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There’s no such thing as reverse racism...but I agree she’s often rude and assumptive about ‘white women’ and clumps the whole group together like everyone is the same. I used to really enjoy her writing about diversity and learnt a lot but I find it all too self-serving now
She also clumps together all black women too which I got sick of. Obviously there are issues of race which may be applicable, but she used to generalise about 'black women do/think...'. There can be huge differences culture/tradition wise between women of north and South Sudan for example, so I assume Black women of Barbados have a different culture to those in Nigeria (she said herself her in laws had issues with her being Bajan) I got the impression that she felt all Black women around the world are like the women she knows in Brixton.
 
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Hang on, that’s not true. I unfollowed Candice ages ago because she DOES come across as very aggressive. I unfollowed Caroline Hirons for exactly the same reason. Nothing to do with race, and I really resent that someone is exempt from being called out on their aggression just because they’re black.
totally agree! I have unfollowed loads of accounts of various different races because I’ve thought they were aggressive. Candice is aggressive, but I think that’s her personality, and has nothing to do with the fact that she’s black.
 
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Pommes

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I suspect Candice has narcissistic personality disorder, and that isn’t something I say lightly.
 
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Instawanker

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BreathlesslyMothering, a mother who featured on Make Motherhood Diverse, has been moved to palliative care and her friend is running a campaign to raise money for her children. Lots of the Instamums have been appealing for donations on their stories. Candice did so too and donated today. Such a sad situation.
I donated earlier in the week - anonymously as I don’t need the insta world to know how much or the public adoration at being good enough to donate.
 
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Greendream

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Ok so she wants to spread her message and everyone to listen to her and her angry little head pop off every 5 minutes - oh sorry she’s just educating us fools.

But she won’t listen to anyone else’s truth/ opinions/ story.

She’s nothing but a pimped up money grabber making a dime under the racist catergory.

It’s funny I’ve never met anyone as angry or as racist as HER. Unfollowed her bull crap.

She needs to go back to her escorting.
Her heads getting to big round here.
 
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Greyson

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My husband overheard that story when I was watching it and he said ‘Who is that? Did that person just say I haven’t had a holiday this year, even in Barbados? Who is this poor love?’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 
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Kittymum33

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I feel for Candice- she has suffered racism from Clemmie and now (albeit indirectly) Clemmie has affected her business. Clemmie could learn from Candice’s grid post.
 
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Greyson

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Organised Motherhood was clear that her stories were aimed at white people not black people or ethnic minorities. She doesn’t need to explain what white privilege is to black people and she wasn’t trying to. Her intention was to educate and open a discussion about racism and the type of white people who say things like ‘I’m not racist, I have a black friend’.

In that respect, the content of what she was saying would not have much interest for Candice.

However, I think it’s incredibly short sighted to brush it off the way Candice did. That’s like me saying I’m not interested in hearing what a man has to say to sexist men about sexism towards women. We need men to be a part of getting rid of sexism. We wouldn’t achieve anything by hating men and being angry all the time.

Candice obviously has valid points to make but she is divisive and I think her prejudice will be her downfall.
 
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Haha78

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I used to really like her but god she is full of herself. Whenever I watch her stories she makes me feel bad for being a white woman.
 
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TanginaBarron

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Now whingeing in her stories about needing a holiday because 'even in Barbados [she] was still posting content' 😂.

I really really hate how she twists everything to her own agenda and frightens people into agreeing with her. She is a bully and does nothing to help tackle racism. Her race her usp and she's using it to gain all kind of privilege.
 
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MrBull

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I’m another who thought CB was a force for good but now i’m not so sure. Really feels like she’s a bit of a bully at times. That “troll” shaming (I didn’t think it was trolling) earlier this week was horrible. Just declare your free holiday FFS.

And that recent post about only posting if she’s paid for it or if it feels good... As a follower of her’s that didn’t land well with me. So she begins by sharing content that people like, she gains lots of followers who like that content, and now she thinks she can just fuck them off unless she’s selling shit to them? What kind of business model is that?
 
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Potatohead

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Jesus Christ this woman 🤦🤦 yes white privilege is a thing and should be acknowledged -however, Candice really should have a disclaimer on her bio stating no one white is allowed to comment . She is nuts and so so angry at everyone white. The video was very powerful and definitely worth sharing -but how does she know this man's story ? How does she know that he hasn't had an upbringing worse than a MOC?? Yes , statistically he would have had it better but it's just vile how she answers anyone white on the threads unless it's a full on arse licking apology for being white.
Honestly it's diluting her message and I can't be the only one that just eye rolls now instead of taking comments on board because if her angry, agressive tone
 

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non binary coat

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Vile woman! She's gained 500 new followers from this so far!

She pimped out other people, was gloating about all the designer stuff she had from pimping out people and was happy to go on national tv to gloat about this.

Lying rat bag piece of shit making out she was a victim in this all.

What about all the women that have long term mental health issues because they were pimped out by candice!?
 
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OliviaPope

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I don’t think we can blame MOD for CB part in a documentary that was filmed years ago.

this kind of thing would have always come to light at some point as that’s what the past tends to do if you go on national telly and as CB has said herself she isn’t ashamed of her time as a sex worker. In the documentary she makes it sound quite glamorous in fact
It came to light 5 months ago on this thread and didn’t affect her in the slightest then until now.

So she can blame MoD for this, if she hadn’t said those remarks about CB, then been all chummy with her on a podcast it wouldn’t have been brought up again.
 
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Instawanker

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It is the hypocrisy of her “keeping it quiet for the children”. I have teen daughters and they can google.
The internet never forgets and why put yourself in the public eye knowing that at some point other children are going to be able to hurt your children with your past.
mod she had just got a regular (non game) job it would possibly have never resurfaced.
She appears like a narcissist would. Thinking of herself and only herself.
 
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