Doesn’t she get enough time to herself in the evenings when she puts him to bed and then ignores him until she feels like getting up in the morning ?I saw someone commented on her video asking if she ever plays with him, because he's usually on the ground by himself, which was exactly what I was thinking. She even happily says that she likes having the time to herself on the sofa on her laptop while he just sits in that same area on the floor.
It’s not good enough for herDoesn’t she get enough time to herself in the evenings when she puts him to bed and then ignores him until she feels like getting up in the morning ?
What video is that on? I can't see it.I saw someone commented on her video asking if she ever plays with him, because he's usually on the ground by himself, which was exactly what I was thinking. She even happily says that she likes having the time to herself on the sofa on her laptop while he just sits in that same area on the floor.
It's the very last comment on her 24 hours with a 10 month old videoShe's never been awake at 6:23 in her lifeSome poor mother must be waking up at 3:15 to avarage out her 9:30 wake up.
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What video is that on? I can't see it.
okay okay poor choice of words on my part thereI don't beleive she has ever "she bent over backwards to be inseminated"
Can I just say I agree with every point you make! Your posts are beautifully written and so true. The way she so desperately wants to be a victim, all the time, in every way. She's never had a job, got taken out of school, parents do everything and pay for everything, never paid rent, never been to uni. She's literally never had a single normal life experience ! yet she thinks she can preach to us like some fountain of worldly wisdom!! Bryony we see straight through youShe loves the phrase solo mum by choice but the implication of ‘by choice’ don’t seem to click for her. Oryn is a choice she bent over backwards to be inseminated with. Caring for him is not unjust labour that requires feminist discourse
I’ve said before I think the notion of ‘motherhood as labour’ is a valuable one, but it comes from the context of heterosexual parental dynamics and mainly impacts to middle and working class women who have to sacrifice paid labour to raise their families. Bryony doesn’t even scrape the edges of that social context but is cosplaying like she’s the centre of it.
Buying into this rhetoric is so effed because it allows her to think of interacting, playing and bonding with Oryn as ‘work’ that she doesn’t want or need to be doing.
This may sound strange but thinking about her life holistically - she has never been in love or had a deep, meaningful friendship. She has never invested any love or care into a non-transactional relationship. Her experience of caregiving has only been paid foster care. I’m wondering if this ‘motherhood = labour’ rhetoric appeals to her because she fundamentally thinks caring for somebody is transactional, even her own baby. She doesn’t know what it is to love and invest energy in another person without compensation. I don’t think it’s something she even wants - her complete lack of interest in other people is the main reason I was open to the idea of her as slightly sociopathic tbh.
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