I know I’m not in their situation (but I will be, we are actively recruiting a surrogate for the last 6-9 months & have a way to go yet) but I can’t imagine would there be mixed feelings? I know he’s her bro in law but she also appears to be single. Assuming she is straight(my assumption based on nothing) then he’s a man, giving her attention 24/7, handling her and her bump and as gay as he is and as much as he is family, he’s not blood, she’s carrying his baby and I can’t imagine mixed with hormones that she won’t suffer hurt and feeling alone once baby comes. I know she has been counselled and they have spoken to people but having had a baby and felt all those feelings - at least I had my baby to bring home, I think she’s amazing I just think it has to be so hard and confusing