I’m really sorry to say it guys but we knew she read here & some of the comments about her were awful. Obviously we knew no idea about her mental health struggles but I can’t imagine the comments were not easy to read.
They were, but that wasn't the entirety of the posts. Some were a bit much for me personally, but that's the nature of the site, you scroll on and if it's particularly bad, you can have your say and point it out (my particular gripe is victim blaming, so will pipe up then, others have different things that bring them to post against other posts), but people are free to post within site rules. A lot of thread subjects read their posts but noone knows the status of anyones mental health, so you could say the same about any other thread. You're essentially blaming some of the posters here, which isn't fair.
There were also a lot of posts about his dreadful treatment of women. How do you think she knew about the thread? He will have told her, no doubt.