Bryony Farmer #2 A baby is for life, not just before/after Christmas

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VallegGirl

In my view Bryony would have benefited by having several siblings are not being the star in her's and her parents show. IMO I'm not sure she'd be willing to relinquish her 'star role' even for her baby boy.
 
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jiggy_girl

VallegGirl said:
In my view Bryony would have benefited by having several siblings are not being the star in her's and her parents show. IMO I'm not sure she'd be willing to relinquish her 'star role' even for her baby boy.
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She isn't. That's why she makes out she has a "grizzly" baby with all these health issues. Because it means she's all "me me me"

I don’t know a single baby who sleeps 6pm to 5am. That's insanity, she is SO lucky and yet she still ignores him so she can sleep more.
 
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VallegGirl

It certainly isn't typical but who knows what is her truth v the truth?
 
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x_bethanyy

jiggy_girl said:
I don’t know a single baby who sleeps 6pm to 5am. That's insanity, she is SO lucky and yet she still ignores him so she can sleep more.
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She should go to bed earlier then, rather than staying up until midnight. I get that some people are night people and she might want to have some 'me time', but she has a child now, she can't do what she wants, she needs accommodate his needs and wants. She starts every vlog lying in bed at 9:30. The poor kid spends 15 hours alone in his bed.


jiggy_girl said:
She says her baby is grizzly when he's just hungry
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Or bored/unstimulated.


VallegGirl said:
In my view Bryony would have benefited by having several siblings are not being the star in her's and her parents show. IMO I'm not sure she'd be willing to relinquish her 'star role' even for her baby boy.
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She also would have benefited from staying in school and/or getting a job and getting some real life experiences and socialising with different kinds of people. When her parents allowed her to leave school they reinforced her belief that she was in some way special, different and better than other people her age.
 
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Prinnywoo

I think it’s telling that the only time we have ever seen Oryn laughing and looking engaged in social interaction was with his grandmother in the most recent vlog. Obviously she might just never have captured it on camera in all her many vlogs and insta stories, but he never looks particularly interested in Bryony and her put on “darling”s.
 
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pamperpanda

I thought the same, she said not mummy's blanket and laptop cable your toys are over there look, not getting down on the floor to engage with him. Pop to mum and dad's and they are interacting with him and he's sat engaged + laughing
 
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Kikifluffypolarbear

So she has a cleaner, works very little and has a baby who sleeps a LOT for his age. Then she barely interacts with Oryn when he's awake and doesn't keep the flat today in between cleans anyway. Seems to me she gets more than enough 'me time' tbh.
I think she wanted a baby cos the idea of motherhood and baby related items were her childhood obsession, I honestly worry for that little boy as he gets older.
 
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juy7nhio

Oh it's so bleedingly obvious, he is her meal ticket, her ticket to making friends, her social pass, her project, her 'job'... Never mind the fact she plotted to kill him at 20 weeks gestation because of his gender.

To distract from the fact that she is a workshy dropout - socially abnormal, desperately spoilt and coddled, strange and virginal. I dread what will happen and how she will cope when one of her parents gets a serious illness, because of course it will happen. They're of that age. Or if they die. What the hell would she do? In her last video she was talking about her chats with her parents the way young adults would talk about conversations with their friends or significant others. She's just totally oblivious to how fucking weird her little life is. Exploiting her kid, I expected nothing better from her. Not that he is particularly charismatic or photogenic, poor thing.

I find her narcissism and the childlike way she categorises the world frightening. She hasn't got a fucking clue about the real world. She didn't even finish her GCSEs. Her 'business', propped up by mummy and daddy.

She is so BLINDINGLY autistic it's staggering no one has really picked up on it. She may have self-assessed herself as not autistic, but come on.

Her parents didn't do the ultimate job: raising an independent adult who can navigate the world and fly the nest. She will damage, Oryn no doubt, but it's to what extent. And that's scary to be honest.
 
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sunniva

I think she sees infants as objects and always has.

With a Google search of her name you can find posts on local parenting forums she made aged 16/17 under the username ‘’loveslittletots’’ advertising childcare, being very pushy and strange. She was clearly stunted around this age for whatever combination of real/fake illnesses she had, and obviously became fixated on kids then. Lots of teenage girls look forward to becoming mothers abe enjoy being around children but there’s always been a quality to Bryony’s interest that I’ve found weird… it’s like something vital is missing. Like a respect for the sanctity of other people’s children. Or a feeling of humanity and emotional connection or something.

And it makes sense now we’re getting this insight into her parenthood - as her own baby, he is the ultimate object. Hence the superficial interactions, exploitation of him online, leaving him to sleep for 15 consecutive hours, constantly complaining about bare minimum childcare tasks, how flippantly she talked about aborting or harming him. She isn’t parenting so much as playing, like the stunted teenager she is.
 
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Kendopixie

I haven't watched the video because I'm not sure I could stand her trying to act like a grown-up when she's never had a fucking job in her life, but this reminds me of a really, genuinely upsetting NSPCC advert from the mid-2000s with a young toddler, maybe 18 months old, shaking an empty bottle in his cot while the voice over says "Miles knows that nobody comes, whether he cries or not". Your first sentence just really, starkly reminded me of that advert. Genuine question, has anyone said anything to social services about Oryn?
 
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thegoodnaysayer

Oh god. Just saw those littletots posts. I can't explain it, but I found them chilling?! Something about her is just so so off!!!
 
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Greenfly125

thegoodnaysayer said:
Oh god. Just saw those littletots posts. I can't explain it, but I found them chilling?! Something about her is just so so off!!!
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Creepy even. She declined looking after a 7 year old because she’d prefer under 3s. Enough to set the alarm bells going.
 
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Prinnywoo

thegoodnaysayer said:
Oh god. Just saw those littletots posts. I can't explain it, but I found them chilling?! Something about her is just so so off!!!
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Even the username is creepy, I wouldn’t want to leave my children in the care of someone using that handle
 
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x_bethanyy

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Creepy even. She declined looking after a 7 year old because she’d prefer under 3s. Enough to set the alarm bells going.
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Because seven year olds have an established personality and can talk back to her. She can't treat them like a doll.
 
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sarr19

her username reminds me of Michael Scott’s (from the office US) username, “little kid lover”
 
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smoothie

It gives major creeper vibes. I hope O has people around him as much as possible to safeguard him.

I was disappointed to see someone recommend her as a SMBC to watch online. She shouldn't be indulged and should be monitored by professionals. I don't think NSPCC or her local HV or SS would look kindly on a child being left alone for 15 hours every single day, let alone at 9 months old.
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Because seven year olds have an established personality and can talk back to her. She can't treat them like a doll.
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Or speak up for themselves It really is chilling.
 
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Mooncalf

I'm really curious as to how she'll cope when Oryn actually starts having a personality of his own.
 
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