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I don’t believe the part of the gossip about him doing drugs in the same room with Arrow. Do I think he shoots up heroin with her watching? Nah. But I think there might be some other drug use going on with him, and there is such a thing as a functional alcoholic and drug addict. And as far as letting him have a relationship, she would need to build a case against him before saying he can’t see his daughter. That’s up to the courts. She needs hard evidence, and things like that take time. That’s IF (big if) she wanted to cut him out of Arrow’s life. Arrow is with Brittany a huge portion of the time anyways, and my guess is Cody’s probably using recreationally when he doesn’t have Arrow.
I'm also not sure if Cody is ever actually alone with Arrow.
From what I've seen in videos Brittany has a good relationship with his parents still (even just for Arrow's sake) and while parents always love their child surely they're not blind to it if he is doing hard drugs around his child and would step in to help.
From what I've seen in videos Brittany has a good relationship with his parents still (even just for Arrow's sake) and while parents always love their child surely they're not blind to it if he is doing hard drugs around his child and would step in to help.
Where is the proof or leads that made people believe Cody is doing hard drugs? Just wondering, bc if its just the fact of how he looks or someone guessing thats not really a fair assessment.
No one is claiming Cody does not suck. I agree he sucked especially when she just had a baby and he was acting disinterested in her and her new mom bod after her pregnancy. Simply just saying that it appears he steps up as a father currently based on the comments, pics, and vids I have observed (ones he makes on Brittany’s insta and pictures she posts with him).
Finn is gaslighty as hell. Definitely agree and still believe their relationship ended and/or began having serious issues that came to light Apr 6.
No one is claiming Cody does not suck. I agree he sucked especially when she just had a baby and he was acting disinterested in her and her new mom bod after her pregnancy. Simply just saying that it appears he steps up as a father currently based on the comments, pics, and vids I have observed (ones he makes on Brittany’s insta and pictures she posts with him).
Finn is gaslighty as hell. Definitely agree and still believe their relationship ended and/or began having serious issues that came to light Apr 6.
i could believe it if it’s drugs as in cannabis. And even that in excess can be super irresponsible and dangerous. And shouldn’t be consumed around a baby or toddler or kid regardless.
I’m thinking more along the lines of coke. Weed, I’m sure but that’s legal for rec use in CA isn’t it? Doesn’t make it right to expose kids to it though. If you guys ever read the gurugossiper website there was the rumor put out by Brit’s ex (Jussi) that Cody and her were using coke which Brit denies. And sure he could have just been disgruntled since he also accused her of cheating (which she also denied) and made that up about her, but I believe that Cody at least uses it.
This was extremely sweet to see!
Also I thought it was cool that Cody decided to go on his stories to defend himself about the drug allegations. I know we don’t have the full story of what happened but the relationship between him and Brittany is definitely special.
So I am a little confused about the whole situation with Finn after attempting to watch Brit’s new video. My toddler wouldn’t really let me watch because I excitedly put it on at just the wrong time and tried to watch the whole thing haha. It sounds like he likely did not physically cheat? But was actively stringing along other women through text only? Or was he meeting these women in person too?
I dont know if he physically cheated but honestly there is no way to know for sure. But ya he was mostly texting and stringing other women along from what I can gather watching the video.
also I went back and read some of the texts she had on the screen of the video. This guy was so cringe even from the beginning, some of his grammar was off and he kept saying we have so much in common and i am so excited wayyy too many times. Like bruh you just met. Literally he just was agreeing with whatever she said. Hes pathetic.
im glad cody and his gf posted what they did. I think some people hate on them too much here. Again, not sticking up for them but if you have no proof and want to believe theyre doing drugs because thats what you want to believe thats kinda dumb imo.
Also dating apps are not the safest or best way to meet a partner cus some really shady people use them. I know normal people do too but there is a sea of awful people you have to wade through to find someone decent. The fact that it seemed like everything was too perfect at first sends a red flag but also the way he spoke and had no evidence to back up his acting career or talent management. Ugh hes so cringe as hell makin up these lies! Point I am making - be cautious and careful if you use these apps!
also I went back and read some of the texts she had on the screen of the video. This guy was so cringe even from the beginning, some of his grammar was off and he kept saying we have so much in common and i am so excited wayyy too many times. Like bruh you just met. Literally he just was agreeing with whatever she said. Hes pathetic.
im glad cody and his gf posted what they did. I think some people hate on them too much here. Again, not sticking up for them but if you have no proof and want to believe theyre doing drugs because thats what you want to believe thats kinda dumb imo.
Also dating apps are not the safest or best way to meet a partner cus some really shady people use them. I know normal people do too but there is a sea of awful people you have to wade through to find someone decent. The fact that it seemed like everything was too perfect at first sends a red flag but also the way he spoke and had no evidence to back up his acting career or talent management. Ugh hes so cringe as hell makin up these lies! Point I am making - be cautious and careful if you use these apps!
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Absolutely loved Cody defending himself. Not sure why folks want the guy to be a failure so bad. The coparenting relationship they have is beautiful and he obviously loves his kid. I absolutely understand wanting to keep your kid off of the internet to protect them. Look at the way folks talk about them. Why would someone want to subject their child to the same treatment?
Brittany kept saying he had “relationships” with the other ladies. Whether emotional or physical, it’s all cheating.
ya dorothy a lot of influencers do that to protect their families and personal identity from unwanted attention. I don’t even use my real name on social. It is waaaay too easy to find things on people these days from name alone
I'm probably going to sound really harsh and I don't mean to, I enjoy Brittany's videos a lot and she seems great.
I wish she'd let this Finn / Tik Tok Swindler thing end... I appreciate she said there's more to it she couldn't say due to legalities but everything I've heard is he just seems like he was playing a lot of women at once which yes is hurtful but I don't think needs SO much rehashing, especially as she admitted he did pay her back and has now not reached out to her again.
I wish she'd let this Finn / Tik Tok Swindler thing end... I appreciate she said there's more to it she couldn't say due to legalities but everything I've heard is he just seems like he was playing a lot of women at once which yes is hurtful but I don't think needs SO much rehashing, especially as she admitted he did pay her back and has now not reached out to her again.
I kind of agree, and I sort of think she’s doing it for clicks but maybe she’s still thinking about what happened a lot. Tbh the only way I fully got over (and fully let it go) one of my exes was finding someone new.
Ok so I don't know if I'm the only one who thinks this but why is she friends with that girl Jules? I mean I don't know that person and I'm just a stranger on the internet but something just seems off with that girl, like I she's not someone I would like to hang out with for some reason. I guess they have been friends for a long time but just by watching their stories and interactions sometimes I feel like friction between them like when Jules makes Britany take of her shoes before entering her house and last night I felt like Jules was making fun of Britany on her stories saying "look at her tits", like we all know damn well there's not that much there why do you even say that? Ok I promise I have a life, just wanted to vent on this, it has been on my mind for a while.
I think a lot of the Jules relationship was Brittany (and possibly Cody too) pre-baby partying and hanging out all the time with no real responsibilities. This is how Brittany was before and she is only more responsible now and doesn’t hang out 24/7 with her because now she’s a mom. I just dont think she has a lot of (mom) friends what I can see. It is hard to trust people and meet new people after like the age of 22 so I can understand why Brittany might be like this. Ofc maybe she does have friends that are more private but I feel like she doesn’t really besides Jules bc she’s always talking about how she’s alone with Arrow or isolated so I think she has no one else to turn to right now. I really am surprised she doesn’t have more mom friends just from chatting online tho but maybe she wants to play it safe or maybe she’s antisocial which I get too.
I saw she hung out with Lena the mom on IG one time but she’s a porn star mom so idk lol maybe it didn’t click with them cus I haven’t seen her do a play date with Lena’s kid since.
Wait she did go to that one girls wedding as a bridesmaid so maybe she has more friends but they live far from her now or something. Honestly I have no clue. I do wonder about not having more mom friends tho that she might have more in common with ? cus maybe she could meet people thru the places she takes Arrow like parks or the gym but maybe is not comfortable approaching strangers so so get it lol…
I saw she hung out with Lena the mom on IG one time but she’s a porn star mom so idk lol maybe it didn’t click with them cus I haven’t seen her do a play date with Lena’s kid since.
Wait she did go to that one girls wedding as a bridesmaid so maybe she has more friends but they live far from her now or something. Honestly I have no clue. I do wonder about not having more mom friends tho that she might have more in common with ? cus maybe she could meet people thru the places she takes Arrow like parks or the gym but maybe is not comfortable approaching strangers so so get it lol…
Well, I think that stories where she had to take of her shoes was because Jules was working on a shoot. Usually if you are a outsider or working on a shoot (like make up artists) you must cover your shoes to keep everything clean
from what I saw I really think they were on a shoot!I also find Jules so different to Brittany
but to be fair, I'm also a mom of a 1.5 year old, and none of my friends has babies or is interested in having them. Most of them live their party, normal working life, having boyfriends, drinking, going out every week. I had a child, but my friends are still the same so I think it's actually common. In these modern days most women aren't interested in having babies! I can understand the feeling you all share about their friendship, but friends like that do exist for a woman like us who are mommas
in my circle I'm the only one who bought a home outside the city, has a dog and a baby, and works from home lol my friends are living their best life without any responsibilities yet lmao By the way, I'm happy this thread is more active!!!
I was reading everything and the girl who said she had the tea was so fake
it really sounded like someone who has a personal problem with Cody and wanted to ruin his life.I see what you mean, but I wasn't talking about the fact that Jules is not a mom, it's more like in my opinion she seems kinda shallow. But who knows, maybe I'm just judging as a mom myself, trying to tell my kid not to hang out with "so and so" because they might be a bad influence
I remember that time of the shoot, but I was talking about a few days ago, when they were celebrating Jules birthday, they were hanging out in some apartment, not sure if it was Jules place; she was recording Brittany while she was arriving and when she got to the door Jules said "witch, take off your shoes", and Brittany's expression seems kinda unconfortable, like taken aback. Maybe you guys didn't see that because it was posted on Jules IG story. I'm not saying it was like a super negative moment or anything, I just felt like it bothers Brittany somehow, just like the time she opted to wear those weird shoe protectors because she didn't want to remove her shoes, she looked visibly bothered by the fact Jules was making her take off her shoes. But hey it's not such a big deal anyways, I just hope Brittany finds happiness in any kind of relationship she has, including friends and family.Well, I think that stories where she had to take of her shoes was because Jules was working on a shoot. Usually if you are a outsider or working on a shoot (like make up artists) you must cover your shoes to keep everything clean
I also find Jules so different to Brittany
I can understand the feeling you all share about their friendship, but friends like that do exist for a woman like us who are mommas
By the way, I'm happy this thread is more active!!!
I was reading everything and the girl who said she had the tea was so fake
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