Exactly! You hit the nail on the head.I actually agree with you here, I'm for sure not a Flack top fan, I think she's super annoying but that comment is the same as when a man tells you his ex was 'crazy'. I trust no man who ever says that.
That said, as someone else mentioned, I always associate her with Harry styles. That article reminded me of the age difference - he was 17 and she was 31! I feel like she was let off a bit easy with that. It’s creepy. Especially if you imagine a 31 year old man, who worked on the xfactor, getting with a 17 year old female contestant after the show ended. Sure there are sometimes differences with what’s suitable for men and women, but in this context it may not have been illegal but it’s sure as hell pretty inappropriate....
Sorry for the off topic ramble. But it’s just given me a bad feeling about her ever since.