That is disgusting. How mercenary these shallow people are. Makes me feel sick.
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Its laughable at this point.
And I hate to constantly sound like I’m on some kind PR spin for this site, but I don’t go on twitter, I don’t comment on there, I don’t visit someones social media to tell them what I think of them or what I dislike about them.
I come her and gossip about celebrities and Influencers who put themselves in the limelight.
I’m not going to saint anyone because they’ve passed, even under these circumstances, celebrities who turned their back on her now crying on twitter and Instagram to make themselves look good,
the public that dragged her, now holding up as an angel amongst us, the hypocrisy is unreal
Twitter has a mob mentality, And I’m STILL not arguing that it should be removed, there has never been a time in history when people didn’t gossip and speculate and discuss celebrity culture!!
But the same people crying over her death found it acceptable to go onto her ex’s Instagram and blame him, blame journalists for doing their job, twitter is filled with blame blame blame.
the aggression hasn’t changed, the tone stays the same, the tweets of outrage screaming they want change whilst blasting the next victim,
but they started a hashtag so their hands are clean now
influencers posted a story so that’s their bit done.I'm happier discussing events here, knowing everyone and nobody is to blame when tit happens..
a series of events lead to this. As it does with all suicide cases
Can't really see her doing a 9-5 she could have started some kind of business I supposeWhy didn’t she just walk away. Rich and fame apparently are awesome until your own actions turn it against you.
I am very sad to hear about Caroline. It’s always sad when someone feels suicide is their only option.
Interesting reading everyone is blaming the CPS for wanting a show trial but faced with details of the phone call and the bodycam footage they obviously had a strong enough case.She was a troubled person and no one deserves to be in such a bad place they decide to end their own life it is incredibly sad it really is !
A while back I had my Instagram account open. I use to want followers. I used the fact o was a single mum due to DV to advocate a persona and get followers. And then one day, I just looked around Instagram. And realised that it was full of the worst kind of people in life. Judgemental, two faced and witchy liars. I realised some big IG’s posted on here quite often. They often would tear other women down. Give abuse. To make themselves feel better. After a feud with one writer, which got me a lot of attention but grief at the same time, I realised that it wasn’t who I am. I’m not going to be part of that. So I left. And it’s those same women today posting how sad they are for Caroline Flack under false names who actually tore her down. Where were you? Did you support? No.
Second point. Caroline Flack took her own life. But the CPS are not to blame. Yes they continued prosecute without the key witness. They pressed charged and took it to court. But it’s because we live in a 0 tolerance country for DV. The CPS will always pursue a case that is linked with DV. And thank bloody god they do. As a survivor of DV, I’m glad they do. To protect everyone. However, I don’t agree with how they have continued to deal with her, I think the British justice system and bail/remand or prior to court cases massively lets down those going through it. Caroline isn’t the only person who’s died whilst on bail. People take their own lives in remand/bail weekly. It isn’t something new. As humans we need to realise that all behaviour is communication and sometimes those who commit crimes or harm or abuse others need help. Not always. But sometimes. And In the case of Caroline I believe she needed help for a long time.
The fault is entirely with the British media and press, social media and people who think tearing others down makes them better! There’s a lot of people who I know will read this and yes it’s aimed directly at you. Every time you post, people read what you say. Once you put it down online it can be seen forever. We do not live in a kind society, we live in a society were we laugh at others misfortunes and bully the weak or kick people at their most vulnerable times. It knocks me sick the likes of Stephanie Davis crying on Instagram when they know full well they are no angel, you have been the bully. You have bullied. And it made you feel good at the time. There’s plenty of women “mourning” the loss of Caroline today, you’re making it about yourself. It’s not about Caroline, it’s not about me, it’s not about you. People are dying! Suicide is a real thing! We are the cause of it.
I hope one day it changes. But don’t believe it will.
Second point. Caroline Flack took her own life. But the CPS are not to blame. Yes they continued prosecute without the key witness. They pressed charged and took it to court. But it’s because we live in a 0 tolerance country for DV. The CPS will always pursue a case that is linked with DV. And thank bloody god they do. As a survivor of DV, I’m glad they do. To protect everyone. However, I don’t agree with how they have continued to deal with her, I think the British justice system and bail/remand or prior to court cases massively lets down those going through it. Caroline isn’t the only person who’s died whilst on bail. People take their own lives in remand/bail weekly. It isn’t something new. As humans we need to realise that all behaviour is communication and sometimes those who commit crimes or harm or abuse others need help. Not always. But sometimes. And In the case of Caroline I believe she needed help for a long time.
The fault is entirely with the British media and press, social media and people who think tearing others down makes them better! There’s a lot of people who I know will read this and yes it’s aimed directly at you. Every time you post, people read what you say. Once you put it down online it can be seen forever. We do not live in a kind society, we live in a society were we laugh at others misfortunes and bully the weak or kick people at their most vulnerable times. It knocks me sick the likes of Stephanie Davis crying on Instagram when they know full well they are no angel, you have been the bully. You have bullied. And it made you feel good at the time. There’s plenty of women “mourning” the loss of Caroline today, you’re making it about yourself. It’s not about Caroline, it’s not about me, it’s not about you. People are dying! Suicide is a real thing! We are the cause of it.
I hope one day it changes. But don’t believe it will.
I am also wondering if other stuff was going to come out in court, assaulting someone is awful but was there something else that she was terrified would destroy her completely.
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How did he do that when he was asleep?? He woke up to her smashing him in the head with a lamp, he states that in the 999 phone call recording that was heard in court!
Yes! Exactly what I said to my other half earlier!
If I see another ‘in a world where you can be anything, be kind’ post I think I’ll scream! No one on earth is 100% kind 100% of the time. Am I just being a bleeping witch or is this not common knowledge? I think it is far more useful to encourage people to love themselves, be confident and not give a flying duck about what strangers think about them.
I think it’s so cringeworthy too!
Poor Lass. She might have her demon side but so sad to the degree where you feel extinguishing yourself is the only solution.
Flack being the gaslighting one, not him! Poor bloke is clearly the victim in all of this and I feel so sorry for him. But we're supposed to forget all that now, and say she's innocent apparently.
I bet half the people don’t realise that the quote is out of a book called wonder that was written for children going to secondary school.
For what it’s worth, from the moment this thing started (the assault back in December), I said I believed CF had borderline personality disorder. Obviously I didn’t know her but a quick look at the symptoms appears to explain her behaviour:
Signs and symptoms
Signs and symptoms
- Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone. ...
- Unstable relationships. ...
- Unclear or shifting self-image. ...
- Impulsive, self-destructive behaviors. ...
- Self-harm. ...
- Extreme emotional swings. ...
- Chronic feelings of emptiness. ...
- Explosive anger.
They’d be calling him a coward. And speculating about what else was about to come out. Plain and simple.
Sick of that bleeping phrase now, I've seen it all over
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