And a really long time when you have money and don’t have to save for a wedding.
It seems clear as day he wants a mug to raise his children. Eight year long engagement when you don't have money concerns like us working plebs says everything. You can bet he has spent the past week laughing with his mates about all this, while simultaneously pressuring her with "think about the kids, don't ruin our family". Best case scenario is she doesn't turn up today. I remember the morning of my brother's wedding and my sister took him to one side and said "it's not too late to back out", my other siblings lost their
tit at her, but looking back I think it's important than everyone has someone in their life that will do that, that will put a person before expectations, gossip, flowers, catering and all the other nonsense.