control (maybe that's where the view that she was manipulative towards LB came from) but domestic abuse and coercive control go hand in hand really.

EDIT - ok, maybe not reading through this list here although I'm sure that's not exhaustive.

It is definitely an abusive trait to threaten suicide (before I upset anyone, I am aware that suicide threats are not always abusive).
Having a bit of a background in dv, her behaviour is what I would usually describe as a classic abuser. She threatens self harm/suicide, minimises the abuse, blames stress, declares love after an incident, hurts you, smashes things up, shouts, swears, goes through your phone. Obviously I am not saying that she WAS an abuser, but I'm saying that her behaviour is like a long line of ticks on the checklist.
 
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Did he? I didn’t know that.
He posted to his Instagram stories with a - this needs to stop now, this isn’t my blood - etc etc. The implication was that it had been leaked, but his posting of it was the first I saw
 
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Anyone else think people should stop with the conspiracy theories?

Caroline had substance abuse issues, ex's said she threatened to kill herself, she took an overdose the night before ending her life and countless other things that make it tragic but not an out of character surprise.
 
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The more I read that post her family released, the more I agree she would have been raked over the coals if she posted that.

it’s full of excuses for her behaviour, claims to take responsibility but says it was an accident. It’s all about what she has lost, how she feela— not one mention of regret or an apology to Lewis for what happened that night.

People are also quick to forget that it wasn’t only physical abuse that went on that night but she was also extremely verbally and emotionally abusive, judging by the hearing in December.
 
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Media stated her dad found her After a friend raised alarm yet it says her twin found her 😭

BBC News reports state that her sister identified her (which doesn't necessarily mean she found her)

It doesn't say who flagged the police car down. It's more likely that person or persons found her I think.
 
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If LB did post the photo (I don’t know if he did or not), I wonder if he did so purposely to compromise the trial? Seeing as he wanted the charges dropped, maybe he was trying to have anything declared a mistrial
 
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Laura Whitmore has been really vocal about Caroline/be kind/the press/trolls

so was it planned or just really, really bad timing that the dress she wore at the awards has newspapers all over it 😐

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Would that be the Laura Whitmore who was publicly lambasting social media who is posting herself....... ooooo look ...... all over social media 3 days later. Go the duck away Laura. Hypocrisy at its finest, fake grief at its worst.
 
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Don’t see why they’d need her sister to identify her if she was found by her Dad though 🤔
 
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